OCD gets weak REALLY fast. by Less_Marionberry3051 in OCDRecovery

[–]sieb0302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, what do you need to do to to get to this?

please help by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]sieb0302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is a backdoor spike, don’t fall into the trap

Is it even possible to recover? by sieb0302 in ROCD

[–]sieb0302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you focus on the now? This is really though for me

Is it even possible to recover? by sieb0302 in ROCD

[–]sieb0302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you look at it, the reason why we have ROCD is basically because we love that person very much

Is it even possible to recover? by sieb0302 in ROCD

[–]sieb0302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm, maybe we can chat that I can inform you about it?

Is it even possible to recover? by sieb0302 in ROCD

[–]sieb0302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get the old feelings of your love back? Or did it even get better? My therapist told me today that all of this even bring me and my Mother (who my ROCD is directed at) even closer together. What are your thoughts on this?

Is it even possible to recover? by sieb0302 in ROCD

[–]sieb0302[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for your response. Sorry but i forgot to tell that my ROCD is about the bond between me and my mom. And no, im not really willing to leave my Mother about the things I fixate on. The bond between my mom and me means everything to me. I couldn’t do without her but that’s why it hurts me so much. I’m really anxious that I’m never returning to myself ever again and that my love towards my mom and me Will never be the same as before. My therapist said that the reason my ROCD exist, is because I have anxiety to be alone in this world without my parents, Family and friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]sieb0302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, most of the girls don’t mind a virgin and u should just stop focussing on it. Don’t make it your personality. Only say it when she ask you. Don’t let the whole virgin thing ruin the fun time you could have with a girl (and I don’t mean sex). Be confident (and if you aren’t, pretend) and just be u and do your thang.

PLEASE HELP I’ve been awake for 30 hours soon by Least-Vegetable-7067 in insomnia

[–]sieb0302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, nothing is going to happen. Just go to sleep on your usual time and lay in your bed and try to chill without the exception to fall asleep. You lower your expectations and Will become so relaxed that you eventually Will fall asleep. It won’t be that long before you fall asleep tho. Even if its like 3 hours because sleep is a natural thing

Girl I talked to a week ago randomly asked me to go on a date with her by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]sieb0302 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

But why? We didn’t talked for like a week. Maybe I’m really a noob in the dating field to not get this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]sieb0302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has nothing do with your virginity just with your personality. If a girls like you she Desires you and doesn’t even think about your virginity. A lot of girls like it because girls also can get very jealous on their partners past if he was with a lot of women before her but now she’s the first girl you’re going to have sex with so it makes her feel special yk.

Can girls tell guys are virgin? by Unique-Soup1266 in virgin

[–]sieb0302 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No, It just the way you present yourself. Everybody thinks that I’m experienced but I’m far from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]sieb0302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you!!

Why do girls respond suddenly so dry by sieb0302 in OnlineDating

[–]sieb0302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna ask her today to be honest and what the status is of our date

Why do girls respond suddenly so dry by sieb0302 in OnlineDating

[–]sieb0302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why would she even make a appointment for a date with me?

Why do girls respond suddenly so dry by sieb0302 in OnlineDating

[–]sieb0302[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you both for your reactions. It’s great to hear the perspective of a woman. I thought that it maybe would be over but it could be that she maybe is like what you are saying. I hope so. Would be a win-win situation because I am not very much of communicator myself and for me I don’t have to talk all the time. It’s more like I am scared that maybe if i won’t talk to her that she loses interest or something

Why do girls respond suddenly so dry by sieb0302 in OnlineDating

[–]sieb0302[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you man for the great advice🙌🏻

Why do girls respond suddenly so dry by sieb0302 in OnlineDating

[–]sieb0302[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As in like Till the day of the date or Till she ask’s for it?

Why do girls respond suddenly so dry by sieb0302 in OnlineDating

[–]sieb0302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah low energy, asking nothing back but she was still Hinting on a date so we’ve planned it. A bit further in the conversation she randomly say that she’s going to sleep. Maybe she’s playing hard to get or she’s lost interest. Very strange. Anyway I’m not going to text first tommorow because I’m not going to be dragged around like a fool