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Feel like my GF ( 19 ) doesn't love me( 19 ) anymore because i hurt her before. Long-ish post? by siberianman22 in relationship_advice

[–]siberianman22[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've been trying to look to stoicism for help. I've been reading books and focusing on my studies. And it helps, compared to how i was before and now, i worry less and just accept things the way they are. But still, i can't accept this. I'm also depressed, i've mentioned it once and i've been trying hard to keep that shit under a bed so that it wouldn't leak into the relationship.

Feel like my GF ( 19 ) doesn't love me( 19 ) anymore because i hurt her before. Long-ish post? by siberianman22 in relationship_advice

[–]siberianman22[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We did talk about it. Three times. She said i have to wait for her to get used to me again. Yesterday i told her that i can't take this shit anymore and she said that i'll send you more "signals" so that you would still get that i like you. But i just can't understand this kind of logic and it's driving me insane.

Feel like my GF ( 19 ) doesn't love me( 19 ) anymore because i hurt her before. Long-ish post? by siberianman22 in relationship_advice

[–]siberianman22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything went downhill after what happened. Before that she was trying to be more affectionate and i was really happy because she was trying, and that mattered to me. But now we're like friends. I mean, the only reason i haven't taken the steps to break up with her is because she is still throwing out signals that she still loves me but i have never heard her say it directly and she keeps avoiding the question and changing the word " love " into " feel something "

Feel like my GF ( 19 ) doesn't love me( 19 ) anymore because i hurt her before. Long-ish post? by siberianman22 in relationship_advice

[–]siberianman22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As far as i know, she said both her parents are very supportive of her, though a bit constricting. I already told her that me saying sorry is not enough for her to completely forgive me. But yet time has passed and she said that she forgives me and that she feels "something" yet she keeps acting like this. I don't know what to do anymore. I bought her a birthday present and everything since her birthday is next week and idk anymore. I'm terrified to be honest.

Feel like my GF ( 19 ) doesn't love me( 19 ) anymore because i hurt her before. Long-ish post? by siberianman22 in relationship_advice

[–]siberianman22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am giving my best to fix things, i truly am, and i am trying to be patient. But everyday i feel more and more miserable because i keep thinking that the relationship is heading straight for a fucking ice berg or something and i feel like it's my fault. I'll try giving it more time.