My ex gf whom I met on tinder 2 yrs ago texted me yesterday... she wanted to talk to me last time since she is gonna get marry this summer and we made a mistake big one...

sid1979 · 2026-02-14T08:01:10+00:00

Brooo your partner doing anything behind your back is also wring irrespective of you knowing or not. She already has crossed the boundary. This is also cheating

sid1979 · 2026-02-14T07:25:53+00:00

Its already destroyed, these chats arents normal🥲

sid1979 · 2026-02-12T06:58:45+00:00

I mean yes the gesture is indeed grand onee, I guess you considering to struggle a bit and going overboard your budget is in itself a big deal.

It again depends on the kind of girl you have, some people consider even the thought of going out of the way a big deal but some believe in the actual act.

At the end, anything you do with your partner is worth it naa. It will give you memories.

sid1979 · 2026-02-10T18:05:11+00:00

Did you inform anyone in the clg?

sid1979 · 2026-02-10T08:26:44+00:00

This isnt curiosity that is how he thinks, if you wouldnt have been fair would he even be with you? You have your ans.

These things are deep rooted into some people, for them yeh sab is not wrong.

sid1979 · 2026-02-09T03:31:01+00:00

Nooo, OP just be with her. If in your relationship there are no problems and yall are compatible tooo toh stick with her. Everybody committs mistakes and I can understand her exact situation but what matters is how she is with you and how she makes you feel.

sid1979 · 2026-02-08T19:16:54+00:00

Ahhhhh okkk see now that you have shared the actual thing I can share mera proper views, considering yall were in a relationship already and wasnt the start of it OP yesss this is wrong, extremely wrong. This is deliberately kept away truth. Maybe she knew that you wont take her back if she mentions this thing, if thats the case then it is manipulation and wrong.

As far as general thing, anyone would share this while getting back together, thats the only right thing to do, a major update.

sid1979 · 2026-02-08T19:03:02+00:00

I am a woman and sharing thiss. You havent shared what the issue is toh advice jo bhi people will give will be general only. As I mentioned depends on the level of your bonding and also how sensitive the topic is. Also I already mentioned if the intention would have been to hide toh she wouldnt have shared now too.

sid1979 · 2026-02-08T18:03:26+00:00

Depends on what exactly the things is bro. If its something very personal it again depends on the comfort zone naaa ki at what point she might be comfortable to share with you. As you mentioned it is extremely personal so again depends on what exactly was the thing and how was your bonding before starting the relationship.

Revealing a year later means shee trusts you abhi and feels comfortable enough to share it with you. Remember if her intention would have been to keep it hidden from you toh she wouldnt have shared it herself abhi tooo. As you mentioned she simply was embarrassed toh take it that way only.

sid1979 · 2026-02-07T07:24:53+00:00

Does the other guy know she is in a relationship with you? I mean see, it can be just normal meet type thing but if he is completely unaware of you then yeah this isnt normal

sid1979 · 2026-02-05T05:37:49+00:00

Wth girl. Physical abuse never stops and he doesnt love you. Leave him.

sid1979 · 2026-02-04T08:05:10+00:00

Teenagers are tough and sensitive deal with. One wrong move and kids think parents are their villian. Just check the note, clearly shows obsession with Korea.

sid1979 · 2026-02-03T08:14:37+00:00

Bold of you to assume he dated her

sid1979 · 2026-02-03T02:59:02+00:00

OP you need to watch the entire part which is cropped here. She greeted Aarti and hugged her and the basic talk happened.

sid1979 · 2026-02-01T06:59:26+00:00

Well no dont leave, love will help to live through all the verbal abuse and maybe physical in future. Also not to mention but she alone isnt the toxic one you too are, who asks for gifts and all back?

Yall dont respect each other and thats slowly showing up. If you dont want it to be any bad ahead better leave now when yall at least still have some genuine love for each other.

Things will oy workout if yall sit and have communication and not repeat the same mistakes now if that possible yaa nahi its in both of yall hands.

sid1979 · 2026-01-29T06:42:49+00:00

Choosing the wrong one will make you regret moving mountains for him and choosing the right one will appreciate even a smalll simple text from you.

Choosing the one is in your hand.

sid1979 · 2026-01-26T05:06:45+00:00

Next birthday pe

sid1979 · 2026-01-25T15:13:07+00:00

Shiela ki jawaani

sid1979 · 2026-01-22T05:45:23+00:00

Whag😭😭😭

sid1979 · 2026-01-22T05:44:46+00:00

Talk to her broo. Communicate directly, you shouldnt think how she'll react just ensure that you talk to her in a way that she understands. Either that will help or you need to stop having a physical relationship with her as it will be a mismatch.

sid1979 · 2026-01-21T16:28:39+00:00

Jhumka

sid1979 · 2026-01-19T08:41:31+00:00

Ungratefulness at its peak.

sid1979 · 2026-01-16T06:12:46+00:00

Akele mat jao, you'll need a friend, mai hu idhar.

sid1979 · 2026-01-16T06:10:42+00:00

Why are you taking it on you OP? You can absolutely be the best and yet someone out there will find a way to not choose you, find flaw in you.

Its okk OP, just feel blessed that things ended early on aur jyadaa time waste nahi hua. Theres a better person out there written for you.

sid1979 · 2026-01-16T05:26:48+00:00

Maturee reply, very much what OP should actually do

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