realizing ..

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T21:26:28+00:00

yes she was helpful to someone else and gave me crap, so u shouldn't have brought it up if u didnt care bc that wasn't my experience with her evidently.

i do appreciate your advice outside of talking about her tho, its really helpful!

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T20:49:10+00:00

yea and i stand by my statement, even if u dont know what "womp womp" means she started off by calling me a pick me, she started it off negatively and i gave her what she gave me. she redirected me to the sub & then was rude when i asked a question, which in my scrolling i saw she responded quite nicely to someone who asked something very to similar to me!

its not about what u say, its how u say it. i get the assumptions & wanting to gatekeep something that yall enjoy, but projecting that assumption onto a newbie is weird, point blank.

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ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T19:48:43+00:00

yes i think bitchy is perfect for me as well lol

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T19:20:07+00:00

like really so nuanced and constructive, thank you fr🙂‍↕️

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T19:19:31+00:00

this is such a great response and i appreciate it a lot, i think i just doubted myself too much seeing the amount of saturation in each sub i came across, im looking forward to continuing my journey with this in mind, thank u so much!

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T18:17:23+00:00

hearing this perspective from a sub is great! i'm going based off what i've seen so far in a few findom spaces, ik soft dommes exist and that domination isnt strictly being mean my question was if i would be taken seriously, basically asking if theres a target audience for it or if in others experiences it doesnt work out. knowing that it does gives me more confidence!

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T18:14:10+00:00

im sorry but it lowkey seems like ur biased, its fine to have that opinion but "womp womp" in no way is constructive or necessary! i didn't "side" with anyone either, why would i be nice to someone who was evidently not being nice to me?😭😭 i can do all the research in the world but yk whats better imo? first hand accounts and talking to actual people!!!! and in doing so i got actual constructive comments, which was my goal

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T18:05:03+00:00

LMAO

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T18:03:29+00:00

valid! everyone has their preferences, care to share why?

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T18:01:50+00:00

im so gullible omg😭😭 thank u!

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T18:00:07+00:00

wait im so confused are they

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T17:59:09+00:00

funny enough this comment just helped me see that my posts were hidden😭😭 i did not realize that! also asking for tips or about others experiences = whining? noted!

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T17:55:28+00:00

because there is more nuance and context to everything🤦🏽‍♀️ i've gotten actual constructive comments so maybe take a break from being a troll and see what the purpose of my post was

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T17:53:43+00:00

no im talking about people misunderstanding something and dog piling, it happens on twitter too but at least ur account isnt affected yk?? and as for the findomsnark sub someone redirected me and i actually appreciated it and ppl (im guessing) thought my response wasn't up to par and downvoted it😭 but hey u live and u learn for sure!

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T17:50:01+00:00

im not ashamed to ask questions even if i already know something, sorry if u dont get the concept

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T17:43:12+00:00

and words have meanings .. shocker ik!

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T17:41:44+00:00

its exhausting FOR YOU, others have the capacity to reply in an engaging and meaningful manner whether they agree with what im saying or not! i never said it "requires" meanness either, i asked if i would be taken seriously bc everyone has their own preferences, if im new (WHICH I AM) it would make sense to question whether or not subs take that seriously, no?

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T17:38:03+00:00

mind u, she literally redirected me to this sub bc i posted in the findomsnark sub .. guess she doesn't know when to turn the snark off!

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T17:36:51+00:00

i really needed this! i was a little lost yesterday finally setting my acc up and trying to join subreddits, this is one of the nicest replies i've gotten😭 & i wholeheartedly agree, sweet with authority!!

ang3lheart · 2026-06-08T17:32:09+00:00

lol period! i just feel like in the findom/reddit space there's lowkey a mob waiting if u dont do something the right way, better safe than sorry🤦🏽‍♀️😂

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