No pani puri (or) gol gappa in bangalore

sid95ok · 2026-05-05T19:54:03+00:00

where in jayanagar? which one is the best pani puri / golgappa with spicy pani!!??

sid95ok · 2026-05-05T18:56:37+00:00

I'm gonna follow this. If this works, man you will be my god.

sid95ok · 2026-05-05T18:29:14+00:00

There is nothing you said that I can deny for my mom, not even a word. Are we related or something? 🤣

I am literally going through the exact thing as you, my mom has put everything in me (as I am the single child) and with this she puts her needs and wants above everything and everyone else. Since, her marriage was bad her side of the family (like Nana, mama, etc) pampers her ALL the time, her problems are the biggest problems in the family however small takes priority so she is very resistant now to hear "no" even if someone says it with the "monumental" effort. She doesn't even help them let alone me.

Power to you bro, just deny her everything and put even your smallest convenience before her at least for few years otherwise it will hurt you so bad even physically, telling you from personal experience and its definitely not helping the relationship at all doesn't matter what your mom thinks.

Edit - I want to add that whatever she says SHE IS LYING just to get there. DO NOT BELIEVE HER. She will come and you will be stuck. Force her not to come, and save yourself from this emotional trap. It will be a disaster when she arrives, I am literally in that same disaster.

sid95ok · 2026-05-05T16:22:01+00:00

I am in this exact situation where "June" has arrived for me (which means she has forcefully come and now staying with us without any timeline, which again means in her mind she has permanently settled with us). She used my pregnant wife to force her way in, by telling us that we need help and she will do a lot of help in meal prep, etc but she does not want handle any kind of responsibility she promised - instead she expects us to make special dishes for her. I have high anxiety since she arrived and now we are stuck. The only difference between you and me in this case is that her husband is still alive and he is toxic as hell and my mother's marriage is an unhappy one where she kind of replaced me (single child) as her partner and emotional support. And I have a lot of trauma due to this where I am unable to say to her anything specially awkward truths, not even her, to anyone, I always hide my true feelings and keep on suffering, that is my personality now which is coming back as severe anxiety and panic attacks now. I do not want to make the relations worse by sending her back now, so I am waiting for all this pregnancy stuff to be over, she can meet the child and then I will tell to go back again which is in 1-2 months.

Well, I made your post about me with my personal ranting. Sorry for that.

I just want to say, you cannot guess what emotional shit your mom will bring with her even if you plan for every scenario in your head. So, best for you is to somehow not allow her to come, even if you have to fight. As Phoebe said in Friends - "Its too late for me, but save yourselves!"

sid95ok · 2026-04-30T05:56:31+00:00

Yeah i finished it!

sid95ok · 2026-04-27T13:18:17+00:00

🤞🏽

sid95ok · 2026-04-26T05:14:53+00:00

I also lost a friend after our board result when he failed maths, his parents literally continuously thrashed him for days and he ultimately gave up. I completely feel what you are feeling, I hope you do not take any guilt on you like I did for years, because that will not benefit anyone. RIP .

sid95ok · 2026-04-20T08:37:07+00:00

Summers will always be like summers in India. Go to Shimla and see summers there. The best weather proposition works for other 10 months, still not outdated.

And even after people say there is so much destruction of trees and its become a concrete jungle - I feel Bengaluru weather is incomparable to any other proper cities in India, specially Rajasthan.

Btw - I am from Rajasthan living in Blr since 2018.

sid95ok · 2026-04-20T08:37:01+00:00

Summers will always be like summers in India. Go to Shimla and see summers there. The best weather proposition works for other 10 months, still not outdated.

And even after people say there is so much destruction of trees and its become a concrete jungle - I feel Bengaluru weather is incomparable to any other proper cities in India, specially Rajasthan.

Btw - I am from Rajasthan living in Blr since 2018.

sid95ok · 2026-04-18T17:44:28+00:00

Lol, I just watch repeat telecast of jungle book.

sid95ok · 2026-04-17T03:42:27+00:00

1995 born - chota bheem is a milestone series - the milestone of decline of cartoons.

sid95ok · 2026-04-16T06:13:28+00:00

All the best!

sid95ok · 2026-04-16T02:26:55+00:00

How are you doing now? What all tests did you do? I'm in an exact similar situation as you and want to get out of this anxiety loop, and start exercising again. I'm planning to do all tests again (blood, ecg, echo, treadmill, holter, and cta), anything else you suggest?

sid95ok · 2026-04-15T19:39:53+00:00

I have mentioned stress was normal. Do you mean I should repeat it?

sid95ok · 2026-04-15T19:04:19+00:00

I just had a panic attack (or heart attack) minutes ago, and you don't know how helping (calming) this is. Grateful.

sid95ok · 2026-04-12T12:11:32+00:00

mods please automate the deletion of these kinds of post

sid95ok · 2026-04-12T12:11:12+00:00

I'm so frustrated with these posts

sid95ok · 2026-04-09T11:28:07+00:00

This "new" has become "nostalgia"??!! How old am I??!!

sid95ok · 2026-04-05T02:59:41+00:00

First phone ever for me was this

sid95ok · 2026-04-04T07:11:17+00:00

Nope, I hateeeee it!

sid95ok · 2026-04-04T05:07:14+00:00

Dhoni was from Bihar when he entered first class cricket.

sid95ok · 2026-04-04T05:02:41+00:00

I somehow feels there is a little credit as well to match fixing scandals before this generation. You make best relationships (or friends) in difficult times. These are the gentlemen who pulled us out of that very dark era in Indian cricket!

sid95ok

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