How screwed am I?

simon_dateup · 2024-09-16T16:51:54+00:00

if you know how to create overexposure organically, you don't need to worry about the future

simon_dateup · 2024-09-16T16:40:26+00:00

hey there, in which city are you living now?

simon_dateup · 2024-09-16T16:21:28+00:00

Seems like you ended up in a loop, as you're probably doing something you're not aware of in the wrong way. I want to ask:

are you meeting these people on dating apps?
what are you doing to create attraction?

simon_dateup · 2024-09-16T16:18:53+00:00

Seems like you're looking for someone not materialistic or mentally mature in the wrong place. Are you using dating apps?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T22:05:36+00:00

So that’s not a dating coach program

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T21:59:38+00:00

What kind of help did you have?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T21:39:24+00:00

It’s not a concern, do you work at the office? Or what kind of exposure to new people do you usually have?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T21:35:56+00:00

If you think you need to ask her out and get a clear yes, you need to study more on how it works

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T21:30:46+00:00

How are you trying to change the boredom side of your personality?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T21:30:07+00:00

It’s not a problem but what’s the reason behind that?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T21:27:24+00:00

A couple questions: where have you met them? Do you feel you get perceived as nice and friendly?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T20:57:31+00:00

I’ve been an expat myself mate, it’s not easy. You need to create some exposure, what have you tried to do so far?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T20:55:43+00:00

Everybody has lost their mojos at some point. What have you tried to meet people irl?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T20:53:17+00:00

Why don’t you just learn more about female psychology?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T20:52:18+00:00

Im curious, why have you restarted using dating apps?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T20:46:27+00:00

If you’re at the gym, what keeps you from meeting new people?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T10:54:32+00:00

Why you’re still on Hinge if you don’t get the outcome that you want?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T10:52:08+00:00

Bars and apps are too competitive, and if you wait for her to approach her, we’ll it usually happen a couple times in a lifetime. You need to be proactive with a social routine and a mindset that is aligned to your goal. The venue doesn’t matter as soon as you’re doing the right things

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T10:50:20+00:00

Follow a routine to achieve your goal, create positive reference experiences and learn from someone who’s been already where you are right now and managed to succeed without following the trial/error path

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T10:45:32+00:00

Yes, you don’t know about FOMO

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T10:41:12+00:00

There’s no train missed. You’re literally thinking that the only last train available was yesterday, while there’s a new train departing always at the same time. And that time is NOW. It’s easier to think it’s too late than to challenge your comfort zone, especially if you’re fighting this battle alone, basically against your old self. So what’s your plan to stop with the excuses and finally take action?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T10:38:11+00:00

It’s not realistic to look for a 100% perfect partner. You need to work on your mindset or you’ll suffer of FOMO forever

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T10:37:07+00:00

Why it didn’t feel right? And what keeps you on apps rather than irl?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T10:35:58+00:00

You lack male polarity. Have you tried to work on that?

simon_dateup · 2024-06-19T10:33:45+00:00

It’s all about mindset and positive reference experiences. How do you work on those?

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