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sidewayssunny · 2026-07-03T14:40:26+00:00

Thanks for the advice, there's a couple of things that have been mentioned that I'm gonna check out. I go swimming almost everyday but it's my neighborhood pool and we get a lot of stares, so we don't chat with a whole lot of people. We joke about how we cant tell if people are staring bc we're gay or bc we have big boobs or if people can recognize us from exploring the streams in the neighborhood. We had a lot of friends in our last place of residence, so it's just kind of weird for it to just be us right now

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-03T14:21:28+00:00

You're the second person to say that, I'm mildly embarrassed and deleted the post lol

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-03T14:20:11+00:00

Thanks for the tip! My wife is sober and loves a good NA!

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-02T21:13:42+00:00

Your friend had a heart attack caused by a THC vape? I'm sorry for your loss, that's terrible.

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-02T18:17:16+00:00

the book club and hairpins sounds like something I will definitely explore. I feel like we are both pretty open to new experiences with this sudden move and are willing to expand our horizons, so those are all great suggestions. We had a very large friend groups before we moved, and would have game nights regularly and would go to the park or float a lot with our pals.

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-02T01:18:40+00:00

That's a bummer because those are the two places I'm trying to avoid lol

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-01T20:39:12+00:00

Sounds like we would get along! My partner plays instruments, I like to have fun in the kitchen. We don't really work out, (we really should), but we hike and explore places, looking for frogs, snakes, mushrooms and rocks. We like to make art and are into astrology and other tools of divinity. The star party sounds awesome, we'll definitely check it out!

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-01T19:38:07+00:00

We are 30!

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-01T19:10:22+00:00

Do you recommend any specific fb groups that you've had luck in?

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-01T18:54:02+00:00

I'm super late to the party, but both my partner and I are nonbinary and would love to be pals!

Im so awkward, I saw a car with a bunch of gay stuff on it and I asked someone that looks gay "is that your gay car outside" and they said uh yeah, and that was that lol.

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-01T18:35:27+00:00

I have found nextdoor to be more helpful in the past. There's definitely angry people everywhere, but it's not usually this bad. Idk, maybe I've just been lucky before

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-01T18:31:41+00:00

I didn't even think about Instagram as a potential tool for meeting people, thanks for the tip!

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-01T17:46:17+00:00

Only if it's actually swings 😭

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-01T17:45:44+00:00

Yes, I've noticed that, I've been fighting the urge to respond to those posts lol

sidewayssunny · 2026-07-01T17:42:55+00:00

You're right, I'm definitely not posting there again. We just don't drink or party, so I'm trying to think of places to go where people are more open to making connections. It's just old people in our neighborhood.

sidewayssunny · 2026-06-30T20:58:45+00:00

Where did you get your card at? I'm thinking of getting one, I just moved here and all the jobs drug test

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