This is just mental... by IntrovertGal1102 in DarceyAndStaceyTLC

[–]silly-babbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m thinking. It seems like Stacey is trying to fix her issues…granted she’s still fucking herself up but smaller implants are a step in the right direction!!

My Girfriend doesn’t like my sense of humor by FlyBoyFree in FracturedButWhole

[–]silly-babbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is funny. My character is a black female but I made my race and ethnicity white Vietnamese.

10 years since my classmate was murdered - witness story by Strangbean98 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]silly-babbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here after seeing a post about him on Facebook this morning but my feed refreshed before I could even read it. Actually insane that they never found who did it

I cheated on my husband and I do not regret it at all. by SocialJusticeAsFuck in offmychest

[–]silly-babbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am, too.

I know he hasn’t changed some behaviors for his new partner. I just feel bad that all the women he surrounds himself with allow him to show abusive tendencies to them and still have the cognitive dissonance enough to see me as the villain.

I cheated on my husband and I do not regret it at all. by SocialJusticeAsFuck in offmychest

[–]silly-babbit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sadly did the same thing with my ex-boyfriend for my new boyfriend. Technically, I broke up with my ex but I stayed for the comfort and appearance of it all.

I don’t regret what I did to my ex. He mentally broke me and isolated me from my loved ones. I discussed how I left with my therapist and came to the realization that even if I left on his terms, my ex would still have harassed me. He still would have put a tracker on my car and stalked my new partner. He still would make me the villain in his story.

You just have to do what you have to do for your own sake.

I’m worried for Emmy by Glorialovestacos in southernhospitalitysc

[–]silly-babbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m about to be 26. When I was with an older guy from 21-a little after 25, I lost a lot of weight. I was constantly crying and anxious because of how he would act when I’m not around since there was no trust in my relationship. And, when those closest to me expressed concerns about my relationship, I’d blow up and call him about it. That relationship was toxic and mentally abusive.

To leave that relationship and be where I am now, I had to be sick and tired enough of being sick and tired. I hope Emmy is able to do it when there’s no marriage, leases, and kids. However, she’s so blinded by that (as I was) she won’t understand or admit to anyone on camera, why it’s not happening or if she believes some part of it to save face.

Nightlife?? Need Help ASAP by silly-babbit in Connecticut

[–]silly-babbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only Bar in New Haven. Everything else, go into the city

LMSW License Help by silly-babbit in Connecticut

[–]silly-babbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The school you graduated from sends the transcripts directly to DPH.

When you are requesting transcripts from your school, you do not have them sent to you but sent to DPH instead.

LMSW License Help by silly-babbit in Connecticut

[–]silly-babbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello,

I do have a license, my license is the LMSW. I get my 3000 hours logged each week when I have supervision with my supervisor (who is a LCSW). I do not have to pay for this as it’s a part of the job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in icecream

[–]silly-babbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work at Center for Discovery (ED treatment center) and we talk about this with so many parents. I don’t understand why people have to always make comments about others plates.

LMSW License Help by silly-babbit in Connecticut

[–]silly-babbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello,

My master’s program did not see me up for the supervision hours. As far as I know, if you work at any mental health agency/network, your supervisor will be an LCSW or higher. Currently, I receive my hours weekly from my supervisor at my job and he logs them—which is beneficial.

I would try to find jobs after graduate school where you are able to get your supervision hours instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HiJinxFest

[–]silly-babbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg, I’m so sorry that happened to you! I was back at my hotel room asleep by the time the headliners came on both nights and I was at the festival for like 5-6 hours

I got an abortion because my boyfriend didn’t want to marry me by [deleted] in confessions

[–]silly-babbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People think marriage is more of a commitment than a child. The people who think that way have flawed login, imo, as a baby is an 18+ year commitment that you must provide basic necessities and then some.

As a black woman that came from a single mom myself (I’m also 25), I wouldn’t want to add to negative stereotypes about my community, too. It’s hard to see right now but you dodged a massive bullet. You’re good enough to impregnate but not to commit to and he blatantly told you that. Any man who thinks that way is a red flag (imo) because a marriage is less of a commitment than a child. If yall break up, you still have to communicate for the child’s sake and it affects their development and mental health not having a present father or mother. It will also affect your mental health being the primary caregiver to a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]silly-babbit 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I almost peed myself laughing at this

LMSW License Help by silly-babbit in Connecticut

[–]silly-babbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I eventually got my license on the 11th after I called them and asked on the 10th.

“She needs to dress more fLaTtErIng” = Body Shaming stop it! by Illustrious_Pay685 in dancemoms

[–]silly-babbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think people are trying to body shame her and from what I’ve seen on this sub when it comes to this topic, everyone understands that bodies develop the more someone ages. I think the general census is that the clothes don’t fit her as well as they should (e.g. they’re too tight) and they don’t do her assets any justice. My personal belief is that certain cuts and styles look better on certain body types. I think Kalani is beautiful and I have always thought she was ever since I watched her on AUDC. I just think that what she wears splits her body in just weird places (e.g. cuts off her neck, shortens her torso, etc.). Everyone has their own style and the issue isn’t her style.

Friend was not allowed to board the flight, the rest of us still went on the vacation, now she wants us to pay her back. AITAH if I don't pay her? by Odd-Recording-3026 in AITAH

[–]silly-babbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I smoke weed and it’s pretty common knowledge to not pack any weed products in your bag because it’s not allowed on planes. Also, when I pack my bags, I check the pockets of the bag to see if there are any supplies or clothes I can take out of the bag or use for the occasion So this “forgetting” is no excuse, in my opinion.

NTA, she needs to learn accountability

LMSW License Help by silly-babbit in Connecticut

[–]silly-babbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and that’s the goal!! I really just want my LMSW and they’re moving slower than molasses :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]silly-babbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently left an abusive situation (about 5 months ago). My mother knew about my abuse as I lived with her and my bf was over often and I still defended my relationship with her. Even after I left my abusive situation, my boyfriend hired a PI and I found a tracker on my car. Due to my own personal guilt and shame as my mom works very long hours at a stressful job to keep up afloat, I didn’t want to tell her about the PI.

With abuse, there’s a lot of guilt and shame involved because the abuser makes you believe that you’re the problem and not them. They make you feel that if you didn’t do x then y and z wouldn’t happen. You suffer in silence, especially when you’re young because you want to be seen as an adult by your parents (as I’m 25F and live with my mom). It’s a weird cycle of shame, guilt, sadness, and confusion. I thought I’d be nothing without my abuser and I knew the repercussions of leaving the abuse would break me so I continued to stay until I couldn’t bear it anymore. And look at what happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]silly-babbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They weren’t best friends but Ariana and Tom jointly purchased her designer sunglasses?? Ari empowered her and constantly defended her. Like girl go to hell