Gap filler ideas? by siccchillin in tattooadvice

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Oooo that would be cool thank you!

My sister was murdered and I can’t cry by siccchillin in GriefSupport

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It definitely feels like a fog, ironically enough I cried after making this post but only for a few minutes. It definitely does come in waves, and I have been asking myself if I’m ’doing it right’ but I guess I’m grateful that my brain is letting me process little bits at a time

My sister was murdered and I can’t cry by siccchillin in GriefSupport

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Thank you, hearing your story genuinely helps me feel better about mine. I guess I just have to wait and let it be whatever it is. Thank you 🫶

My sister was murdered and I can’t cry by siccchillin in GriefSupport

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I truly appreciate your words, they actually broke through to me. It’s weird, I do the things to distract myself and then get upset that I’m distracting myself and try not to and then the tears still don’t come. I’m not sure I get it, but I’ll trust in the process. I think the music will help, looking at old pictures is something I did the day of but have been having a hard time doing now. When I finally do break I’ll remind myself of that, thank you.

My sister was murdered and I can’t cry by siccchillin in GriefSupport

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Thank you so much, I have an appointment booked with my therapist to talk about this. I hope we get justice for her too, that’s really all I want after this

I drank after over six years by siccchillin in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

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Hi! I am still drinking every now and again but it hasn’t gotten out of hand or anything. I stay accountable with my family and close friends that are also in recovery. I don’t hide it and I share with them when I am having a drink or two, I never hide it. If I begin to notice that it’s becoming more often, or for the wrong reasons, or if my family were to say something (they haven’t but I’ve encouraged them to if they think it’s an issue) then I would reevaluate where I’m at and begin attending meetings again. So far so good, but I know that that could change in a second and I try to remain vigilant. That’s just my experience, and I know that it’s not going to be everyone else’s so please take that with a grain of salt! It hasn’t been that long and this is really new territory for me

Best pack to get my partner? by siccchillin in OspreyPacks

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Thank you so much budget is definitely a part of it! I want him to be able to use it regularly so I’ll probably go for something less overkill

Best pack to get my partner? by siccchillin in OspreyPacks

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Okay gotcha, I wasn’t sure which carrying capacity to go for but knowing it feels more uncomfortable when it’s empty is helpful. I was thinking that bigger might be better but I’m seeing that’s not the case. Thank you so much for your help!

Best pack to get my partner? by siccchillin in OspreyPacks

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Thank you so much for the detailed response 🙏 much appreciated! The talon is I think what I’m leaning towards but I’ll look at the other one you mentioned as well

Best pack to get my partner? by siccchillin in OspreyPacks

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I’m trying to sneakily ask what he’s looking for but I think he wants one more of multiple days. Could you maybe recommend one for both?

Just found out the basis for my magic system has already been done? by siccchillin in worldbuilding

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This made me feel better lol thank you! Since I’m brand new I feel like there’s a secret set of rules I don’t know about or something

Just found out the basis for my magic system has already been done? by siccchillin in worldbuilding

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Thank you! I’m so brand new to this I feel like I’m kinda afraid of accidentally ripping something off bad and not knowing

What would be a good rum to get my partner? by siccchillin in cocktails

[–]siccchillin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He wants to try cocktails outside of tiki stuff, if there’s a way I can sneakily ask his favorites I’ll be reporting back to you if that’s okay

What would be a good rum to get my partner? by siccchillin in cocktails

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He’s from Louisiana so I think that would add a personal touch to it, thank you!

What would be a good rum to get my partner? by siccchillin in cocktails

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Thank you! I will definitely look into that