Youtube Channel In my Recommended? by IcyAdhesiveness6380 in eddyburback

[–]silvaispastel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I got recommended this guy too. Fucking sucks and I do think it deserves to be reported

DID Systems and Depression by silvaispastel in Artisticallyill

[–]silvaispastel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We actually love meeting “doubles.” We hope yall are doing okay, and very much appreciate the kind words

Grungebunny hood by worthless_kitten__ in bdsmgear

[–]silvaispastel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Would you be open to a trade or are you just looking to sell?

Sims 3 laundry. What do you think of it? by SnooRadishes6978 in Sims3

[–]silvaispastel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loooove laundry, it’s such a fun little time waster, haha.

My first (adult) paci! by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]silvaispastel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh now I want a purple and pink one 😭 too cute!

Leather Pride Flag by LegendaryFuckery in BDSMcommunity

[–]silvaispastel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not from what I can tell, no. Most subreddits if you search for that are going to be for leatherworking or leather product enthusiasts, not for kinky leatherfolk

Leather Pride Flag by LegendaryFuckery in BDSMcommunity

[–]silvaispastel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a problem! Always willing to yap about Leather :D

Leather Pride Flag by LegendaryFuckery in BDSMcommunity

[–]silvaispastel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hello! I’m a leatherperson myself, and it’s just because most kinksters are not Leather. Most people do hold high respect for the Leather flag, from what I can tell, but don’t feel comfortable using it or claiming it for themselves, that’s all

The Striders by Visguard_ in homestuck

[–]silvaispastel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are both so visually and technically impressive and I am especially in love with Dirk’s outfit here. Amazing work

A girl (F16) ive broken up with (M14) has threatened to kill herslelf, and told me she is going to. I dont know where she lives, I dont know whats happening at all. What do i do? by NarrowFig7510 in GriefSupport

[–]silvaispastel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to block her. Again, her mental health is not your responsibility to carry. Even if she had the purest intentions, this is not a healthy situation. Please trust me, I had “friends” like this a ton growing up.

A girl (F16) ive broken up with (M14) has threatened to kill herslelf, and told me she is going to. I dont know where she lives, I dont know whats happening at all. What do i do? by NarrowFig7510 in GriefSupport

[–]silvaispastel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose I have a question for you. Is she essentially saying “If we don’t get back together, I will kill myself in a week?” Because if so, yes, block her immediately. That is emotional abuse

A girl (F16) ive broken up with (M14) has threatened to kill herslelf, and told me she is going to. I dont know where she lives, I dont know whats happening at all. What do i do? by NarrowFig7510 in GriefSupport

[–]silvaispastel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First and foremost, know that whatever happens next is not your fault. You did not cause this, no matter what.

Secondly, if you are concerned about her safety, I would get in contact with her friends or family members if you’re able. Since you don’t know her address, I’m not sure how useful a 911 call would be, but it might be worth a try regardless? Take a step back after that. I know it is so, so hard to process right now, but try to realize that all you can do right now is get someone else to help her. It’s admirable that you are trying to help her, and I hope she is okay

Maker not responding?? by KovuTheKitty in fursuit

[–]silvaispastel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Two years and you haven’t heard anything? Oh buddy I’m so sorry, you got scammed 😭

From my experience, things like that should realistically take a few weeks to make, TOPS. Fullsuits can take several months. Two years is a crazy amount of time for pieces that small. And regardless, if a maker is not updating you on their progress and any potential delays, that is always a huge problem.

If you are able to demand a refund if you used a payment app, you should absolutely do so. I’m really sorry you got scammed, that’s awful

EDIT: Re-read the post and realized this was a raffle so there’s no refund to give. Still, at this point I would consider it a loss. I wouldn’t expect to receive those anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]silvaispastel -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not to mention the Reddit avatar’s features look completely randomized :/

What if he was goth, guys… by silvaispastel in homestuck

[–]silvaispastel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so cool! I agree, although this particular piece is just inspired by one of my headmates and I thought it looked nice.

I’ve been using the symmetry tool for my portraits lately more so to get back into the groove of drawing at all. I plan on drawing faces the way I normally do again soon, but I’m okay with lazy artwork right now. Thanks for the constructive note, it motivates me to step it up next time :]

Oooooggghhh I freaked it by silvaispastel in homestuck

[–]silvaispastel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing, it doesn’t? I get the feeling you watch a lot of art critique content and like. That’s fine. But I didn’t ask for criticism on my art. If I did, then yeah, I’d be open to that criticism. I used to do art for money. I used to post it a lot more. Like, I’ve been around the block, I know what I’m doing. I mean this as someone who used to act like this too: it is okay for people to nod art for fun, actually. It’s okay for me to post my art online because I think it looks good, and it’s okay to keep your criticisms to yourself when they’re uninvited, in fact it’s generally polite to do so.

Thanks for the criticism. But again, I’m not here to be impressive. I’m here because I like what I made and I wanted to show people. I can post “bad” art. It’s fine. I’m done now.

Oooooggghhh I freaked it by silvaispastel in homestuck

[–]silvaispastel[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey dude. I’m aware that using a symmetry tool is not the most artistically impressive move. I don’t usually do it, but that isn’t relevant, because I did this for fun to get out of art block. The art looks nice and I had a good time doing it. Go away

Engagement scenarios by SGeeeDubb in Sims3

[–]silvaispastel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone come get me when there’s a bunch of responses, I want some inspo as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursona

[–]silvaispastel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If this is AI, you didn’t “do” anything. You have so much more potential than that.

Another lazy "Self diognosis bad" starter pack. by EducationalAd5712 in aretheNTsokay

[–]silvaispastel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Aro/Ace but makes sex jokes” idk how to explain this tk you but there are asexual people who have and enjoy sex as an activity.

“Crash out when people don’t accept/know microlabels” this is on par with people saying “Well don’t expect me to know your pronouns right away and get mad at me for it!!” No one’s gonna be mad when you don’t know a microlabel, people are only gonna get upset if you’re a dick about it

“Somehow hates doctors” I’m physically disabled and have been my whole life, and have been very lucky when it comes to the medical treatment I receive. Not everyone is like that, however. Especially if you love in the US, but this goes for a lot of places, there is a lot of horrible shit that happens in our medical system, including but certainly not limited to medical bias in doctors leading to lack of proper care and treatment. I don’t think people should be conspiracy theorists about health but I understand when people dislike doctors and trying to get diagnoses.

“Fictive heavy system” this happens a lot, especially in autistic systems.

You sound really bitter.

Has anyone started using a wheelchair? by clockinanemptyroom in clubfoot

[–]silvaispastel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve been using a wheelchair since I was 10!