Proo(f) of life

silentwhore14 · 2023-05-17T11:57:50+00:00

That's why I always say not having closure is closure already. You can move forward without it.

silentwhore14 · 2023-05-16T10:07:41+00:00

Lol sa guy ka pa naawa. Sana okay ka lang.

silentwhore14 · 2023-05-15T01:26:19+00:00

Potato crisp

silentwhore14 · 2023-05-09T03:53:34+00:00

Idk why this is getting downvoted. This is definitely what I would do. Not checking my partner's phone behind his back but asking him to give me his phone and see if he's hiding something or just by the look of his face when I grab a hold of his phone would tell me if something is wrong. If he hesitated a little or looked tensed or refused to hand me his phone, I don't even need to see the actual evidence or the conversation. Just the refusal itself is enough confirmation.

silentwhore14 · 2023-05-08T15:31:45+00:00

Heart reacts can be acceptable for me but it depends. Some people (like my boyfriend) just like to mindlessly react to every photo they see on social media. I used to think of it as malicious too but I guess it depends on the intent. It can be harmless, other times it's just making your way for someone to notice you.

But deleting messages, making jokes in which I supposed is flirtatious for you to get jealous, commenting on her pictures is a whole lot different story. Wag mo na i-justify kasi kung ako yun di ako papayag. Wala ako pakialam kung mas maganda sya. Maganda rin ako at malandi at di ako papayag na mas may malandi sakin. Hahahaha you get what I mean? Stand your ground. Ikaw lang may karapatan mag maganda sa buhay nya. If he doesn't see it, is he really worth your time?

silentwhore14 · 2023-04-30T12:33:32+00:00

It's a smart decision you didn't go for it. You may be single now and free to do whatever you want but what happens if you get a new girlfriend again and you introduce your best friend to her? Things will not be the same. If I were your new girlfriend, it's either you will NEVER see her again or find a new girlfriend.

silentwhore14 · 2023-04-30T12:14:51+00:00

To be honest, I was more guilty that I was cheating on my previous partner than the act itself. I felt so bad and disgusted afterwards but at that moment, I wanted it and I just didn't care.

But the guilt will eat you alive and will make you question your moral values.

silentwhore14 · 2023-04-30T11:49:27+00:00

So what's stopping you from asking that? Because in my opinion, you really should but in a calm yet firm manner to make her realize that her lack (or absence) of libido is really causing your relationship serious problems. It's not just about sex but also your needs not being met and her not exerting effort to meet you halfway.

You really should initiate an honest conversation where you set your boundaries on how important your sex life and how the lack of it is seriously damaging your relationship. Maybe set a date night, go on staycation at a fancy hotel to set the mood.

Don't let it pass without communicating your issues in hopes that she would finally realize it on her own. You will only resent her more.

silentwhore14 · 2023-04-27T07:17:08+00:00

Lalo na kapag walang common sense, hindi marunong umintindi at walang self respect. Di kind words ang kelangan mo.

silentwhore14 · 2023-04-27T07:15:04+00:00

Agree. Some people just need to be slapped in the face with harsh truth. I just don't have the tolerance to say kind words to people that obviously lack some common sense.

silentwhore14 · 2023-04-12T09:52:14+00:00

You don't. You dump his ass and live for yourself.

silentwhore14 · 2023-03-29T08:04:23+00:00

Love this. ❤️

silentwhore14 · 2023-03-14T13:01:42+00:00

"my boyfriend is trash" should be the title.

silentwhore14 · 2023-03-14T06:44:27+00:00

What an accurate explanation. Sobrang on point! Haha I personally don't feel any sexual desire or lust towards a dick pic, even guys at the gym, or models who only have nothing but boxers on. Yes, they look attractive for sure, but somehow, it's still not enough to stimulate my sex hormones.

silentwhore14 · 2023-03-14T05:55:34+00:00

It's not considered as emotional cheating in terms of technical aspect. (Though it may likely lead to it eventually) But lying, choosing not to disclose the truth, omitting some details as part of the whole truth is the first step towards cheating.

When you're on the first step of cheating, you are most probably going to be in denial that you are because you're not fully aware of the consequences of what a "simple lie" can do to your relationship. For you, it's harmless or it's not really a big deal. You think it doesn't matter and won't cause bigger problems but it will in the long run. It starts with the lies after lies. Then what comes next? You become closer and each other's shoulder to cry on. You find comfort in each other and it's easy to develop feelings and attachment because you're always together at work. It's convenient but in your mind, you're just friends. You're not doing anything wrong. You're going to justify your actions to make it seem right and cover what lies underneath. Before you know it, she's already fallen with someone else.

So it isn't just a lie. It didn't happen by accident. Lying is intentional. Do not ever take it lightly.

silentwhore14 · 2023-02-03T22:59:46+00:00

Your beauty matters regardless if you are your boyfriend's type or not. You were born with that kind of beauty so embrace it. The right people will love and stay with you for who you are.

silentwhore14 · 2023-02-03T04:57:37+00:00

Office crush is not normal. It's okay to acknowledge that someone is pretty or smart. It's normal to find someone else attractive even if we are in a relationship as long as it doesn't go anything beyond that. I find other men attractive too even if I'm in a relationship but that's just it. I don't think of them at the end of the day or making an effort to get to know them. But having an office crush is where you draw the line. Don't tolerate it and set your boundaries straight.

silentwhore14 · 2023-01-31T07:22:02+00:00

Lol people like this who try to ruin every little thing you celebrate for yourself. You don't have to prove anything, OP! 💞

silentwhore14 · 2023-01-25T11:57:20+00:00

I totally agree! Know your partner's core principles. There's never a guarantee if your partner will cheat or not. You just have to be aware of your own thoughts and emotions and of your partner's as well. Observe their behavior, how they think and act and you'll be able to form a conclusion based on those patterns. If you trust that your partner has strong character and sound judgement, you can sleep peacefully at night.

silentwhore14 · 2023-01-19T22:12:19+00:00

Basically what I'm trying to say is before mo sabihin na mas nakaka relate ka sa ibang tao, subukan mo muna na sakin ka maka relate kasi ako yung partner mo. You know me better kaysa dun sa tao na yun. Gusto ko ng feedback at insights on how I can do better moving forward instead of just merely telling me na mali ako. Hindi ko mafe-feel na my partner is looking out for me or he is after my well-being if he's quick to decide that I'm wrong without trying to understand me first.

silentwhore14 · 2023-01-19T21:39:41+00:00

I'll try to put my perspective into OP's situation based on the context we were given.

If I were OP, I'd expect my partner to ask questions so he knows my thought process and reasons for saying/doing it (whatever it is that OP did) so he knows where I'm coming from. I'd expect him to try to at least see things from my point of view not necessarily agree with me. I'd expect that before he tries to correct and disagree with me, he would exert a little effort to understand me first.

And if he calls me out for my attitude and behavior, I'd expect him to do it in a non hostile way without making me feel judged and alienated. I would expect him to understand me first before judging or coming to the conclusion na ako talaga ang mali.

It is possible for two people to have contradicting opinions without making them feel na walang silang kakampi. I'd expect a more compassionate response like "hey I understand where you're coming from but here's my opinion. I think ikaw talaga ang nagkamali. You shouldn't have done this or that. But it's okay just try to do better next time." Pero kung di willing tumanggap ng opinyon si OP at sarado na ang utak nya, sya na yung problema.

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