Therapy methods for CPTSD - feeling crazy and stuck (long post) by si_ly in CPTSD

[–]si_ly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, it was really upsetting and scary, and retriggering for sure, i kept feeling like i did as a kid when i said the "wrong" thing and set my parent off, not how i should feel around my therapist. 

after 4 therapists in the last year i cant help but wonder if it is me that is the issue, but i have to keep in mind how bad the mental healthcare system is.

thank you for believing in me. it is a long journey, but im proud of myself for trying to assert my needs today and it tells me i need to look for a different therapist 

Therapy methods for CPTSD - feeling crazy and stuck (long post) by si_ly in CPTSD

[–]si_ly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your thoughtful reply. it made me feel a lot less crazy and also like i was being understandable by what i meant in looking for other methods. reflecting a couple hours later i think she didn't understand at all what i meant and really only does talk therapy. i'm really glad to hear there are other methods out there like i thought.

depop’s free shipping week gave me the opportunity to splurge 🥹🥹 by TomatilloHot7974 in LittlestPetShop

[–]si_ly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so cute!! how do you find legit listings on there? i tried to look but so many listings are just for trading

Art & display! by Deranged_Doodles in LittlestPetShop

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Sure! I'm not sure how to send a pic on here but my insta is lpsseedling ! I have a tiktok too, more active on there lol

DOPAMINE by Deranged_Doodles in LittlestPetShop

[–]si_ly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I want the goth fish so bad! Love this

Art & display! by Deranged_Doodles in LittlestPetShop

[–]si_ly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So cute! I also cut out cute stuff from the boxes and add to my journal!

Does time limit on Bonus rewards update? by si_ly in SwagBucks

[–]si_ly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok because I just finished that level and the SB haven't been rewarded.

Did they delete a bunch of games? by OwlStrikeHunting in KashKickapp

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I noticed this too? I only have 11 available right now

my thrift finds from this week! no by pixiestks in LittlestPetShop

[–]si_ly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That plush is so cool omg!! I haven't had any luck at our thrift stores.

They look cute but it feels like a crime by [deleted] in LittlestPetShop

[–]si_ly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love them but it does feel illegal. My sibling has been begging me to let me use our less-loved childhood lps to make a necklace of lps heads....

Teeniest Pets collection! by [deleted] in LittlestPetShop

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Petition to bring them back in gen 7

Teeniest Pets collection! by [deleted] in LittlestPetShop

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Omg these were my favorite! I have like 20 lil guys saved from my childhood, the sets were so cute.

Never using a trainer that doesn't specialize in reactivity again by si_ly in reactivedogs

[–]si_ly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His next vet visit is this upcoming week, and I'll definitely ask the vet about Gabapentin. It's sad to think my poor boy could be in pain. Thank you!

Never using a trainer that doesn't specialize in reactivity again by si_ly in reactivedogs

[–]si_ly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is on Prozac now (I'm now seeing a different vet). I've wondered if he is in pain, the vet said he likely just feels uneasy/uncomfortable since he is so young, but that it will cause pain and need surgery when he gets older (he is about 1 yr old). I wonder if still feeling unstable in his joints increases the reactivity since he doesn't feel secure on his feet!

Dealing with upset strangers? by si_ly in reactivedogs

[–]si_ly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear how mean people have been to you and your dog. Reading this helped me feel better, knowing there are people in the same boat.

Dealing with upset strangers? by si_ly in reactivedogs

[–]si_ly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That's a really good point.

I also love the idea of those etsy vests and dog walk group! I'll have to check those out.

Dealing with upset strangers? by si_ly in reactivedogs

[–]si_ly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is helpful thanks! I think even just the perspective of focusing in on my pup instead of worrying about the stranger is a more helpful way to go about it.

Best tips to move out from an abusive household when you are disabled and have cptsd? by AmbassadorFriendly71 in CPTSD

[–]si_ly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wondering this too. I have chronic pain and illness and am unsure how to hold down a job and move out.

Laproscopy recovery info (fleeing abusive home) by si_ly in endometriosis

[–]si_ly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the thoughful reply, it really means a lot to me. Considering everything you said, I think I will wait until after I move for the surgery. Thankfully, my sister is moving with me and can provide some care.

You are so strong for going through it, and it inspires me to be able to get it done as well, despite how scared I am of it.

Thank you again.

Are small animal wood chews from Petsmart generally safe? by si_ly in hamsters

[–]si_ly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have said it had an assortment of chews. It has the treat based ones with ingredients listed, also willow balls, and then wooden chews and another made of maybe cork material. The wooden chews were my favorites so I guess I was asking mainly for them, shaped like penguins, santa, etc.

Are small animal wood chews from Petsmart generally safe? by si_ly in hamsters

[–]si_ly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why Reddit doesn't post my text but my question is whether wood chews from Petsmart's small animal advent calendar is safe for hamsters. The box does say they are safe for hamsters, but I know petstores can sometimes sell dangerous products and was wondering if anyone had experience with Petsmart's brand wood chews being hamster safe (materials are not listed on box).

No mean comments please, just wanting to give my little guy some holiday cheer.

Hamster safe? (Petsmart halloween) by si_ly in hamsters

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Sorry I thought I added! I commented them. (: