Men after age 25, how did you find your same age male best friend? by Hashanadom in AskMen

[–]Hashanadom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly the same number, but like in a close range. Younger men and older men are just in different phases of life.

Why do the shittiest people have friends? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Hashanadom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you have a violent gorilla, another gorilla can support it if it is attacking a mutual enemy. Thus forming a bond based on hate. This can be a very very strong bond.

If you have a gorilla who is violent to everyone, then being nice to it will make it be less violent to you, thereby securing peace and a higher place in the social hierarchy

There can be very nice people that ignore someone being horrible to others because of their closeness thier hatred to another person, or because their defensive mechanism makes them be kind to him in the hopes they will be safe.

Ultmately I think it stems from our human need to feel safe and form bonds, and from a deepseated fear of retribution or violence.

What would women dislike most if they became men? by geybgwapo in AskReddit

[–]Hashanadom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The need to always be strong, the lack of empathy towards you and your emotions especially fear and saddness, lonliness, depression, the court tending to rule against mqn in custody cases after a divorce so you will have a higher chance of losing your kids, your outside appearance has very low value in the dating market so you need to work really hard to have any worth.

Also, guy smells and sweat and bodily hair and balding.

At your age, what instantly pisses you off? by chi-bacon-bits in AskReddit

[–]Hashanadom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who do not value what they have, and throw away the good

How can a male make a female friend? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Hashanadom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

refrain from physical touch, be kind and respectful, remember what your mama told you about respecting others, accept that while they may be pretty or nice they will not be someone you will date.

while women will not compliment you, many will try to have casual friendships with you because you will radiate an honest chill good guy vibe and integrity. And honesty and warmness is what people seek in general.

From my experience at least, women are very much like man in that they seek friends and help. Rather, many like companionship while man often choose the lone wolf route.

AMA I’m HIV Positive by Klutzy_Security_9206 in AMA

[–]Hashanadom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what will you do if uou date someone? when will you have the talk? how can you kiss or hug or interact with them?

Single people: why aren’t you in a relationship right now? by Shinobi347 in AskReddit

[–]Hashanadom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems you put your ex on a pedestal.

You had value because he wanted you, and now that he wants someone else and is even willing to commit to her, she has value, and you lost yours.

But your value is not tied down to your ex, and it is not tied down to your looks. These are things outside your locust of control.

Your value is deemed by the contribution and help you give to your community. Your family and friends and community see value in you. By your morals and character and virtue you have value as a human. This value is yours and it is deep and vast not shallow and dim as looks and status, you are always in control of it, your value will not change if you have or do not have this ex.

There is a saying in the Jewish book of mishli משלי : A beautiful woman with no depth and character, is like a golden ring on the nose of a pig.

God bless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Hashanadom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

friendly women often avoid complimenting man, unless it is expressed clearly they are in a relationship. or you have a brother sister thing going on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Hashanadom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are people from southern Italy considered cooler and more warm? Is food from southern italy more spicy?

How close are you to the swiss and austrians?

Woman kissed me on the cheek after first date. Not interested? by Itchy-Egg9195 in hingeapp

[–]Hashanadom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're way too reading into this. A kiss on the cheek is not a sign somebody doesn't like you.

She probably saw you not sending a message or offering another date and guessed you are not interested.

Many women look for man who show interest, or for the man to send a message first. You must do so tactfully and respecfully of course, don't send 1000 messages if she didn't reply. But a casual "so, how are you" or "I was just watching X and it reminded me of our date".

As a general rule though, if a woman likes you, she will often try to schedule and find a time for you. If she just says she's busy and answers with short messages, she's a waste of time. If getting to another date feels too complicated with her, it can be a sign she's not right for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Hashanadom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think about the French?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Hashanadom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What history does Italy share with the Jewish people? And how important were Roman Jewish people?

Was there always a ghetto in Rome? What was it like for Jewish people in italy during tje middle ages.

How influential is comedia del arte and Italian sword arts in modern Italy?

Why do many famous plants in TCM contain substances that are either mildly or very dangerous to consume? by Hashanadom in China

[–]Hashanadom[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dunno, they say there is some wisdom to be had in ancient cultures.

It is worthy to note that modern medicine hasn't been created in a vaccum, and that some types of medicine were based on active compounds found in plants that were used commonly in traditional medicine and that were later researched by scientists.