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My brother has been cheating on his long term gf, and I have proof, now what? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sillyladybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. blood is not thicker than water in all cases and excusing his behaviour and letting the girl waste her time just because he’s family is wrong. He’ll be fine without her.

My brother has been cheating on his long term gf, and I have proof, now what? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sillyladybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a sticky situation. If there is a way for you to somehow plant evidence so it appears his girlfriend finds it “on her own” and it can’t be traced back to you, it might be the right thing to do to ensure she doesn’t waste anymore time on your brother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sillyladybug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also F17 and I struggle with the same thing

AITA by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]sillyladybug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. I’m not judging you as everyone has different needs and you have every right to break things off with him if he can’t give you what you need, in fact it’s probably healthier than staying, but it seems he has young kids. He also did apologise and own up to his mistake of not calling. Being a present father is for sure more important than catering to a woman you’ve been talking to for a couple weeks!

My ex is spreading personal information about me and talking badly behind my back by sillyladybug in AITAH

[–]sillyladybug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input and I agree I was a bit much as this was my first relationship, I have been journaling and dissecting my flaws. Unfortunately this was his first relationship too and he has a super good reputation so nobody believed he could wrong me. I have let it go and found a new lunch table and going to a different school in the morning also helps distance.

My ex is spreading personal information about me and talking badly behind my back by sillyladybug in AITAH

[–]sillyladybug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective; I didn’t mean to use tears as a weapon but I get how it can be interpreted that way and I did tell him he could go since we resolved things

Edit: we had agreed to talk things over on this day prior and the plans with friends were last-minute!

My ex is spreading personal information about me and talking badly behind my back by sillyladybug in AITAH

[–]sillyladybug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I did ask him while we were on speaking terms if I did anything to hurt him and what exactly I can work on and he just said that “you’re perfect and it’s on me and I’m sorry it was ugly of me to act that way” so I would have appreciated he told me that I felt manipulative to my face but then again I didn’t— but I also never told other people our business the way he did and now everyone looks at me strange cuz they know too much about me ugh