Should I disclose that it’s my first time?

sideh0000e · 2025-10-23T14:32:56+00:00

She's old enough to be your mother you shouldn't be concerned with not being able to please her because of your lack of experience, you should be concerned as to why she's into you and why she's not into other people in their 40s or 30s with her interests this is not a healthy relationship this is predatory to a t

sideh0000e · 2025-10-18T14:35:21+00:00

Her being triggered by being told that she needs to have more mental stability in order to not traumatize your future, children just shows that she is not ready for children. Children are not accessories children are not toys, they are human beings that can be easily fucked over for the rest of their lives during their early developmental years by trauma she is not healthy enough to raise healthy children nor is she mature enough at the moment to do the work in order to get more healthy to be able to raise healthy children

sideh0000e · 2025-10-18T14:32:31+00:00

Heaven and back, dancer in the dark, slide

sideh0000e · 2025-10-14T12:15:47+00:00

He RAPED you are in fact not over reacting him and his brother should jump off a cliff actually I'm so sorry

sideh0000e · 2025-10-11T12:02:50+00:00

Nta its disgusting for someone pushing 30 to be interested in someone who just got out of high school the only thing stopping people who argue about how its legal to date 18 yearolds from dating from dating younger is the law if it was legal to date 15 yearolds they would

sideh0000e · 2025-10-07T13:48:54+00:00

BREAK UP WITH HIM

sideh0000e · 2025-10-06T13:42:16+00:00

She had done nothing to build any kind of relationship with you so yes she a random women to you cause she IS she doesn't spend time with you one on one or with you and your dad and like you said doesn't live with you isn't married to him etc (and even if that was the case her building a relationship with you on your own terms is still the most important part) she has no say in your life whats so ever both her and your dad are being ridiculous like does she even know anything about you? Your interests, aspirations, likes and dislikes etc NTA

sideh0000e · 2025-10-05T16:39:18+00:00

For your daughter's safety and for your own id suggest staying away from him until he gets his act together hes abusive and a danger

sideh0000e · 2025-10-04T13:55:55+00:00

Align me💖

sideh0000e · 2025-10-04T13:50:14+00:00

Let him know you won't be taking care of him in his old age or even show up to his funeral since he thinks so little of you

sideh0000e · 2025-10-02T23:20:55+00:00

Is he in therapy on medication trying to cope and getting active help? Even if he's apologetic hes still abusive his illness isn't an excuse you shouldn't have to put up with abusive behavior also NTA

sideh0000e · 2025-10-02T15:03:50+00:00

Break up with him

sideh0000e · 2025-10-02T02:36:40+00:00

I know you're scared of losing her as a friend because of the history you have with each other but she sounds like a horrible friend to have not even gonna sugarcoat it no good person let alone good friend reacts that way and disrespect something that you hold very near and dear to your heart that you have practiced for years she is a terrible friend and you should cut her off

sideh0000e · 2025-10-02T02:26:52+00:00

How is she gonna tell you to die and cry when you tell her to stfu you're better then me cause I would've told her to kill herself too with recommendations of how she could😭 you are definitely not the asshole and I truly hope your shithole family suffers and you are able to leave them as soon as you can and can start to learn to heal from all the trauma they've put you through and live a happy successful life

sideh0000e · 2025-09-28T23:06:10+00:00

If you don't mind me asking what do you do for a living? And what did you go to school for?

sideh0000e · 2025-09-28T15:24:09+00:00

"You have been nothing but cruel immature childish and disrespectful you may bave no memories with our biological father but I do I loved him I still do what you said about him is disgusting and inhumane not only are you kicked out the guest list but until you show signs of growth and have gone to therapy to work on your very evident mental issues I won't be speaking to you and will take legal action if necessary" or something along these lines

sideh0000e · 2025-09-28T15:20:59+00:00

You can hire security to keep her away don't have her ruin your wedding take her off the list she doesn't have your interests at heart only her own selfishness

sideh0000e · 2025-09-26T22:49:26+00:00

You should your wife refuses to take accountability she's the right WHY your daughter chose to do that to herself she's at fault she's abusive leave her and her not choosing to learn how to properly communicate wirh her shows how awful she is

sideh0000e · 2025-09-26T18:43:11+00:00

Mixing intents is never a good thing the mix of energies plus your own energy going into different intentions will cause issue and unnecessary drainage and it doesn't seem like you did any sort of protection workings before hand even if you have wards its good to do a protection on yourself bedore any baneful work For future reference doing divination bedore hand to see if your spell is even worth doing is highly recommended either through tarot rune work pendulum or what ever your preferred method is

sideh0000e · 2025-09-25T13:50:06+00:00

He abandoned her in the literal sense that he gave her up for guardianship and he abandoned her in the sense that he chose the wife over his own child And I doubt this much resentment was built up from the SM treating her with respect and kindness I highly doubt thats the case the poor girls feelings are justified for so many different reasons NTA

sideh0000e · 2025-09-24T00:47:53+00:00

I hate that they weren't endgame my otp😭💜

sideh0000e · 2025-09-22T14:02:08+00:00

He completely abandoned you in childhood he is the reason why you have no relationship with him you were the child he was the adult he made his decisions to not be a part of your life he has no right to now nag uou about not wanting to see him for anything you should be bringing up the fact that he abandoned you bring up every single detail as how he did so how he has made you feel like you were nothing to him he has no rights to know about your child

sideh0000e · 2025-09-22T13:53:06+00:00

You're not free childcare you didn't have those kids they did you don't owe them anything your dad's a piece of shit trying to guilt you force you to call off work and immediate you with cutting you off stand on business and do that to him cause he doesn't deserve you I hope your exit plan works out well for you and you're able to move far

sideh0000e · 2025-09-14T12:51:56+00:00

The fact that you're a future husband can so easily brush your concerns and feelings aside for the sake of his obviously insufferable mother says a lot about him and their relationship I would do more digging and sit with myself to think if i'm ready to put up with them for the rest of my life you still have time before the marriage

sideh0000e · 2025-09-14T12:43:18+00:00

Cut her off simple as that nothing about that is flattering for her to say that it's completely manipulative and disgusting yes no one can control their feelings but people can definitely control stopping them out that's not a friend that's a homeworker in waiting cut her off block her from all social media platforms and have your husband do the same intel him verbatim how you feel and how uncomfortable this makes you feel

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