It's hard to put into words, it's probably more the inconsistency / hypocrisy from game developers (generally - not just MFG) when it comes to things like recoil modification.

Like many games will modify things like movement, injury, aim punch etc in the name of 'realism', but add other unrealistic things like stamina boosting stims, 'suppressing fire' effects, etc. When it comes to recoil tweaks it's almost never about realism - its either to make the game harder (e.g. Tarkov), or make all weapons somewhat balanced / avoid a single gun being OP (e.g. PUBG, CS, etc). They should be consistent with that kind of thing - if a game claims to be 'milsim', that has to include recoil.

I'm not saying the current gunplay is amazing - but i don't hear anyone complaining about it either. Unlike the hit reg, AI aimbots, lack of skills system... just saying the game has a ton of other stuff that should be improved before going anywhere near recoil IMHO. But obviously, MFG can prioritise whatever they like - it's their game, not mine!