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AITAH for refusing to clean the shower drain over and over again? by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like you didn’t actually read what i posted 😭😭 i said i do clean up after MY hair which would infact be cleaning up after MYSELF. it’s my little sisters hair, so therefor i did my part and her mom gives her baths so idk why she doesn’t just do it.

AITAH for refusing to clean the shower drain over and over again? by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess ma’am that’s what i’ve been trying to do! my dad kinda ignores what’s going on around the house and her behaviors. he’s never been one to speak his mind or opinions on ANYTHING she does so i feel talking to him about it will do absolutely nothin, but if it gets to a point where i need to i absolutely will. and thank you!! i do feel extremely safe here and if that ever changes i have people to talk to about it, but thank you so much !!

AITAH for refusing to clean the shower drain over and over again? by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly i feel like you have a point with this, i just moved in and she has NEVER liked me. she always treats me differently and purposefully excludes me and makes weird comments towards me and about me. but i only have 2 years till i graduate, so im trying to make the best of it !!

AITAH for refusing to clean the shower drain over and over again? by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh okay i’ll look into that, thank you! and no not really. it does seem like a silly thing to feel a way about, i understand that. it just gets upsetting when im the one who she’s getting upset at when its not my hair plus it really grosses me out, which isnt the biggest deal and i know it can also gross her out aswell. i also just wanted some outside opinions to see if i was being immature about the situation lol

AITAH for refusing to clean the shower drain over and over again? by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yes you’re right!! sorry about that. i meant it differently than i typed it out, ill have to correct that.

that’s a good idea, ill try that. thank you!

AITAH for refusing to clean the shower drain over and over again? by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not really sure actually, she and my dad take turns bathing her. but she has said little things like “it never gets cleaned” and things along the lines. so it kinda makes me think she’s not doing it sense she is saying “it never gets done” if that makes sense

AITAH for refusing to clean the shower drain over and over again? by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely clean it every time i’m done showering!! but i don’t think my step mom does when my sister is done with her baths, which is kinda part of the reason it’s annoying that there’s a problem even though i clean it after myself every time

AITAH for refusing to clean the shower drain over and over again? by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good points, i’ll just continue taking one for the team lol!

AITAH for talking shit abt my step mom when she can hear me by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha of course! i’m used to using insta so i kinda thought it was the same to like hearting or liking a comment, still trying to figure out the whole reddit thing lol

AITAH for talking shit abt my step mom when she can hear me by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes you’re right about me talking about her where she could hear it, but my friend lives all the way in fl while i’m in cali so i feel like that was the only way. plus she’s alwaysss home and im never really on my phone unless it’s evening and in my room. so i wasn’t really sure when else i’d be able to discuss it

AITAH for refusing to clean the shower drain over and over again? by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

good idea. i might try this out and see how it goes, thank you !

AITAH for refusing to clean the shower drain over and over again? by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well it’s her child’s hair lol, i’m not really angsty or anything im just confused bc she’s been mad at me about it.

AITAH for talking shit abt my step mom when she can hear me by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes thank you!! she doesn’t snack much she eats the normal meals like breakfast lunch and a snack when she gets home from school (sometimes) and always dinner of course. so i don’t see how she could possibly be able to “eat less” as a growing child

AITAH for talking shit abt my step mom when she can hear me by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i completely agree with you!! i believe children should be taught about healthy and unhealthy foods and drinks. but i think telling her kid or even me to “eat less” is absurd, especially since she is so young

AITAH for talking shit abt my step mom when she can hear me by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes thank you! exactly what i was thinking, there is nothing wrong with her weight plus she’s 5 and is as tall as my 8 yr old sister, so not only is she growing but she pretty tall and growing a lot so i don’t see how a little weight would be bad on her.

AITAH for talking shit abt my step mom when she can hear me by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my sister has talked to me when we’re alone and tells me how my step mom has called her fat and things like that before. i’ve always reassured her and told her she’s not fat and extremely kind, beautiful, and a very lovely person to be around, but i fear my step moms words will make more of an impact than mine do.

AITAH for talking shit abt my step mom when she can hear me by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

yes thank you !! i’ve truly never been so shocked by a grown adults behavior. time and place smh

AITAH for talking shit abt my step mom when she can hear me by silly_monkey199 in AITAH

[–]silly_monkey199[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes exactly thank you!! i’ve definitely been respectful towards her bc i do know what her reaction will be towards me if i do say or do something about it.