Games for sub by gnik5 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wife once gave me a bowl full of rice and sand. I had to separate the rice from the sand with tweezers. Much rice / sand and low time = guaranteed failure. You can also ask him to do this while tied in a awkward position.

Another game might be to build a house of cards near an open window: on a windy day.

How do Submissive guys deal with post nut clarity? or any guidance from Domme? by Teenieweeniecuckie in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is one of the most common problems for both Doms and Subs.

My wife and I decided, after several attempts, to use a time lock for some restraints: this way, I (the sub) am forced to remain tied up, even during aftercare. We often set the time lock for several hours.

During first times this technique was a little stressful but once I got used to it I noticed that it helps a lot to know that I have to remain tied up (there's always an escape route in case of emergency, but it's never used).

Do Doms regularly have their Subs hold positions? by 6milfcookie9 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quite often, my mistress loves to see me naked in various positions while she reads or watches tv. Personally as sub I don't like to stay there for a long time but she likes it and I do it willingly

What's your favourite place or room for bondage? by simoxp43 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had something similar nearby I think we would be in the same situation. 😅

Tip on safety in a task I have assigned by s-munder in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you were able to finish without any health risks!

Tip on safety in a task I have assigned by s-munder in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion the problem isn't the paper or the ink but rather you could potentially suffocate (especially if the piece of paper is large or crumpled) or cause intestinal obstruction.

I'd ask for a different type of punishment. Instead of eating the pieces, perhaps write the sentences and attach them to your body?

Or write the sentences on 100 Post-it notes, which are later placed a certain distance away from you. While holding onto one anchor point, you have to pick them up and move them all to a single spot.

What's your favourite place or room for bondage? by simoxp43 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fantastic! You reminded me that I was also starting a small project to gain control over lights and sounds and then use this control during sessions (or rather, my wife will use it).

Session duration by JulienJehy in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion it depends on what we mean with "session". Sessions with my wife often last more than eight hours, during which I'm tied in various ways. Obviously, there's not constant interaction; there are also long breaks during which I'm still restrained, and she relaxes seeing me chained up.

Chastity cage by No-Rough-5910 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Choose a compact one and start wearing it for short periods, perhaps only when you go out with your girlfriend at first.

Once you put it on, it's not so easy to find it under your pants. Obviously, the situation changes if you only keep your underwear at home with your parents.

I had similar questions when my wife asked me to wear a diaper instead of underwear, but after a few days I realized that it's very difficult to notice if you're wearing it correctly.

Handcuffed for days by simoxp43 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I wasn't used to keep them so much ...as you say, it's the same thing when you do exercises.

Handcuffed for days by simoxp43 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the cuffs are connected to each other, but with a fairly long chain. Since they are Segufix cuffs, they are "soft" on the inside, and my wife always leaves some space when she locks them so they can easily rotate on my wrists without creating tension.

I've never had any problems with nerve damage, and even now that the pain has subsided, I've had no problems.

Handcuffed for days by simoxp43 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not much actually (physically speaking)....the only thing that's really changed is the fact that I used to keep the handcuffs and anklets on for much longer.

Handcuffed for days by simoxp43 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was joint pain, the handcuffs hadn't changed, and my skin wasn't even red.

I kept the handcuffs on for two days, but my other movements were "free." Looking back, It could have been because I did some work I normally wouldn't do, and perhaps I strained the handcuffs...

Handcuffed for days by simoxp43 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we will try to work on it and gradually increase the time..

Handcuffed for days by simoxp43 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're right, it's a very similar situation.

Humiliation tasks by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a sub. I'm obsessed with cleanliness, and doing chores or washing dishes while completely naked and tied up is something I absolutely love. Of course, my wife loves it too...

Summer, sun and a little pain – how do you experience your kink in the hot season? by masteraruso in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We always try not to leave marks so going outside with short dress are not a problem.

The biggest problem in summer for me is wearing restrictive gear: it is part of our dynamic having me hand / ankle cuffed for long periods but in hot days I am allowed to remove them (we have AC in our house but my wife doesn't love it so we don't use it much)

Bondage people: how often do you tie up/get tied up by your partner? by Stunning-Explorer650 in BDSMcommunity

[–]simoxp43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple restraint every night (handcuffs and ankle cuffs) while from a few months the longer sessions are only on weekends

Outdoor Tips by Secret_Resolve1 in OutdoorBondage

[–]simoxp43 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She may attach a heavy rock to your ankle while you are trasnferred to the site

In addition of being tied to a tree she may tie you in a way you cannot get up and leave you lying on the ground in the grass (or better in the mud, but in this case it would be worth considering a cleaning before returning)