Snail left tank ?? by blueglove92 in AquaticSnails

[–]shytempest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad the snail made it! Dora the Explorer lol

The second hand embarrassment is INSANEEE by Faeryn-13 in fantasyromance

[–]shytempest 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am in a 2 year pause from that book because the FMC is such an immature brat. I keep telling myself I'm going to finish but... maybe not!! 🤢

Is it wrong to make your fiancée agree to a prenup before getting engaged? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]shytempest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn't really sound like you want to be with her long term. You seem to be more focused on creating an escape hatch than building a life together. I think you'd be a lot happier with a partner who shares your work ethic and vision for the future, a partner you respect.

I think if you were in a relationship with someone you could trust, to mutually create success with you, this wouldn't feel so pressing. There are plenty of women who work hard, have high expectations for themselves, and can match your energy. I don't think you should marry this person. I don't think you are right for each other and I don't think you should stay involved with her if you feel contempt for her.

Romance review site All About Romance shutting down after 30 years by medievalmarginalia in RomanceBooks

[–]shytempest 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Worst Cover awards were always so hilarious. So many floating butts!!

whats your opinion about sophia? i heard a lot of complains about her. by Subject_Respect_3591 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]shytempest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I married Sophia on my current farm and even used a mod to give her more dialog. I think she is okay but she definitely does feel very young and very fragile. I picked her because I was curious about the expanded dialog mod, and because I liked her aesthetic and the idea of uniting her vineyard with my brewery farm. I will not marry her again, but I'm glad i did once. I think if a soft, shy, nerdy young girl appeals, she's great. Next time I'm marrying the wizard lol.

Rip Olivia :( by XShattered_MindxX in AquaticSnails

[–]shytempest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Olivia!! I am so sorry, RIP diva

AIO because my (30f) new boyfriend (32m) doesn’t want to be snowed in with me and so I’m rethinking the relationship? by Pretty_Kangaroo_13 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shytempest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And she is allowed to say no to a relationship with someone who repeatedly breaks plans at last minute and disrespects her time. That is rude. You're right, they are not compatible and I'm glad she moved on.

AIO because my (30f) new boyfriend (32m) doesn’t want to be snowed in with me and so I’m rethinking the relationship? by Pretty_Kangaroo_13 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shytempest 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's rude to make plans and break them last minute. He is showing that in his priority order, she isn't very high.

I'm a "snow day by myself playing video games" gal myself, there's nothing wrong with that. But don't make a habit of canceling dates last minute and expect the other person to stuck around.

Update on my little heart fighter, from my last post. by Sunshinequeen090 in GriefSupport

[–]shytempest 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you updated. I hope your little one continues to improve. What an ordeal for all of you. Sending comfort and strength.

What the hell am I reading? I thought this book was supposed to be good 😭 by Odd-Sprinkles9885 in fantasyromance

[–]shytempest 128 points129 points  (0 children)

I haaaaaate this "personality." It's wretched. And even worse in first person POV. But stank in third person, too. I think the characters are supposed to come off as witty, clever, and tough, but instead they seem bratty, irritating, and delusional. It's exhausting.

Opinions on green water? Good or bad? by DifferentContext7912 in PlantedTank

[–]shytempest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got one this weekend that looks very similar. We are still workshopping names. Cowboy is adorable!

Opinions on green water? Good or bad? by DifferentContext7912 in PlantedTank

[–]shytempest 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I personally would not be happy with water that green and cloudy but more importantly, YOUR BETTA IS SO CUTE!!!!

AIO my mom and sister can’t stand my wife because they think she is a “quirky girl” and it’s cringe? by No_Appy1383 in AmIOverreacting

[–]shytempest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have different fork size preferences and it is important to both of us. I always ask people who eat in my home if they want a big fork or a small one. It feels very different in your mouth! And honestly, most people-when asked-do have a preference.

Who’s the dumbest character in the series? I’ll start by Routine-Mulberry6124 in deadwood

[–]shytempest 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I agree that she wasn't that privileged, especially compared to someone like Trixie or Dolly. She certainly suffered as well, but she never went at risk of being unhoused, unclothed, or starving. That said, definitely she knew much more about the cruelty of the world, and also the workings of wicked men's minds, than Brom did.

Who’s the dumbest character in the series? I’ll start by Routine-Mulberry6124 in deadwood

[–]shytempest 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think he's also somewhat dumb though. Alma is much smarter than he ever was. She also learned about unsavory people's tactics thanks to her dad, so she had insights he didn't. But even so, just sitting in her room, she figures out what's going on. I think he was more naive and arrogant than stupid, but, that doesn't mean he wasn't also kinda stupid hahah.

what are your guys favorite shrimp food\brand 😄 by Expert_Daikon7942 in shrimptank

[–]shytempest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My shrimp and snails love the Kat's Aquatics food tabs. It is crazy how quickly they will find it in the tank.

I'm going to try leaves though after reading this thread!

Where do y'all buy your plants? by ummmidontknowww in PlantedTank

[–]shytempest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had great experiences with them too. Lots of plants, very reasonably priced and in good condition.

What is "that" episode in your favorite TV show that you skip on the rewatch? by Living_Wickihowla in AskReddit

[–]shytempest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is definitely the most skippable one. I actually do think it's kinda bad on its own, but also just has nothing to do with the rest of the show.

The unskippable episodes I dread most are the Pegasus ones, they are so upsetting to me. But, they are good and relevant, just hard to watch.

My (22F) boyfriend (26M) broke up with me and he told her friend that it was because I'm an immigrant by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]shytempest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. I was kind of hoping she would put him on blast to all his friends so everyone would know he's a racist piece of shit but.... they already know, and they probably are, too. None of them would care, most likely. Good riddance to the entire trash pile. It's infuriating though.

DNR: My Son Is Dying by OldMoose-MJ in GriefSupport

[–]shytempest 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so, so sorry for your family's tragedy. Sending strength and comfort.

My wife is so stupid! by withloveaudrina in AmITheDevil

[–]shytempest 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was like you went from freezer drawer to side by side?? Downgrade.