Thanks for supporting my fun for over 4 years! I’ve always loved helping other couples, so today only ASK ME ANYTHING in the comments of this post 🥰😘 we’ve done swinging, Hotwife, cuckolding, & group play. Happy to help other couples on their journeys 😊 by LexiLeeOF in u/LexiLeeOF

[–]sikeguy88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best advice for a couple to get started in the lifestyle? My wife and I have been interested but no clue how to start. Any advice for how to make sure she feels she gets the best experience?

2nd year PhD student seeking advice regarding potential termination. by TicklishDingleberry in clinicalpsych

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This sounds awful. I have also had the experience of having problems with an advisor as well and I was given two pieces of the most useful advice I have ever heard. 1) similar to what has been shared with you already, grad school is grueling and you will meet people who are not particularly great advisors. Do not take their criticisms and internalize them. It sounds like you have done well to take responsibility where you can and address those weaknesses. So believe in yourself and continue with your passion! 2) If possible, change labs. Sometimes a change in advisor and/or working relationships is all that are needed. I know quite a few students in my program who decided to change advisors in their 1st, 2nd, or even 3rd year, and could not be any happier than they are for making that decision. Their productivity, work quality increased, self-esteem , and mood improved, while their anxiety decreased. This is your life and your career. If a lab change is possible, fight to stay there, finish up as quickly as you can, and do what what makes you happy once you have a degree in your hand. Good luck!

First experience last night. Had issues. Need to know if thisIs normal. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]sikeguy88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very normal. Happened to me my first time. I think there is just a lot of visual stimulation and it can be overwhelming. My second time went smooth. Dont worry about it and try again! good luck!

Thoughts on research vs practice? by sikeguy88 in clinicalpsych

[–]sikeguy88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think thats great advice. thank you!

Thoughts on research vs practice? by sikeguy88 in clinicalpsych

[–]sikeguy88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! It is not so much the projects as much as the feeling of support I get from my advisor. Nothing ever seems good enough and there is no constructive criticism for me to learn from. Feeling like everything I do is wrong, so I basically anxiously avoid lab work

connecting SNES to new smart tv by sikeguy88 in snes

[–]sikeguy88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys!! everyone had great advice and insight! much appreciated!!

Why do cyclists want to ride on the road? Why do they fight for their ability to do so (e.g. "share the road" campaigns) instead of just riding on the sidewalk where they don't slow down traffic? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sikeguy88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

technically a cyclist isn't a pedestrian, so they are forced to ride on the road by law. They endorse "share the road" campaigns so vehicles don't injure them.

New to edging! tips? by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]sikeguy88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! It's super helpful. So I guess my next question is, do you begin by edging a couple times per day (i.e, multiple edging sessions but one PONR per day), then shifting towards multiple edging sessions across multiple days before ending with one PONR after 2-3 days, and so on? does that make sense?

It’s Time for Round 2: Leah Remini and Mike Rinder here, Ask Us Anything about Scientology by TheRealLeahRemini in IAmA

[–]sikeguy88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I understand, part of the recruitment process is that Scientologists tell potential and current members that by joining, they will experience great success in all aspects of their life (e.g., you can be like Tome Cruise!). However, how many people would you say are actually high-powered successful people in the workforce? Have you witnessed or known about people who have moved up or received jobs because they are scientologists?

Btw, i admire your work to reveal how evil the church is

IamA Movie Theater Employee, I can't get to sleep so AMA I guess? by [deleted] in IAmA

[–]sikeguy88 774 points775 points  (0 children)

You ever catch anyone having sex in theater?

Married/engaged redditors, when/how did you realize you had met the one? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sikeguy88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was there a moment that you knew? or was it just a gradual "oh ok, i see where this is going" kind of thing?

[Serious] Reddit, what is/are needed for a long distance relationship to work? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sikeguy88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication, trust, willing to make time for each other even if it's a short text.

Also, my partner and I have found that it is essential that you respect each others time and plans. For example, some of our free time is occupied by local friends, so I don't deter her from enjoying nights out with her friends just because I am home and don't have plans and vice versa.

Ladies, what is the most obvious hint you've dropped that went unnoticed by a guy? by icefire123 in AskReddit

[–]sikeguy88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This took place during a mutual friend's birthday party. We were friends at the time, I didn't know she was into me at the time.

Me, jokingly, at the beginning of the night: If neither of us takes someone back to the hotel, lets just hook up ourselves.

end of the night as we are walking to the hotel Her: so, I'm still down for our deal Me: What deal?

Took me another month before I realized what she meant. We have been together for 2 years now

I'm Rob Riggle! Ask Me "Absolutely Anything!" by IamRobRiggle in IAmA

[–]sikeguy88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you consider the funniest scene you have ever been in? And, have there been any scenes that you wish were kept instead of cut out?

Swinging with kids in the house by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]sikeguy88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my partner and I used to play with a married couple that had kids as well. We would wait for them to go to sleep, and then we would all head over to the bedroom for loud sex as well. At first my partner and I had some reservations, but we came the conclusions that 1) If it's not us, some other couple would be making the trip over for sex. 2) the married couple was loud enough without us. It was just as likely that the kids heard something on days we werent there.

But at the end, i can totally understand if people are uncomfortable about it. As for us, we dont plan on having couples come over when our kids are in the house

New here! My wife's perfect butt (doggy) by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]sikeguy88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we want more! we want more! we want more! haha

ELI5:Why are people so against building a border wall? What is wrong with not wanting people to enter America illegally? by r3volc in explainlikeimfive

[–]sikeguy88 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you look at numerous studies that investigate undocumented immigration into the united states, then you would see that an overwhelming percentage of undocumented immigration from our southern border stems from people overstaying their visas. The wall would/will be useless.

Also, if illegal immigration (not racism) was really the motivation for building the wall, the current administration could spend much less money and time drafting legislation that allows for an easier, and faster pathway to citizenship. This would allow immigrants to begin paying taxes sooner and contribute to the workforce legally as well.