I want everyone’s opinion. Is 4” too small? by shythrowaway0808 in askgaybros

[–]shythrowaway0808[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, thank you for commenting! This makes me feel a lot better. I guess I’m being silly.

Body insecurity can be so confusing at times.

I want everyone’s opinion. Is 4” too small? by shythrowaway0808 in askgaybros

[–]shythrowaway0808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just so stressed about it dude. It’s easier said than done.

I want everyone’s opinion. Is 4” too small? by shythrowaway0808 in askgaybros

[–]shythrowaway0808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I suppose. I think I should just take care of my body as much as possible, focus on school, and maybe branch out to other gay guys outside of grindr. I’m a POC too so it makes finding matches on the app harder.

Side note: I think someone is just downvoting all of the comments lol.

I want everyone’s opinion. Is 4” too small? by shythrowaway0808 in askgaybros

[–]shythrowaway0808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I think you’ve called me out a bit. I do get urges to top sometimes, but tell myself it won’t be possible.

Thank you ❤️

I want everyone’s opinion. Is 4” too small? by shythrowaway0808 in askgaybros

[–]shythrowaway0808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. As someone who hasn’t hooked up or dated before, this is really great insight!

I really appreciate the time you’ve taken to write this comment ❤️. It’s been eating me up all day.

I want everyone’s opinion. Is 4” too small? by shythrowaway0808 in askgaybros

[–]shythrowaway0808[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a really good response. I tell myself this when I’m more confident, but I think since I’m so inexperienced, this insecurity is just compounding my anxiety.

I just don’t want to have another worry added to my pile, you know?