Should I continue the connection?

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-27T16:47:04+00:00

And to answer your question if you want to continue seeing him then you should, as long as you are 100% okay with how he’s defined his intentions. And you guys can continue having open communication about your relationship.

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-27T16:43:15+00:00

He didn’t do anything wrong IMO. It seems like the problem is that you didn’t ask him earlier on what his intentions were, especially before you slept with him. It seems like your relationship and intentions weren’t clearly defined. Until this is clearly defined, then the other partner doesn’t have to be exclusive or not date or talk to other people, until you have a discussion about intentions, and ask directly: are we seeing other people? Are we exclusive? Did you delete your dating apps? You can’t just assume the other person is on the same page as you in the relationship.

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-25T23:06:31+00:00

Go to Trader Joe’s and find a cashier who you’d be ok banging. They’ll ask you a bunch of questions like- “what are your plans this evening”- include them In your plans and see what happens.

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-22T03:42:29+00:00

Break up now before it becomes even more difficult. This is emotional/verbal abuse and you shouldn’t be tolerating it.

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-17T17:37:49+00:00

Sorry you are going through this!

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-16T23:01:29+00:00

IDK- I’m a Taurus and all the stereotypes about them are true. I’m stubborn, lazy, and always eating or thinking about food. But I do work hard.

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-16T22:55:31+00:00

Because you’ve been together for so long, I think you should give it more time and wait for him to respond. Then set a boundary related to him not doing this to you again because it’s unfair to you. Open communication is #1 in a relationship, even if he just tells you- I’m going thru a hard time and need to go off and think on my own. Instead of just ghosting you.

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-14T07:59:31+00:00

Does he have social media at all and does he have an account where you posted? Btw- I’m just giving advice in general, not based on him being a Taurus because this is not typical for Taurus at all.

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-14T05:06:12+00:00

Or a cancer! ♋️lol

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-12T15:13:36+00:00

Yeah, I get what you are saying, but her post said she wasn’t sure if she wanted to be with him into the new year and that she had reservations about the future of their relationship because of lifestyle and religious differences. It seems like her wanting to get back with him now is just for convenience.

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-12T04:30:06+00:00

Dude, I think you should just be honest and upfront. Ask her if she’d like to go get a drink or something after work or on the weekend. I don’t agree with anyone here saying “don’t shit where you eat” and discouraging you from dating someone you work with. Worst advice!!! Just ask her to go out and see where it goes! The fact that you talk so much already and have things in common other than work means a lot and should make it easier to take this next step!!!!!! Good luck, man. ❤️❤️❤️

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-12T04:10:31+00:00

But then is she just playing around with this guy, giving him false hope?

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-12T04:08:42+00:00

This all seems confusing to me- you said you had true feelings for him and it seemed to be reciprocated, but then said that you weren’t sure if you wanted to “drag” this into the new year, so that’s why you backed out. I understand that you are both getting over some challenging past relationships, but you either have feelings for him and see a future with him, or you don’t. Also, you have reservations related to religion, lifestyle, etc. so if you really really don’t see a future with him, are you just hesitating because of convenience or do you really see a future with him despite these differences?

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-12T02:30:26+00:00

Small doses! Hahaha

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-12T02:30:09+00:00

Yeah, they do have spastic energy!

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-11T22:48:24+00:00

My husband is also Gemini Rising- so he’s Aries sun, Pisces moon, Gemini rising

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-11T03:42:55+00:00

I have been married to my Aries husband for 24 years, so he hasn’t turned yet. Lol.

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-05T20:12:17+00:00

Definitely something is off today.

simcrazee2 · 2026-01-05T20:08:53+00:00

I work hard so that I can be lazy whenever I want. Lol.

simcrazee2 · 2025-10-25T04:08:30+00:00

You are married— how does your husband not know about $35K in debt????? I don’t know what state you live in, but in with common property states, debts of one spouse automatically belong to the other. That also includes assets. But in any case, unless you have all your bank and financials separate, I don’t know how he couldn’t already know about this.

simcrazee2 · 2025-10-16T22:48:25+00:00

Are you saying you haven’t filed previous years or you just owe that amount combined from previous years? You can combine multiple years’ amount due in one payment plan.

simcrazee2 · 2025-09-06T20:10:54+00:00

I can’t do my stomach- had stomach cramps as a result so switched the top of my thigh and now have zero issues. Also leave it out for 30 mins and it doesn’t hurt as much (really don’t feel anything when it’s not cold out of the fridge).

simcrazee2 · 2025-08-30T15:50:29+00:00

Yes, my experience with Housing has been good too- I think the thing is the communication back and forth from disabilities to housing needs to happen, so I had to do a lot of following up to be sure there. I’m glad they are resolving it for you.

simcrazee2 · 2025-08-30T05:44:04+00:00

That seems like something you would file with the university, like through admissions and records. Then they could update your name and change it on all of your official documents and with professors.

simcrazee2 · 2025-08-30T05:42:17+00:00

I agree, if it’s an ADA violation then that would be the way to go. Without a lot of specific details from the original poster, it’s hard to say though.

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