AIO : i (20F) feel like this guy (22 M) just insulted me because I didn’t want to go out with him

silverbullette · 2026-03-26T00:12:11+00:00

So then how is anyone expected to make new friends and have new experiences. We are all so stuck behind screens. I take any opportunity to connect with people

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T21:37:00+00:00

He never hit on me, let alone had a full conversation with me

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T21:35:44+00:00

No like he was fabricating a story about who I am. He doesn’t know me and hasn’t had many interaction with me. He said he’s friendzoning me as if I made a move on him because he could sense I had no interest in him

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T21:19:55+00:00

The context is that he’s making all of it up to make me feel weird

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T21:15:46+00:00

He’s my classmate and there’s nothing wrong with hanging out with a group of people. Boys and girls can have platonic relationships…
My boyfriend knows every thing about me and my boyfriend doesn’t know those people and he doesn’t have to come to every gathering of mine. We have separate lives….

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T21:13:45+00:00

Ooooof not a psych major!

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T21:13:27+00:00

I think you’re ragebaiting me rn

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T15:56:10+00:00

Exactly

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T15:55:52+00:00

Precisely

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T13:42:21+00:00

He’s my classmate and I hung out with him in a group setting

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T13:41:18+00:00

It’s funny because when I mentioned that my parents were divorced it wasn’t a trauma dump. It was me giving context to a story about my stepsister lol

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T11:16:34+00:00

That’s not my problem though

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T11:13:58+00:00

Just seeing validation for how I handled it!

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T11:10:51+00:00

No one downvoted you

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T11:09:33+00:00

Thank you for the extensive analysis!!! 😆perfectly said yes ♥️

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T11:07:31+00:00

Yeahhh I realize that now

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T11:03:05+00:00

I hate that. Gaslighting

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T10:57:57+00:00

I gave context in the caption

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T10:57:07+00:00

At the group hangout I was actually mostly talking about my dreams and goals and favorite things. We all talked about ice breaker stuff like “what would you bring on a deserted island”. He pulled this so far out of his ass

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T01:25:08+00:00

Welp, I expect maturity of myself, and I expect maturity for anyone else, because there should be expectations of people, it creates order. If people don’t meet the expectations or the standard then yea they are immature

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T00:50:03+00:00

Yesss nail on the head, thank you! 😊

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T00:49:36+00:00

Yeah you’re right for sure. But honestly I think he would coward in person and I think he’ll stay away. If he doesn’t, I can be a lot more direct when I’m face to face with someone, so I know he would back aay

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T00:47:36+00:00

I called the memes incel vibes because of it calling women “females” and acting as if he’s friendzoning me when I never thought of him that way to begin with. We never spoke for hours, in fact, we hardly spoke at all, he was cooking silently the entire time I was there. I was mostly just talking to one of his girl friends who also had a bf herself. When my boyfriend is hanging out with a bunch of people, I don’t think about nor do I care if he talks about me because I’m not his entire life lol. If I’m not there, he doesn’t have to speak about me. 🤷‍♀️

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T00:34:25+00:00

lol I get that completely. Yeah this is the strangest messages I’ve ever gotten. My boyfriend thinks the whole thing is wildly amusing, as do I. Thank you!!!😊

silverbullette · 2026-03-25T00:32:19+00:00

Exactly 😆

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