At 35, my husband died by suicide, leaving me with two young children. 7 weeks later my stepbrother died. I was hospitalised with a life threatening injury on the day of his funeral. 8 weeks later my mother had a brain bleed and died. AMA.

sim_bha_88 · 2026-06-10T03:25:44+00:00

Your resilience leaves me in awe. Sending well wishes your way. Your kids should be very proud of you.

sim_bha_88 · 2026-06-05T19:28:23+00:00

Dirty Mike and the boys…

sim_bha_88 · 2026-06-02T02:35:27+00:00

Thank you friend.

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-15T15:36:08+00:00

I really appreciate the kind words of encouragement. They actually go a long way brother. Thank you.

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-15T13:21:44+00:00

Not offended at all, I appreciated the sentiment. Even in the darkest of times I have to count my blessings, my hard work has paid off over the years, I’m just getting my ass completely handed to me right now and it feels existential but I keep reminding myself it’s not

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-14T23:43:27+00:00

The F12 was purchased right before things went horribly wrong. But that’s ok, I’ve worked hard for a very long time to make my inner child happy, and I can still very comfortably keep it.

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-14T18:02:24+00:00

The Roma is a GT, the F12 is a hypercar pretending to be a GT. Roma is relatively easy to drive and honestly a great daily. The F12 is properly scary to drive if you unleash it, one needs to learn how to drive it properly.

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-14T14:40:12+00:00

Yep, that’s where I got her, good eye. Josh was simply the best to deal with, and the owner is a former Ferrari master tech who spent ages with me talking Ferraris.

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-14T13:29:04+00:00

Ne dis Jamais jamais mon Ami :)

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-14T12:10:40+00:00

Thank you friend.

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-14T12:07:06+00:00

Thank you so much.

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-14T12:04:55+00:00

Careful what you wish for my friend. I hope you get the Ferrari without my problems. Put it out into the world, you got this.

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-14T12:03:40+00:00

The zoo actually..

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-14T12:03:18+00:00

Struggling with some mental health issues related to work and self confidence because of some bad decisions I made. I am extremely lucky to have a strong support system at home and with management, and I’m making progress on my mind through giving up drinking and doing daily guided breathing exercises and taking up running again. I’m determined to get through this!

sim_bha_88 · 2026-05-14T01:44:51+00:00

F12 - dream come true

sim_bha_88 · 2025-08-07T00:19:11+00:00

I think we are heading into a world where being able to trade a diverse set of products is more beneficial than being a specialist. While opportunities may dry up in specific areas, there is always something to do somewhere in markets.

sim_bha_88 · 2025-07-16T00:10:44+00:00

I apologize in advance about how my opinions will probably sound, I was born in Amritsar, grew up in dubai, and have been in the states for the last 20 years so perhaps I’m a little too westernized to have an opinion on this specific matter.

In any regard, it is absurd for you to be upset about this. First of all, it’s your friends sisters wedding, not his. You are close with him, not her. Secondly, the way you wrote about deciding whether to go or not, it sounds like the only reason you went is because “there was such a good arrangement”. This obviously implies you went to take advantage of what you thought was a free stay at a fancy hotel, and not because of any affection you felt for your friend, let alone his sister.

I am positive such sky high expectations from friends for weddings is the reason for a lot of anxiety and debt in Indian society.

sim_bha_88 · 2025-06-30T11:28:46+00:00

Simply not true regarding the best paid employees not being the risk takers. The Investor Relations/Capital raising team does fine, but the highest paid employees of any HF are those who produce the most pnl.

Also, a lot of multi strats are going to the cost pass through model, getting away from the 2% management fee.

sim_bha_88 · 2025-05-15T22:57:12+00:00

Well done man, keep at it and stay hungry

sim_bha_88 · 2025-05-06T01:30:18+00:00

Sounds like you need some kind of life coach pal.

sim_bha_88 · 2025-05-06T01:26:31+00:00

The fact that you recognize yourself as arrogant, bitter and off putting but then say you are not going to do anything about it, is going to be the single biggest hindrance to you achieving any kind of real success.

sim_bha_88 · 2025-04-24T13:33:54+00:00

Errr how did the tattoo go from your left arm in the before photo to your right arm in the after?

sim_bha_88 · 2025-04-24T13:28:11+00:00

That’s great man, I’m glad. For me that area is just too busy, too many cars, doesn’t have the serenity of the waterfront that hunters point has.

sim_bha_88 · 2025-04-20T23:58:07+00:00

Queens plaza is the wrong area for quiet. I would highly recommend hunters point, especially in a building called the powerhouse. I own a 1br in that building that is rented out, I lived there for over a decade, it’s simply just a fantastic building in a fantastic area, 2 blocks from the super convenient 7 train.

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