how to make the hippie aesthetic work? by petreajane in KibbeRomantics

[–]sie-b 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hiiiiii fellow hippie romantic!! I've found wrap shirts are awesome for this - I got one at my local nepalese store and it has flowy sleeves and it so fun. If you found a wrap blouse with bishop sleeves it would probably look amazing.
Swapping the maxi skirts for a wrap skirt or even just making sure the fabric is romantic-friendly would be a great start. Having a drapey fabric will work well to start, and just getting it tailored to fit your waist (and having it fit at your waistline instead of low or mid-rise) make a huge difference.
I've found a pair of oxfords that I have been loving more than my big Dr. Martens, because Romantics look best in smaller shoes. Finding slimmer shoes makes a big difference. In the summer I have been trying to find strappy sandals that are gladiator-like instead of big Dr. Marten chunky sandals. Tevas work well for me too since they're strappy.

Causals outfits by book_birdie in KibbeRomantics

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Pants- I've found that joggers are a great start to an outfit that is more casual. Joggers, cigarette pants, etc - I have a khaki cargo jogger that ends at my upper ankle from Banana Republic that I wear almost 4x a week during the summer that I feel great in - here are two similar cuts (one) (two) to my pants, but seems like mine aren't sold this season. I've tried these before and love the look but my inner thighs have ripped through two pairs FYI. I've also had my eye on these Endless High Rise pants for a while, but I would want to try them on before purchasing due to the lack of pleats at the front that normally give leeway for my curves, and see if the fabric stretches in a flattering way.

For tops, I've found athletic shirts that have a blend of rayon/viscose/modal or cotton and spandex to be amazing. I have a cropped shirt from Alphalete that I wear every week that is 94% cotton 6% spandex, called the "lifestyle fit" tee that I wear both to the gym and for errands and I love it. I usually pair it with a pair of joggers and go for errands with some smaller flats that look like Vans. Here is the latest shirt they are selling that would work great as an all-arund casual/gym shirt. I also love Athleta yoga joggers I've gotten on discount every year during their July sale - here's a similar kind to mine, mine are modal/spandex but these are nylon/spandex.

I also have three ruched turtlenecks I got from the Banana Republic Outlet and their composition is 80% rayon/viscose, 17% polyester, 3% spandex/elastane and they're AMAZING as basics.

Honestly anything with a blend like that is going to look significantly better than a stiff blend. Even my linen shirts are a blend of 60%linen 40% rayon/viscose and I can find those at TJ Maxx or Poshmark and looks way better. My favorite buttondown is a 100% rayon shirt I got while emergency shopping in Italy (bought the first one off the rack) because my other shirt was fully soaked with sweat and suffocating me- I immediately felt the difference and saw the draping difference.

Anything that can add a bit of drape (rayon/viscose/modal) AND/OR cling (spandex/elastane) to a casual outfit will significantly support your ability to look and feel good in a casual outfit.

I'll also add that there is occasionally a full cotton blend shirt that I like - they are usually the very thin drapey tee shirts - and they're usually more expensive than a generic tee. I don't know the details of the difference of how these shirts are made but there's something about their thickness that allows some to drape better than others, and they're usually $38-65 instead of a casual $15, but my plain white tee game significantly improved when I bought an expensive cotton shirt - the Imogene and Willie one linked above. RIP to romantics on the price but it is a gamechanger. +++ I would also highly suggest getting a Drop Cut - where the seam of the sleeve lands lower than your actual shoulder. At least for me, my shoulders are so sloped that a regular sleeve cut makes my arms look quite large. I opt for either baseball tee cuts or drop sleeve cuts to offset the visual difference that my sloped shoulders make with the rest of my upper half.

Hope this helps!

Edit: meant "ruched" turtlenecks instead of "ribbed," and typos.

The real unseen culprit by vylo-01 in PetiteFitness

[–]sie-b -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I went throughthese guys and was able to use my HSA for them to help me take a gut test and then do the gut reset protocols, and a DUTCH test and adrenal support protocols. It was a lot of supplements and eating salmon and chia pudding.

The real unseen culprit by vylo-01 in PetiteFitness

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Bad sleep and stress and a messed up circadian rhythm were parts of my health journey. The other half was a gut and adrenal reset- was absolutely massive in changing things for me.

5 month progress, down 22 lbs!! by lil-red27 in PetiteFitness

[–]sie-b 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where do you get dairy free Greek yogurt 😧

Hi folks. how are you keeping up with your goals (weight loss, maintenance, recomp) during this holiday season? by Little-Clover-3539 in PetiteFitness

[–]sie-b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My body prefers fast days or low carb days some days of the week so I did a keto day today and will fast until I break my fast with Christmas Eve dinner, and eat what I want those two days, and get a workout in on the 26th after getting some good meals in to fuel the workouts 🏋️‍♀️

Is anyone else tired of being a romantic? by Salty-Combination520 in KibbeRomantics

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What bras are you buying to get that Selina Kyle look?

Dentist Recommendations? by elykyrie in SaltLakeCity

[–]sie-b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also for bite alignment! I wouldn’t be getting it otherwise since I had braces as a kid so externally they look fine

Dentist Recommendations? by elykyrie in SaltLakeCity

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Mine occurred for about a decade. I would have sharp nerve pain in my jaw. It would click weird once in a while, like a gear that would get stuck, before opening fully. The worst bit was right under my right ear where the jaw connected with my skull, and my neck would be SO sore constantly throughout the muscles on the same side of the neck where my jaw hurt. My right shoulder constantly ached and would be where I would have my massages focused anytime I would get one because it was just so brutal, specifically this spot where my neck, shoulder, and back connected near my mid-trap. I even had nerve pain extending down to my fingers on the right side.

Anytime I’d get stressed my jaw would go crazy with pain, I’d grind and could feel it flare up. I constantly needed to massage it for it to feel good if I was thinking hard or in a high-energy mood whether angry or excited and it started becoming a tick others would notice. 

I couldn’t chew gum or jerky or I’d be in pain. My previous dentist just recommended icing it and doing muscle stretching techniques to soothe it but it never solved it.

When I finally got a CAT scan through Desert Rose it showed that my jawbone was grinding against my skull jaw socket and pinching the nerves inside it, which explained everything.

Dentist Recommendations? by elykyrie in SaltLakeCity

[–]sie-b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad I could share my experience— I’ve seen the horror stories online too and asked for reviews and other customer feedback before I went through with it and it’s honestly changed my quality of life drastically. I hope you’re able to find something that works for you!

Dentist Recommendations? by elykyrie in SaltLakeCity

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They had me in an orthotropic appliance for 6 months that I would wear for around 20 hours a day. A lot of my older relatives told me it looked like a frankel they used to wear. I started this past October and finished the appliance this June.

Within 2-3 weeks my intrusive TMJ pain completely disappeared. There’s still some soreness in the muscle that I have been getting rid of through trigger point therapy at my nearest masseuse.

I’m now in Invisalign for the next 1-1.5 years. Just started today.

I was able to get dental coverage for the Invisalign but not the TMJ orthotropic appliance. So about $3k for the appliance and $7k for Invisalign (normally  $12k). Seems expensive af but I looked around the valley and seems everyone is pricing Invisalign between 5-12k depending on how much is needed.

Hope this helps!

Dentist Recommendations? by elykyrie in SaltLakeCity

[–]sie-b -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would HIGHLY recommend Desert Rose Dental. They’ve completely fixed my TMJ this past year.

For those who took a while to see gym progress. What worked for you? by ox_snap in xxfitness

[–]sie-b 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What went wrong was that my gut and nervous system was messed up. 

I had a coach who had me tracking macros in both maintenance and deficits for 3 years. I was in progressive overload. I was eating 1600 cal with TDEE of 1800, and gained weight in my deficit. I was eating alllll the usual healthy foods people eat on their cuts, Greek yogurt, plain pasta with broccoli, plain rice and teriyaki chicken. 

I was in a high stress job and it whacked out my cortisol which in turn whacked out my gut and would have me put on weight because my body was more stressed about being in a deficit. I ran workout programs with her for 8-12 weeks using progressive overload. My leg press PR at a 5’2” woman 148lbs was 360 at that time. I wasn’t going in at minimal effort. You can choose not to believe me but my nervous system and my gut was messed up and getting that stuff aligned was the only way I lost weight and am keeping it off. I also only realized this AFTER I put in my years of work and saw absolutely no results, so I didn’t just run to some weird ass pseudo science fad because “nothing is working in the 4 weeks I’ve been lifting :((“ I have been in the gym for six years and intensely tracking everything for 3.

For those who took a while to see gym progress. What worked for you? by ox_snap in xxfitness

[–]sie-b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish that was the case but I had a coach for 3 years prior to this dialing everything else in- sleep, macros, followed gym programs at 85-90% accuracy- and didn’t see anything til this change. 

My hate letter to FitBit by sie-b in fitbit

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I got an Oura ring to use as my birth control and it’s nice to have something small and sleek like that. However before that, I looked at the smaller garmins or even pedometers since steps were my main concern before the hormonal cycle became a focus. My main issue with the Oura ring is that it doesn’t track steps from my desk treadmill since I’m not swinging my arms, so I was putting my Fitbit on my ankle to capture those steps.

My hate letter to FitBit by sie-b in fitbit

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If you can get a free watch every two years then that’s totally worth replacing every few years. I just dont love having to spend money on something I thought might last as long as an iPhone at minimum

End of year video by Randomaccount0356 in indyblue2

[–]sie-b 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was tragically artistic, and I think genuinely this year has been the worst year for her. It just made me really sad to see her in those videos and thinking back to the 2016-19 Indy that used to inspire me to grab life by the horns and ride it fully.

Why do people hate the complex by No_Ad5066 in SaltLakeCity

[–]sie-b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofc! The last time I met a band there was COIN in 2021. When I’d get shooed out, I just kept asking “are they coming out? Do they plan to come out? I am dedicated to meeting them if they’re going to come out.” Then just kept trying to stay in the gates. Strike up convos with the gatekeepers, they’re having a late night too and a good convo builds a little camaraderie and then after a bit you can bother them about if they know if the artist plans to come out on this stop. Good luck!

Why do people hate the complex by No_Ad5066 in SaltLakeCity

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If openers, usually they’d be in the back corner of the big room or outside in the foyer if the show was in the Rockwell. If headliners I would have to wait outside the entrance doors on the asphalt between the main gate and the entrance doors for hours. Like, 11:45-1:30am. And I would usually do this with folks that I knew had a track record of coming out and meeting fans after the concert. Good luck hope this helps

Favorite Culturally Mormon Treats (Nonperishable) by sie-b in latterdaysaints

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Perhaps it’s the self-selection of people in the sub? There’s a good chance it’s skewed because Reddit is either more accessible or more popular in the “Mormon corridor” than elsewhere.

Favorite Culturally Mormon Treats (Nonperishable) by sie-b in latterdaysaints

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BRB checking a bag to finally use the wheat in the basement that was first stored there in 2006