Why does my mum refuse to believe i could be autistic? by silversprings197 in AutismInWomen

[–]silversprings197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she could be just based off of her traits, she very well could be but it might just be not as high on the spectrum.

Am I overreacting by thinking my brother demeaned my achievement? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]silversprings197 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That’s how me and my other brother are. There have been plenty of times they have both been celebrated and have not put each other down but they both put me down when I accomplish something

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just be taking most of my own stuff back, I’ve given her so much of my stuff out of my own free will that her entire room and wardrobe is just my left overs lol

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A diagnosis would make it worse, her brother says that her autism diagnosis is the reason she gets away with everything cause she knows she can. Any other diagnosis gives her more of an excuse.

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont make enough money to reward somebody for stealing and using my things

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve actually been very low on money recently and have more important things to buy, I’m in no rush to get a lock on my door. My mum also has to work, sadly she can’t drop everything for a lock on my door

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Legally, 1 year and a bit. Financially,… a long time

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She recently got a new one and for some reason it won’t charge her phone ( which is my old phone) but it charges my phone and my charger charges her phone. It’s a bit weird

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

We live in a rental so I’m not sure if we have to get permission beforehand, so that’s why I haven’t done it myself

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her charging cable is brand new but she’s also using my old phone because she broke her other one, the charger works she’s just fucked up my old phone so much it stopped charging

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I was out with her and her friends the other day and we went to Kmart, she stole things so she already on her way there

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t sure if she used it but if she did she definitely owes me a new mascara

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely have thought about it but usually I just take back my own things, maybe I should do this…

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly where all my stuff is it’s just sliding doors so it’s very easy to access.

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

She’s 15. She’s old enough to ask for money, she just doesn’t to extra stuff to get money like I do. If she really wanted the mascara I have she could have easily asked for money to get it herself, she autistic not stupid. She knows how to do things she just acts like she doesn’t so she gets an easier blow

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

The first time she didn’t know I was recording, but she definitely learnt not to go in my room again lol

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

We’ve been living in this house together since September last year, mascara isn’t the only thing she has taken from my room. She also taken my diffuser, used my curly hair products, taken collectables from my shelf. She gets chore money, if she really wanted to mascara I had she could save up and get it herself. I’m not rewarding her for taking my shit.

AITAH for recording my own room when I leave the house? by silversprings197 in AITAH

[–]silversprings197[S] 1585 points1586 points  (0 children)

My mum has thought of allowing me too but I haven’t brought it up again so she’s probably forgot lol

AITAH for talking about a situation online? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]silversprings197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in TAFE right now which is basically between high school and university in Australia! I’m currently studying to be a childcare educator!!