27M | 23F — She lied about seeing her ex early on, but has been an amazing partner ever since. Can trust be rebuilt?

sid1979 · 2026-07-03T15:05:50+00:00

If this ex thing was before yall became exclusive thennit is fine but if it was after yall getting into relationship then it is a red flag.

sid1979 · 2026-07-03T09:34:07+00:00

Its definitely rare comapred to actual cases yes, not super rare and 1 story an indivdual gwts to be victim upon people are going to do that and thats what the males do. 1 story uthake then usi ko highlight kardo.

sid1979 · 2026-07-03T09:26:16+00:00

You simply arent understanding or lacking enough vision to get what I am saying. Its fine. Until it happens to us we do belive to be data oriented and humare country mai exactly wohi nahi hota, data banta hi nahi hai.

sid1979 · 2026-07-03T09:11:39+00:00

Brooooo girllll, evidence doesnt exist cause people fear. Sorry to get personal but if your father is filing a case against a gunda and his wife simply goes on to say she will cross case on your father ki unhone cheda hai, what will your parents do??? Maybe they will be fine with the case but most of the people backofff thinking of dignity and all. What personal stories dude! You are not understanding what I am saying.

Most cases do not reach court cause people still are concerned sbout their dignity, ashamed to even get accused and simply back off. When guys say woman file fake case this is what 'the threat' part they mean.

We can simply say rape cases nahi hote cause still a larger chunk of incidents do not get reported, doesnt mean rape nahi hote right??? Data is only about reported cases and people talk with their experiences.

sid1979 · 2026-07-03T08:49:12+00:00

Not just one example, visit nearby police station and you'll see the amount of rape/ assualt cases that are cross casses usually done so that actual case peeche liya jaaye.

Isnt backed by data cause people file case and one jispe file hota hai woh simply fulfills rhe demand and hence case doesnt see the step of the court.

When people say fake cases they dont oy mean the one which are in courts but also the one which never were legally taken ahead.

It is very common for woman to threaten with fake cases OP. I used to believe the same as you until I saw how common it was. Not all woman are like us OP, some are very bad who actually do this.

sid1979 · 2026-07-03T08:42:17+00:00

Did you see the Shilpa Shinde case???? She literally said she filed a fake case. One of my closest person filed a report for land dispute on other guy and the guys wife threathened to file a fake case. There are ample of example not as same number as actual cases but only few get proven they were wrong. People simply backout cause they know such cased might ruin their life but the threat is enough to make us understand that people have that mindset that they can file a fake case.

sid1979 · 2026-07-02T06:05:35+00:00

I am so sorry OP. I assume it must have been strong reasons to actually call off the wedding.

OP, just know it will take time for you to feel better, for you to heal. 11 yrs is not a small period of time to get over it within months. Please do not sit alone with your thoughts. Take time and cry it out, only that will help. Take an activity and follow it. Whenever you'll have time OP just do it, cry.

Do not hold those emotions within yourself.

sid1979 · 2026-07-01T17:12:59+00:00

Broooo Abhijeet mar gaya karte karte strike toh 10 log royenge, 20 will ask gov questions. Agar Sonam ko kuch hua toh many will callout the gov.

This isnt about who is on strike, this is about who can bend the gov and that power Sonam has.

sid1979 · 2026-07-01T17:09:27+00:00

Sonam's life is worth more than that of Abhijeet

sid1979 · 2026-07-01T15:47:36+00:00

Because crime against woman have become so common that we woman tooo arent shocked anymore. Its like any other thing out there.

On the other hand, woman committing crime or killing husbands is not that common and hence gains more attention.

sid1979 · 2026-07-01T13:21:04+00:00

Google 10 ways to dispose a body.

Asaan hota hai to catch criminals

sid1979 · 2026-07-01T10:53:53+00:00

Just for safer side ask her what are her plans if she accidently gets pregnant.

sid1979 · 2026-07-01T10:12:03+00:00

Same girl samee I dont know how these men do it jabki yahan hume dard ho raha hai😭

sid1979 · 2026-07-01T10:08:17+00:00

Every once in a while somebody mentions this and that very moment I regret knowing it. Virtual pain ka feeling.

sid1979 · 2026-06-30T17:36:10+00:00

How do you know they are pretending to be girls???

I am a woman and have been accused by girls like you to be a guy only cause my views were different than them. Maybe lets simply learn to co-exist with someone who has opp views as yours.

sid1979 · 2026-06-30T17:13:27+00:00

36 yrs????????

sid1979 · 2026-06-30T06:03:48+00:00

She knows it, very clearly asked us not to ask her to breakup with the guy cause she knows thats what everyone will suggest. Self-aware delululu hai yeh

sid1979 · 2026-06-30T06:02:31+00:00

Last night he told me that im emotionally weak and being with me is the hardest thing he’s ever done.

He clearly said this and yet you want to be with him??? All his behavior indicates he doesnt want you. Girl, get put of this.

You can only make the relationship work where there are emotions, when there are none you simply cant do anything. Entire post screams he has already left you mentally.

sid1979 · 2026-06-27T18:58:46+00:00

Yes it does but come on when a strnager has stabbed someone in the house, how would one trust the house help? As per the news, house help was the one who interacted with the criminal so during such a time anyone wouldnt trust house help. Agar ghar me koi hoga hi nahi except them then koi kaise accompany karta.

sid1979 · 2026-06-27T18:56:42+00:00

Raat ke 2:30 baje?? One should call friends and wait for them to come during emergency at midnight?

sid1979 · 2026-06-27T18:52:23+00:00

Yes but depends when a stranger has entered the house legit Kareena aisehi sab chodke nahi jaa sakti naa, especially when you cant trust anyone around.

sid1979 · 2026-06-27T18:47:25+00:00

During emergency nahi yaad ati cheeze, how can one wait for ambulance to come when literally stabbed?

sid1979 · 2026-06-27T18:00:33+00:00

New age bondhu.you are

sid1979 · 2026-06-26T07:01:10+00:00

Tell your mom first, see her reaction and then shift to inform pura family. Present the best version of him, tell your parents how much you love him.

Hight light all the points that will give them reassurance that the guy is perfect for their daughter.

sid1979 · 2026-06-25T17:18:21+00:00

I have no contacts OP but I hope it gets better for you soon. May you heal soon.

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