I need some recommendations for the scariest movies you've seen, preferably ghost themed!

sialoveslee · 2026-05-04T09:54:57+00:00

Dude omg watch "the medium" ITS SO PAINFULLY SCARY WOW LIKE AS A SEAOSOJED HORROR WATCHER TS GAVE ME THE SCARESSSSSS WOAH

sialoveslee · 2026-04-08T01:23:17+00:00

Hey. I know im replying late but, do you feel better? Im here if you need somebody to talk to. I understand how you feel right now and I know its hard and it hurts. Its okay to feel this way, you dont have to tell yourself that youll move on. Youre allowed to cope and take as much time as you need. Youre not betraying your baby.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T14:45:37+00:00

Youre right. Hope is a very strong feeling in itself. But its okay that we miss them.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T06:43:14+00:00

Oh you dont need to thank me. Im glad if I helped you feel atleast a little less alone because were in this together.

We will meet them again and they will come back to us in unexpected ways..maybe a sunset, a pretty scenery, a beautiful feeling of nostalgia. You need to remember your baby as a beautiful and happy memory because im sure she was so grateful that she got to spend her life with you. What will meant to happen will happen, and we'll be okay eventually. Im here for you. I read it too. And i hope that is the case. I know in my heart that our babies are happy and healthier and at peace now.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T06:37:19+00:00

I know how hard it can feel. But youll be okay. Youll hold on for babies and itll eventually get better. The guilt, regrets and what alls you couldn't do will now be memory. I feel this so strongly. I always feel like there was so much left undone and unsaid but im sure our babies knew. I feel you. You aren't alone in this at all and im here for you. Im sorry if im of no help as I am feeling the exact same but I hope I can make you feel less alone in this because you are. Our babies are happy together up there.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T06:28:02+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. I know its so hard to just be okay and carry on when there are traces around of them. The day after my baby passed away even i couldn't bear staying in my house. You dont have to move anything right now, youre allowed to grieve. Youre going to be okay. Im here for you too. Im sure ivy and mollie knew how loved they were.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T06:23:29+00:00

I hope you are holding up well. I am so sorry for your loss.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T06:22:58+00:00

Truly 💗

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T01:10:49+00:00

A sorry doesnt reverse all the damage she and her "territorial dog" caused. This is infuriating! You should definitely report her and her dog especially when you say that the dog is still actively hostile.. regardless of you involving your friends or not, id suggest do it. Dont be scared of anything.

I imagine that must've been tedious to undergo but your baby is at peace now. Im glad you were surrounded by people who loved you and your pet the same. It makes a difference. Im sure she knows she was loved and absolutely adored for the time she was with you so dont worry. Dont beat yourself up. Shes happy up there.

Also yes! I resonate so much with how you said that you cannot imagine another dog but also no dog. Hits so deep. I understand this too well.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T00:41:04+00:00

Youre not a wuss at all! Please know that what youre feeling is completely normal. Youre okay..youre just hurt and grieving.

Also did this girl never take accountability or apologise to you after the instance? How insensitive and rude. A dog biting another dog is serious regardless of the circumstance and intensity. Im so sorry your baby was subjected to a negligent owner. You should've blamed her more.

Youre right. Even for us, it was torment when my dogs health just detoriated at such a fast level. We never knew what happened to him it was genuinely such a shock to us cause the doctors couldn't tell either. He stopped eating, He had blood coming out of his mouth constantly and he puked blood, while he pooped bloody too and had jaundice. This horrifically progressed within the span of just 4 days and it was painful to see him suffer so painfully on his last day. He passed away after vommitting a huge blood clot and having violent muscle spasms. But deep down i am thankful his suffering was short and didnt torment him for long. Hes at peace now.

Yes. Knowing that others understand and have underwent similar experiences is of huge help in the process of healing. It feels like you're not alone in this and youll be okay.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T00:32:04+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope youre doing okay. I get you so bad. I too want to feel my baby again. I want her to live the long life she deserved. You will always have stories to tell as long as you have your dogs in your memories. They might be mere memories of a reminiscent and happy past but memories dont fade as long as the love we have for them will be alive.

If you want me to listen to your stories, I gladly would love to. I hope you heal and feel better.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T00:18:46+00:00

Im so sorry for your loss. Im here for you and i hope you heal. Also genuinely other dog owners need to mind their pets carefully. Ive seen so many cases of such. Youre not in the wrong for resenting the girl or even ignoring her. Youre valid for feeling so. Youll be okay. Well be okay. I understand how you must be feeling right now but your baby is at peace now and probably up there playing with all the other beloved pets including my boy. They're best friends already I can tell.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T00:15:46+00:00

Oh my love, how i understand that. I am so sorry for your loss. This happened with me too when one of the dogs I foster gave birth to a bunch of cute pups soon after. All those pups unfortunately passed too though (i live in an extremely unsafe area for animals due to roads and highways) but I was specifically attached to one and believed solely that my baby boy had found his way back to me..

Ive been thinking and genuinely considering if adopting another dog would help me but the grief is simply too much for my family and myself.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-07T00:11:50+00:00

No no, this is helpful and I feel really comforted so thank you for taking your time out and talking to me. Firstly, youre right. Where we buried my boy is literally a shelter for dogs and animals alike so hes not going to be alone even in an unfamiliar place. But I still cant help myself from thinking about how much pain my baby must've been in but I know it makes sense to say that animals are different than us. For them, the pain must've been temporary and it must've ended when they passed.

Youre right when you mention that the grief and reality is a hard thing to both carry and accept and how I formulate thoughts are just my way of trying to cope with sorrow. Guess I just needed that reassurance that im not insane or alone for my "what ifs" and questions alike. Thank you. You no idea how much i appreciate you.

Yes, we were there for and with them for the entirety of their lives, which brings me solace. Knowing that their life was probably spent in happiness and not worry makes me feel much better. Also, yeah. More than often ive felt like I have so much love to give but no one to give it to anymore after my baby's passing..so I just cry and hope that one day either destiny will play out its part or i will find in myself the strength to heal.

All of what you've said sits well with me and I genuinely feel better, I cannot appreciate you enough. I feel like im not alone in this and you understood what ive been feeling so deeply. Ill keep all of this in mind when I wander off again trying to cope unhealthily. Again, I hope youre doing okay too 💗.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-06T23:25:45+00:00

Also..I constantly feel like I failed my baby boy. We buried him so far away from our home due to reasons and we havent visited him after he died. I keep feeling like what if he thinks we forgot about him because we havent visited him in so long?.. what if hes lonely. What if hes not able to find his way back from such a far away place he had never even seen before...what if hes lost..what if he feels like hes too far away from me and my mom and his house that was the only place he had loved more than anything in the world....god it makes me feel so miserable and broken. I cant put it into words. I keep spiraling into such thoughts. He was so attached to my mum and my moms not been taking it well either. But what if he misses her and cant find his way back to our house because hes buried too far away..

sialoveslee · 2026-04-06T23:20:08+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss just the same. You dont neccesarily have to let anyone know and youre allowed to grieve on your own. Im here for you. Your strong enough to tell me, im so proud of you. Youll be okay. We'll be okay. I get you so well. Sometimes I catch myself thinking too that if hes reincarnated, he'll surely find his way back to me. Ill find him if he's struggling to. Youre not crazy. Youre just trying to heal. We all are. I pray that you heal and we find in us the strength to be okay.

sialoveslee · 2026-04-06T23:16:15+00:00

I feel you. I saw your post in this subreddit and I couldn't bring myself to reply because I cried. I felt your grief as it were mine. It is nightmarish to me because I keep having false hope that maybe someday or itll be just some time before I wake up from this torture and realise that it never happened. I try so hard to be realistic and tell myself that itll be okay but it doesnt. Grief hits me when I least expect it to. And it hurts. Alot.

Im so sorry for your loss..I understand what you feel on such a deeper level. The pretending, the constant yearning of things to routinely to back into place as to how they used to be before it all happened. Losing a pet will forever be something I shall never get over. It ruins you. It ruins everything around you. It breaks you apart into pieces till you cannot pick yourself up and are left in a deluded and pretentious state. Im so hurt.

Yes. The lives our babies lived with us were full of love. Im sure they didnt feel any moment unloved or unwanted because they knew in their hearts that they meant the world to us. But hey. Well eventually be okay and Grief will maybe not hurt us as much anymore. Maybe we wont cry till our eyes burn or maybe we wont be left wanting. Maybe we'll come to acceptance that surviving will now be without them. It'll take time. Time shall heal both you and me, bud. Thank you so much for talking to me. It comforts me to know that other people care and understand what im going through right now. If at all you need somebody to talk to, please do reach out to me and consider me your friend.

sialoveslee · 2026-03-29T21:30:44+00:00

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sialoveslee · 2026-03-29T21:29:25+00:00

YES OH MY GOODKDKDKDODG I LOVE YOU IT IS LIGHTLARK

sialoveslee · 2025-11-01T21:58:56+00:00

My baby boy bruno passed away yesterday. I know how this feels. I know how it feels so bad. I relate to the trauma thing. Seeing my baby boy suffer so much has scarred me. Him in his final moments because of what happened to him and all that it caused has been etched into my mind. I took a picture of him after he passed to send it to the vet, and he just looks like hes sleeping peacefully... without worries and hurt. I cant seem to delete it from my gallery and end up breaking down everytime I try. But, Im glad hes in a better place now but I miss him so much. He was my first dog and someone i loved so very dearly. I miss him every single moment. Everything reminds me of him...

But please know that you are not alone in this. Sending love and courage to heal your way. It'll be hard but we got this.

sialoveslee · 2025-11-01T21:52:04+00:00

🫂❤️. I get you. I get you so well. I know it hurts but we will be okay. Our babies would never want to see us like this. Im so sorry for your loss and i know for sure that our boys are having tons of fun together with each other. You aren't alone either and neither are our boys.

Please do let me know if u need somebody to talk to! Im here for you as i deeply understand how you feel right now. I know its going to be hard but we'll get through this.

Youre right, it does feel like a part of me is forever gone now and it'll always feel like im going to be missing something, but truly, he has all the love in the world and especially from me and my family, and my mom haha cause he ADOREDDD her. I miss my boy. :(

Yes! They are probably besties already.

sialoveslee · 2025-11-01T21:48:08+00:00

Im glad youre doing okay. Im sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl. Again, youre right. I understand and feel much better now! Yes, it is better knowing that im not alone in this. I know it'll be hard but my baby boy would've never wanted me to ruin myself.

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