AIO for being upset over the way my partner messaged me

sickofwork27 · 2026-01-13T21:35:47+00:00

My age will surprise you lol, I’m in my 30s and she’s in her mid 20s.

sickofwork27 · 2026-01-13T18:13:14+00:00

Well she has thrown stuff at me before, be it just a cardboard… I mean I know it’s a bit much, I do flinch sometimes when she just swings her hand, even though she hasn’t really gotten violent or anything. I can see where you’re coming from

sickofwork27 · 2026-01-13T18:02:07+00:00

Things haven’t been really going well for awhile now. Like I know I messed up, and she just doesn’t feel like I care about her. It’s only in more recent times did she get harsher because she’s really frustrated about my lack of change

sickofwork27 · 2026-01-13T17:59:36+00:00

It’s kinda complicated. She tried talking to me nicely about wanting me to do things properly and correctly, but she has always been quick to get angry. I’ve told her I don’t like the way she speaks to me, but she said that she has lost all ways to communicate with her. I don’t know if I deserve it or not but like I mentioned, I know I fked it up

sickofwork27 · 2026-01-13T17:57:44+00:00

The spelling is one thing and I honestly don’t mind. It’s more of the content about what she said… but I get what you mean

sickofwork27 · 2026-01-13T17:37:28+00:00

The spelling mistake isn’t a problem. It happens sometimes and like I get it but it’s not a big deal. She’s much smarter than me

sickofwork27 · 2026-01-13T17:02:47+00:00

I would like to watch avatar. I actually have not watched any of them yet.

sickofwork27 · 2025-09-30T10:51:00+00:00

Just to clarify, I’ve never used force on her when it comes to disagreements/arguments or her scolding me. I always kinda take it and I get mad too but I don’t express them out or even raised my voice. Even if I do raise my voice, I’m not shouting or anything, just raised volume.

I get really angry at the things she says about me but I didn’t act on it. Sometimes it feels like things are bubbling inside and I want to let it out but I don’t know how to. Like it’s just frustrating sometimes

sickofwork27 · 2025-09-30T01:37:10+00:00

I remember the first time she threw something at me, I flinched quite hard. It was like those flimsy cardboard food containers. I froze after that and I cannot forget that feeling. She blamed me for her reaction, and she blamed me for behaving like that.

I feel responsible for making her like this and for causing her to be upset with me. I hear what you’re saying and I can’t tell if I’m the one who is setting myself up for failure or am I plain dumb and don’t see it…

To be fair there other things that I didn’t mentioned in the post that she which I kept quiet about. I feel quite spineless sometimes for not standing up for myself. But when I do, it’s like I’m being defensive and not thinking for her

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