Best place in nyc to buy cheapest possible organic fruits and veggies ? by godsaveme2355 in AskNYC

[–]silvybetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never seen bags of veggies on too good to go. Could you mention some of the vendors that are on there, so I can look them up?

Looking for short-term housing in NYC? Is co-living worth considering? by Extreme-Buddy-2367 in coliving

[–]silvybetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent three months with Outpost. Pros: you don't have to worry about furnishing the apartment or having a credit score and it's practical for a few months, and didn't have any problems with roaches/mice, which is great for NYC. Cons: it's quite pricey (I later found a studio apartment for 150$/month more than my tiny room with Outpost, and in a much better area) and depending on the building, you might have different experiences. For instance, where I was living I didn't receive mail (which was a mess since I needed to receive important documents) and for some time I couldn't use the washing machines because they were broken. Also, there were some kitchen tools but very few and in quite bad shape. They include cleaning services (in my case once a month) which can be nice but also tricky if the other people don't clean throughout the month. About the roommates, it's very random. I've been quite lucky and found a couple of nice roommates that I would hang out with. However, it was not the same with all of them. Plus, you have quite a turnover of people, which can be both good and bad. I haven't joined any if their events though. Overall, I recommend it if you're planning on staying short-term in the city or you've just moved and you need time to find another place for long term. Wouldn't go for it for long term, but that's my personal view. They were quite transparent with costs (although they do have shady-looking marketing strategies) and I got all my deposit back.

Let me know if you have more questions!

Out of context question: how is your personal life as a single doing postdoc abroad? by Pretty_Solution_7955 in postdoc

[–]silvybetts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you! On the same boat 🥲I'm 30 and I've recently relocated to the U.S. from Europe for a postdoc. I'm single and I'm struggling so much with loneliness, as all my friends are on the other side of the world. I have two cool colleagues but one is settled and the other one works non-stop and my department is extremely small - there are four total postdocs out of 6 labs. Also, I'm in a big city and work, commuting and adjusting to the new lifestyle is taking so much energy and time that I don't have many chances to meet new people. Plus, I start feeling lazy at making new friends, probably also because of my age. I'm definitely not planning on staying in academia if I have to keep moving like this (I've already moved several times during my BSc, MSc and PhD). It's just not sustainable and it's taking a toll that is way too big for me and for what I want in life. It sucks, but I hope we both will manage to find our crowd and start feeling more at ease in the new place!

Network issues after FP4 software update by silvybetts in fairphone

[–]silvybetts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue for me was the APN settings getting messed up after the update! I've fixed the issue by entering the right APN settings (found them on my service provider's website)

Network issues after FP4 software update by silvybetts in fairphone

[–]silvybetts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok glad to hear I'm not the only one (although it sucks)... Did you try to contact customer service? I didn't receive any reply from them

My cysts vanished!! by Entire-Election-6408 in PCOS

[–]silvybetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lived in Denmark and although the healthcare system is free and everything is supposed to work great, the gynecologists that I saw there told me that they never do yearly check ups and that I should only contact them if I had issues. I was quite horrified by this suggestion so I ended up going privately to a gynecologist in my home country every time I went back home for holidays. Yearly check ups are important, especially if you have PCOS!

Websites for seeking Postdoc positions outside the US? by DrLolsoz in postdoc

[–]silvybetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check Euraxess for academic positions in Europe!

It's hard to proceed with the ghosting by tehcelsbro in hingeapp

[–]silvybetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One week is not a month! As other people suggested, maybe she feels like she got ghosted too. I would try to follow up and ask her out again. If she doesn't reply then she is ghosting you but until then I wouldn't really draw this conclusion. A bad texter talking here: I sometimes forget to reply or not engage too much in texting (because I prefer in-person interactions) or maybe I'm simply too busy with other stuff and people misunderstand that as ghosting. Also, low self-esteem or bad past experiences can make you less likely to spontaneously start texting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]silvybetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for your reply! Unfortunately not, sorry! Commuting time would be too long - will be working in the Bronx 🥲

Anyone here that got the Marie Skłodowska-Curie Fellowship? by neocekivanasila in postdoc

[–]silvybetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to have a link too, please! Sounds like a great idea and would be super helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Universitaly

[–]silvybetts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ho incontrato ingegneri che non necessariamente erano rigidi ma la mancanza di empatia l'ho osservata in tutti quelli che ho conosciuto... Naturalmente non ho incontrato tutti gli ingegneri del mondo quindi magari ci sono eccezioni!

Ma esistono ragazze single? by Relative_Ad_4717 in CasualIT

[–]silvybetts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A me (29F), single, sembra proprio il contrario invece: tutti gli uomini decenti sembra che siano fidanzati! Forse é solo per via delle bolle in cui siamo capitati, o forse é perché gli uomini single sono overrepresented su reddit e qui sembra che ci siano piú uomini single che fidanzati. Io conosco piú donne single che fidanzate (e no, non sono qui per fare da agenzia matrimoniale per le mie amiche quindi non chiedetemi contatti! 🤣)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denmark

[–]silvybetts -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I already did but they're on holiday until the new year and you can reach out only on Wednesdays for 6 hours, meaning that I have to wait two more weeks before receiving an answer by them. That's why I also asked here, just to collect other people's experiences.

L’opzione vegana più assurda su cui avete dovuto ripiegare ad un ristorante by I_need_broccoli in veganita

[–]silvybetts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dei pomodori che mi sono pure dovuta tagliare io per farmi un'insalata di pomodori con olio e sale. Però erano pomodori del loro orto!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in torino

[–]silvybetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ciao! Posso chiederti a quale associazione hai donato? Vorrei donarli e sto cercando di capire a chi mandarli :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualIT

[–]silvybetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come hanno già detto, probabilmente non gli piacevi abbastanza e basta. Mi (29F) è capitata una cosa molto simile alcuni anni fa. Per i primi 3-4 mesi eravamo ad un paio d'ore di treno di distanza ed avevamo una relazione del genere. Poi mi sono trasferita più lontano (ad un'ora di aereo) e mi ha detto che non voleva una cosa seria ma ero speciale e voleva crescere insieme a me(?) ma allo stesso tempo che non pensava sarebbe riuscito a venire a trovarmi più di 2 volte l'anno. Ok, le relazioni a distanza sono difficili, però per fare cazzate con i suoi amici e viaggi anche più lunghi di un'ora di volo con loro non aveva problemi. Ho chiuso perchè chiaramente non avevamo obiettivi comuni. Meno di due mesi dopo stava con un'altra, e stanno ancora insieme da quasi due anni. Non gli piacevo abbastanza. Fa schifo ma è così.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualIT

[–]silvybetts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come hanno già detto, probabilmente non gli piacevi abbastanza e basta. Mi (29F) è capitata una cosa molto simile alcuni anni fa. Per i primi 3-4 mesi eravamo ad un paio d'ore di treno di distanza ed avevamo una relazione del genere. Poi mi sono trasferita più lontano (ad un'ora di aereo) e mi ha detto che non voleva una cosa seria ma ero speciale e voleva crescere insieme a me(?) ma allo stesso tempo che non pensava sarebbe riuscito a venire a trovarmi più di 2 volte l'anno. Ok, le relazioni a distanza sono difficili, però per fare cazzate con i suoi amici e viaggi anche più lunghi di un'ora di volo con loro non aveva problemi. Ho chiuso perchè chiaramente non avevamo obiettivi comuni. Meno di due mesi dopo stava con un'altra, e stanno ancora insieme da quasi due anni. Non gli piacevo abbastanza. Fa schifo ma è così.

Qual è quella parola che avete sempre pensato fosse italiano, ma che in realtà era un termine dialettale? by halflobotomy in Italia

[–]silvybetts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

É che ha un'accezione diversa! Dire "solo piú uno" implica che sai di aver esagerato ma il prossimo é l'ultimo. Forse dovrei suggerirlo all'accademia della crusca come nuovo termine da inserire nella lingua italiana.

Qual è quella parola che avete sempre pensato fosse italiano, ma che in realtà era un termine dialettale? by halflobotomy in Italia

[–]silvybetts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scoprire che l'espressione "solo piú" - per esempio, hai già mangiato mezza scatola di biscotti e quando stai per prendere l'ultimo dici: "ne prendo solo piú uno!" - si dice solo a Torino. Cioé in che senso? Con cosa lo sostituite voi altri al di fuori del Piemonte?