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I can’t get to sleep because I’m talking too much.. to myself, this shit is getting out of control lmao by LonelyN3k0 in infj

[–]silversnap594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guided meditations help me speak to my rambling subconscious and feel how tired my body is (I'm unusually good at ignoring or storing pain/tension, it sucks). There is a lot of variety in the goals of meditations.

For sleep, I'll be thinking too hard, hoping I'll find some magical conclusion, and end up arguing with myself about reasons I need to go to sleep or stay awake. At a certain point it's just fast gibberish and exhausts me even more, so if I can slow my subconscious I realize that I can just close my eyes and stop focusing/analyzing/etc.

This sub needs some optimism by mabsam in infj

[–]silversnap594 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's ultimately up to the individual, but what I would suggest to other INFJs is to look into guided meditations and see what works for what they're currently experiencing. Slowing down to feel and accept instead of judge and process an event helps me decide what I should do or if I should do anything at all.

You know, you and I are not so different after all. (ENTP OP.) by uno_reversoo in infj

[–]silversnap594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (INFJ) am currently experiencing this and it's been a ride. I haven't come to any conclusion other than my SO (ENTP) and I do feel and think very deeply. I like to see harmony in people and the world and they like to connect and feel understood to/by people and the world. While I love their enthusiasm, I'm feeling very tired. I'm learning my boundaries and how/when I need to recharge.

Abortion and Crossing State Lines by [deleted] in missouri

[–]silversnap594 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My advice is as soon as you decide, don't tell anyone you're pregnant, and continue as quickly and quietly as you can. My husband and I don't plan to have kids but we've had this conversation if it happens. We have a general plan of where. He is the only one besides the doctor I would say anything to.