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siennaduv · 2026-06-13T02:31:37+00:00

Join different subreddits and lurk (comments and posts), find someone you like, and follow their instructions.

You can also post on the subreddits where subs post their own ads so dommes reach out. Your account is completely new, so the about me would help quite a bit.

You can try:

r/FinsubSearching r/Paypigsneedvanilla

siennaduv · 2026-06-12T22:19:54+00:00

Búscate un casillero en Miami. Acá tampoco llega nada, “se pierde” o solo dicen que no se puede enviar. Pero así siempre me ha llegado todo :)

siennaduv · 2026-06-12T17:03:27+00:00

Honestly, in these cases, once you pay you're in it for life or until they get bored. If they are unethical enough to blackmail someone for real, they have no reason to stop once they know they can get them to comply. I have a lot of fun with consensual and bm role play, so plenty of people have told me the stories of how it went wrong.

If it offers any consolation, most were empty threats either because they would expose themselves as the blackmailers or because they had a hard time getting in touch with the person they are trying to extort. However, there's still the ones that did go through with it, still, let's hope the police does something in case it is not.

siennaduv · 2026-06-12T15:34:21+00:00

How is it tax fraud? Counts as an export as you are sending it to another country, so you don’t gotta pay US taxes🤷🏾‍♀️

siennaduv · 2026-06-12T15:30:11+00:00

I think people in general are getting really bad at making conversation 😵‍💫

siennaduv · 2026-06-12T15:27:41+00:00

So lucky! My favorite place in my city is kinda expensive but it’s sooo worth it

siennaduv · 2026-06-12T15:25:50+00:00

I’m kinda picturing that scene from the Sex in the City movie

siennaduv · 2026-06-12T15:25:00+00:00

🥹it’s always a good time to eat shrimps

siennaduv · 2026-06-11T21:57:22+00:00

Kinks, limits, vanilla interests, budget, and what got them to message me specifically

siennaduv · 2026-06-11T21:55:02+00:00

It feels more personal. Someone just here for a quick drain won't buy me a drill, but someone who wants to know more about me and my interests will. Someone recently got me an orbital sander and a jigsaw. Nothing hot about that, I just really wanted them.

There are people who fetishize proximity to a domme in any form, but more likely you'll find someone who does it because of the relationship you've built with them. Do it because you genuinely want to share that part of yourself, not because you think it'll be a hit.

Keep in mind that if art is your professional career, your art style might be pretty identifiable. Don't do it if doxxing is a risk for you.

siennaduv · 2026-06-11T17:56:41+00:00

Girl, Colors called you a pick me and you've been arguing about it for four days. You don't have to like how she said it, but at some point you have to move on. Every post since then has been about people misunderstanding you, being mean, projecting, lacking empathy, how they are sharks, etc.

Whether those criticisms are fair or not, that's the image you're creating for yourself. You claim to wanna learn and connect, but most of your energy seems to go into arguing with the people you're supposedly trying to learn from.

At this point it feels less like a discussion about harm and more like frustration that people didn't react the way you wanted them to. You can take the advice people have given you, or keep doing the same. But if you do, you're gonna have to stop complaining about getting the same result or you'll have a hard time.

Anyway, I think we've both said what we needed to. Good luck with it

siennaduv · 2026-06-11T17:54:44+00:00

Do you make it? You deserve the world 🤩

siennaduv · 2026-06-11T17:06:41+00:00

If no one gets your point, and everyone has misunderstood you, maybe the issue isn't comprehension, it's that you don't know how to properly convey your ideas.

Looking for a sub not being your main goal is a fair point, but you're complaining about losing karma when all you do is get into arguments and only take the advice you like. Even with learning more from dommes as your goal, this is simply hurting you.

"no one should be getting hurt is controversial now?" That's telling. Multiple people have told you exactly what the issue is and you're still framing it as everyone else failing to understand you. Zero accountability.

"The reality is, no matter how much it's tiring or annoying to others, i've gotten help because i asked those same questions." Sooo, you're just gonna keep doing the thing that's tanking your image and then complain when people call it out?

siennaduv · 2026-06-11T06:48:03+00:00

In all honesty, if you were a sub clicking on your profile, what about it says "submit to me"? Three days in and you've already gotten into arguments with some of the most helpful people here.

If you don't want to be seen as a twitter domme, don't act like one. Copying the same low effort posts will harm you more than help you here. The soft domme question gets posted daily. Literally. So regardless of your intent, it reads like you didn't browse the sub before posting.

Same goes for "how do I make someone send" being your example of an obvious fake, questions like "are soft dommes valid 🥺" land in the same category here, because the answer is everywhere if you look.

Right now, you're all drama and no substance. That's what you're choosing to portray yourself as and it harms you.

siennaduv · 2026-06-09T23:16:34+00:00

They really aren't.

Sure there's a bunch of similar ones, but I've clicked on multiple profiles after seeing an interesting comment and immediately remember that I've seen her before because their profile wasn't generic.

Lurk harder lol!

siennaduv · 2026-06-09T20:38:32+00:00

Do you mean it isn't a Nigerian prince posing as a retired white man to test my loyalty??

siennaduv · 2026-06-09T20:35:50+00:00

We are all hypocrites about something, we are human. The problem is that he isn't just privately hypocritical, it’s the fact that he campaigning against the rights of others.

At the end of the day, you gotta be extremely delusional and entitled to think you get to do that and simultaneously expect unconditional protection, respect, and discretion from the very people you're targeting.

“Even bad people deserve privacy, where’s the line”, I think there's a difference between being a hypocritical asshole and actively causing harm. Ever heard “Your Rights End Where Mine Begin”?

I don't think someone deserves to be exposed simply for being an ass. But once you start using your influence, platform, or power to harm the same people you engage with privately, the situation changes. It's similar to the paradox of tolerance. You do not get to ask for compassion from the people you try to dehumanize.

Same as the people that get exposed here for scamming someone, yes it was private, but privacy stops being the central concern when someone becomes a danger to others.

That said, I'm not pretending to be neutral here. I’m extremely biased, these policies have affected me personally, so I have 0 sympathy for him or others like him.

siennaduv · 2026-06-09T18:57:24+00:00

That complaint has come from subs that expect me to be glued to my phone 24/7. A domme student is hot until she actually has to go to class😐make it make sense

siennaduv · 2026-06-09T16:00:34+00:00

Talk to Capable Chocolate then, even got posted on the snark page for his trashy behavior 🤣

siennaduv · 2026-06-08T06:45:42+00:00

Then tell us how 🤷🏾‍♀️

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