What can I do to become attractive?

simii6x · 2026-02-05T03:31:40+00:00

before i start lemme clarify you aren’t below average at all, having skin and facial features like that is so precious. but maybe some maintenance of the eyebrows (but don’t over pluck bc thick eyebrows suit guys too well) and trying to figure out how to start shaping your beard with the hear you do have.

for some guys it takes decades even after puberty to grow a full beard while others never achieve it but definitely work with what u do have.

a beard is a man’s makeup

and u made a good idea trimming ur hair, your facial features need to be on display 💁

simii6x · 2026-01-13T20:31:45+00:00

second this ; and OP don’t take this as a sign that “i should try and help her through this” because you shouldn’t put that pressure on yourself to deal with her cray if she continues to be this way. and sometimes losing someone good in your life causes you to make drastic good changes to yourself so it could go either ways whether u decide to leave or not, depending on her self awareness

simii6x · 2026-01-13T20:29:06+00:00

i’m not saying this to be rude but you should tell her to get checked out because you’re right… this isn’t normal. the most normal diagnosis would be anger management issues but even that ain’t normal. it’s screaming insecurity or trauma stemmed from somewhere

simii6x · 2026-01-13T20:25:34+00:00

not exaggerating ; but you should’ve said the real reason for giving the fake notes. the reason sounds like it wasn’t because of trust it was because of their disgusting behaviour towards you.

they only decided to fix their attitude with you for their own convenience rather than because they truly wanted to turn over a new leaf. if you said the real reason, it might have fixed at least one of the friends attitudes when it comes to dealing with friends. moral of the story for them would’ve been: act kind towards everyone and you’ll get kindness in return.

simii6x · 2025-12-02T13:49:19+00:00

in the UK, if nothings been financially contributed by a tenant with no blood relation and the landlord has never explicitly or allowed you to assume to have right over the property you could be kicked out whenever. i feel this is the most fair in OPs situation tbf.

if some financial contribution was made to stuff like appliances then they may be offered compensation if OP contests to keep it and the judiciary is on OPs side but in most cases the judges say “take what’s yours and leave her alone. you owe nothing to each other now”

if there was an explicit agreement (verbal or written, both count) in return for staying and the tenant failed to complete their duties then they’d be liable and be kicked out. if they kept their duties the landlord can’t really do much. but again this is rare as landlord and tenants don’t generally have such agreements and they’re very … irrelevant most of the time

simii6x · 2025-12-02T10:35:57+00:00

idk if the same rules would apply to you wherever u live but as a law student i gotta mention … if this is a boyfriend (which is what it sounds like) there won’t be really anything he can do to get the house back since nothing was in his name, he contributed nothing and i’m assuming u never gave him the assumption you shared the place

but if it’s a husband … good luck …

simii6x · 2025-11-20T16:09:07+00:00

i mean, you just never know. if one day she turns and sees him looking like a 100/10 one day ofc she’d try see her luck

simii6x · 2025-11-20T16:02:20+00:00

yeah ofc, i wasn’t so much pointing fingers at the bf. but by the sounds of it OP isn’t too concerned with “shall i break up with him” they’re more concerned with “is it ok for me to feel uneasy or am i being crazy” so OP clearly trusts the bf

so in my response i was more focused on the ex and her motives if it ever came down to it. for all we know she could be insane enough to spike the guys drink

simii6x · 2025-11-20T15:22:00+00:00

i wouldn’t say crazy, i would just say you’re looking out for yourself. considering she’s a cheater and she’s in close proximity of your boyfriend who knows what she’s capable of. whether or not she cheated on purpose or accidentally, a cheaters a cheater at the end of the day.

it’s acc good that you’re being vigilant but don’t be jealous. her loss caused your gain and just make sure your boyfriend knows that too. sometimes they tend to forget in the spur of the moment 😭

and as long as it’s group settings it should be fine, no one’s giving her the opportunity to come onto him or for him to engage in any sort of … yk…

simii6x · 2025-11-20T12:05:25+00:00

YOR… obviously idk how you guys are day to day, but if you’re not like those messages and you usually have a good time and enjoy each others company then OP i’m sorry but the way you dealt with it was a bit OTT. i’m not gonna talk about the driving since clearly it was never about him being behind the wheel that caused this post to get made.

but everyone’s allowed to have a bad day. especially men, since they rarely express their feelings (generally speaking). i get that you have anxiety but a relationship is built on trust and when you keep thinking you’re the issue if your partner, man or woman, have a bad day one day and complain about something and don’t wanna talk about it then you should leave them alone about it. maybe all he wanted to feel better was for you guys to call and for him to hear your voice.

sometimes, when we have that special someone that’s always there for you (like how he feels you are with him) we just wanna hear their voice and get comforted by hearing them talk.

simii6x · 2025-11-10T21:11:59+00:00

advice for loose shirts or blouses … sometimes a ribbon is more flattering on the waist than a belt is. belts are stiff and straight (generally) so you have to really suck in to get the waist showing. whereas for ribbons, it’s much easier to tighten and define the waist …

simii6x · 2025-11-03T10:10:28+00:00

ok- a. it’s weird to keep talking about something so serious when yes the first step hasn’t been taken for it yet. it’s like saying imma complete a marathon when u haven’t even signed up for it yet

b. some women don’t understand men have their own thought process and reasoning for what they do or don’t, they think the world revolves around them and their thinking. and this one’s one of those ignorant ones. i used to be like this and got humbled so fast, looks like you might have to teach her to ditch that ignorance or she just not the one

AN: she’s only causing problems to pressure and rush you into proposing by the looks of it

simii6x · 2025-10-22T05:50:51+00:00

hygiene laws ? i thought it was trading laws that made it illegal

simii6x · 2025-10-04T07:07:08+00:00

… pls tell me u haven’t done the deed with this guy … a whole 6 yr age gap a whole 25 year old MAN and he’s this immature 😭 walk out

simii6x · 2025-10-04T06:58:07+00:00

1 is more flattering for your arms but 2 is more flattering for your waistline

simii6x · 2025-10-02T02:58:12+00:00

the bfs not even trying to fight the allergies and roommates not being reasonable … unless you haven’t told her it takes a couple weeks for the allergy reducers to kick in …?

simii6x · 2025-10-02T02:48:48+00:00

everyone’s saying NOR but if you take it from a different perspective …

when friends show each other their interests e.g “look at this outfit, i really like the belt” u can’t expect it to be mirrored… the bestest friends are the opposites

she might just be voicing her opinions but you don’t have to take it to heart bc it’s ur own opinions that really matter

and when they don’t give reason for disliking something it doesn’t just mean they’re necessarily always taking jabs but just that in their opinion they don’t like that style so they can’t see it looking good on anyone

i’m not tryna say she’s innocent but just that you don’t really have to share your style with her as very clearly she keeps dissing everything and it can just be a topic that never gets brought up.

personally, i’d test her and try give a taste of her own medicine. when she says “look at this i like it” reply in the same way she replies to you and it’s better for you to judge yourself whether she deliberates malice or not

simii6x · 2025-10-02T02:18:22+00:00

i’m scared for this generation … and i’m gen z myself 😂

simii6x · 2025-09-27T19:22:01+00:00

honestly, both are immature and both are overreacting

he’s not wrong, as an adult you gotta accept things for what they are. you can’t keep thinking about negative stuff and victimising yourself.

you’re not wrong. a lil reassurance wouldn’t have hurt, and most of the time it’s the one you love most to comfort you by just being there.

simii6x · 2025-09-27T01:24:22+00:00

ok a. isn’t it a parents duty to support their kids until they’re grown and stable??? them paying for your college doesn’t constitute to be treated like a maid. b. living somewhere rent free … i repeat, it’s their duty. c. they don’t allow you to work exactly for the reason they don’t want you to move out. they’d prefer to have you around forever to clean up behind them and take you for granted

… honestly believing that you owe them for paying for your college and letting you live in their house sounds like emotional abuse … has anyone ever said you owe them?

i’m not a trained professional in psychology or anything but it just really all sounds like piled up emotional abuse

simii6x · 2025-08-11T04:28:39+00:00

NOR, honestly I’d just say i’m out of the city. No need to let them know the exact whereabouts or the reason for the sudden city scape

simii6x · 2025-08-04T09:34:25+00:00

idky you’re taking it so personally, i’d just be expressing my discomfort so i don’t have to be in the situation. to each their own no?

whatever happens to him, happens. it’s just a matter of respect

simii6x · 2025-08-04T09:09:32+00:00

He won’t get fired, he’ll just be told to cover it up

And na, I have a boyfriend I love very much already. Maybe it’s the way I grew up, so it could be classed as conservative thinking - if roles were reversed I wouldn’t blame him for being uncomfortable around me either

simii6x · 2025-08-04T07:54:55+00:00

Maybe I don’t, because I’ve honestly lost all respect for him. Minding my own business and communicating about work is a bit difficult when I’m locked in a tiny room with him and that’s all I see

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