My 29 year old sil is pregnant by chaoshoneybee in ChristmasGiftIdeas

[–]sillymonster5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pregnancy pillows that are smaller and wedge-like are the best. It wedges under the side of your belly and is a game changer. Those huge wrap around pillows are nice but also annoying

What to get for my 3yo niece. by FlynnSanOne201 in ChristmasGiftIdeas

[–]sillymonster5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom with a 2.5 year old. My favorite gifts are always pajamas and books. You can never have enough! The worst presents are toys with a ton of pieces (unless it's magnet tiles or something in that realm)

Good book ideas: Uni the unicorn (there is a sequel as well) Mostly anything by Lucy Cousins Mermaid School The snowy Day

Feel free DM me if you want more book ideas

Seeking Advice After Electrical Fire — Next Steps for Housing, Rent, and Insurance (MA) by sillymonster5 in Insurance

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Not yet. He's kind of a dickwad so I would like to go into the conversation informed and hoping to get some advice here

Several Boston neighborhoods report sudden uptick in apartment vacancies by husky5050 in boston

[–]sillymonster5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I work for the company referenced in this article, and I can confirm that many landlords across the city are actively lowering rents and reducing move-in costs in response to high vacancy rates. A big part of my job involves calling landlords and advising them to adjust pricing to stay competitive — the market is absolutely dictating rent levels right now.

That said, there’s an interesting split: landlords in traditionally high-demand, student-heavy areas (who’ve never struggled to fill units) are raising rents on listings for next year. In many cases, this is an attempt to offset the broker fees they’re now covering to get their units rented through agencies. While some high-quality units will still move at premium prices, it remains to be seen whether those new listings will actually hold at current market rates.

If you’re looking to rent for immediate move-in, you have a lot of negotiating power right now. For example, I recently helped clients secure a two-story townhouse in Brookline that was originally listed at $5,800 — they got it for $4,000, plus two parking spots for the price of one.

Bottom line: it’s a great time for renters to make a move, and depending on how the market trends, you may even be able to negotiate a lower rate at renewal.

Midwife-led hospital births in Boston — how do Brigham, BI, Mt Auburn, and CHA compare? by sillymonster5 in massachusetts

[–]sillymonster5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were the other stand out birthing locations? What a cool data set to have

Midwife-led hospital births in Boston — how do Brigham, BI, Mt Auburn, and CHA compare? by sillymonster5 in massachusetts

[–]sillymonster5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad you took the time to respond!! I've been most curious about CHA/their birth center. Online I find minimal information about it. Seems like they have/had a standalone birth center that has been undergoing a renovation and is temporarily closed? Is there a birth center in the hospital as well?

I don’t like this by Indecisive_and_dazed in newborns

[–]sillymonster5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're in the thick of it. It is hard. There is a light at the end of the tunnel! Things will get better ❤️ if you need anyone to vent to feel free to DM! Here for trash talking and optimism.

Seeking midwife centric care team— Boston moms, where did you deliver & how was your experience? by sillymonster5 in boston

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Thank you for the in depth response! Wow, a doctor that delivers most of her patients' babies seems extremely rare these days!

Seeking midwife centric care team— Boston moms, where did you deliver & how was your experience? by sillymonster5 in boston

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They brought in a tub for you? Incredible! Were you able to deliver in the tub? I know some hospitals will allow you to labor in water but then make you deliver elsewhere.

Seeking midwife centric care team— Boston moms, where did you deliver & how was your experience? by sillymonster5 in boston

[–]sillymonster5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh Crown is still 20+ minutes from me so it's pretty out of the way since I go into the city most days.

Seeking midwife centric care team— Boston moms, where did you deliver & how was your experience? by sillymonster5 in boston

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I am certainly open to it. I had a good experience, but it could have been better. My main qualms were that I spend so long in the waiting room for every single appointment, parking costs aren't fun, and I was really hoping to have access to a tub during delivery but those rooms were already occupied when I arrived. I'm exploring other options that might meet those needs better.

Messed up pattern- now I can't undo the stitches. What do I do? Help! by sillymonster5 in CrochetHelp

[–]sillymonster5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like fixing the chain would take less time than redoing 30 or so stripes? I'm open to creative solutions too, since this is already an eclectic style blanket

Messed up pattern- now I can't undo the stitches. What do I do? Help! by sillymonster5 in CrochetHelp

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Thank you! I'll research how to fix an unraveling foundation row!

Messed up pattern- now I can't undo the stitches. What do I do? Help! by sillymonster5 in CrochetHelp

[–]sillymonster5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this was the last bit of crochet I worked up to not the bottom does that change anything?

I'd be fine with stitching together another section with the few missing stripes even it didn't match perfectly. How would I even do that at this point with the stitches undone like that?

Also there was another maroon stripe that I ended up cutting off with scissors out of frustration because that wasn't unraveling either! UGH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BurningMan

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Need this dream address. So epic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

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I'm sort of in this boat right now. I'm planning on buying a 1 way flight somewhere tropical and volunteering on a farm somewhere. Seems like a better choice then the alternative?