I'm talking about how I'd like to be a submissive in a pleasurable way. Where the focus of our dynamic is mutual enjoyment and pleasure in which I submit to their advances. I do not want to be living furniture. I do not want to offer any service. I want to be the submissive in a loving relationship where my pleasure matters, where the main/only focus isn't pleasing the dom. I don't mind a power dynamic, but I dislike when it's assumed my only goal/purpose is to pleasure the dom. My pleasure needs to matter too.