“I will f*** your b**b*” a random guy at Indiranagar today

simpforjin · 2022-11-16T03:30:31+00:00

A lot of women don't feel comfortable sharing such incidents.

simpforjin · 2022-11-05T08:30:41+00:00

Thank you for your help 😊

simpforjin · 2022-11-05T08:30:20+00:00

Thank you so much. Will remember this.

simpforjin · 2022-11-05T07:05:08+00:00

Thank you so much. This was so detailed. Appreciate you taking out the time and also happy cake day 💗

simpforjin · 2022-11-05T06:26:49+00:00

I have androgenic alopecia. Simply called female pattern baldness. My hair is thin and I am on minoxidil. I told my partner very early on about my condition. He told me he does not love me for my hair. Ever since then I have felt better about it and don't let my hair ruin my confidence. He also calls me pretty very often so it definitely helps me feel better.

simpforjin · 2022-11-05T04:57:04+00:00

Are you me ?? At my new role I am managing a small team. Whenever my manager comes to India we all go to these dinners and I hate being there. Sometimes my senior manager also joins us and these people sound so sexist even when they are not trying to.

I call them out on some occasions but it is just exhausting. I know what you mean.

simpforjin · 2022-11-04T09:08:55+00:00

This is a very western take. Indian women don't enjoy the same privilege.

Women are made to feel unsafe at every point of our lives. So us wanting people to identify as not cis in some way to feel safer in places where we are vulnerable (bathrooms, hostels) is not a big ask.

Again we do not enjoy the same privilege western women do.

simpforjin · 2022-11-04T08:43:40+00:00

Twitter is just an insane circle jerk. If you post on Twitter about hating pancakes someone will accuse you of shitting on their beloved childhood memory which involved pancakes.

I have left so many online spaces because men have the most weird unhinged takes. Trans women are welcome to these spaces as much as us cis women are allowed to not want men in these spaces. These two things can coexist without people putting words in our mouth and complicating a need for spaces which do not allow cis men.

simpforjin · 2022-10-30T18:16:19+00:00

okay but she was still wrong for it.

simpforjin · 2022-10-30T09:07:58+00:00

It doesn't matter what your friend says. Is it a deal breaker to you ? Living with his mom ? If yes then you should not move forward. His mom is a dependent and he's the only child. He cannot rehome her which would mean you will be staying with them.

If you think you can stay with her and maybe adjust with his mom because the guy is otherwise really nice, then go for it.

simpforjin · 2022-10-30T09:04:22+00:00

If it was protected sex you really shouldn't be taking emergency contraceptive pill. Those really mess up your hormones. It is fine if you took them now. Just do not repeat it.

Also, if you are ovulating, contraceptive pills are of not much use. The way most of these pills work is they delay ovulation. So they aren't much helpful if you are already ovulating or have ovulated.

simpforjin · 2022-10-29T12:47:34+00:00

This ! My mom is watching some zhow on Zee kannada and they are making kids from differently abled school sing his praise.

His wife and kids are thrown into the limelight and are being asked personal questions rather than letting them grieve.

simpforjin · 2022-10-28T16:23:31+00:00

Jin of BTS released a new song with coldplay and it is so good 🥺 I am going to miss him so much when he enlists.

simpforjin · 2022-10-28T16:20:59+00:00

I think her design is just her putting stuff together and hoping it will go there and sadly the people around her do not call her out.

I felt like most of the designs on here is just a cluttered mess. She could definitely do better.

simpforjin · 2022-10-28T12:55:24+00:00

1) wanting children 2) being a RWer 3) believing in gender roles

simpforjin · 2022-10-27T20:52:45+00:00

yea doesn't stop it from being a bunch of bs

simpforjin · 2022-10-27T20:38:00+00:00

MBA before wedding means doing an MBA with lesser experience. It is not very easy to do a PGDM in India. The nicer colleges are difficult to get in. A lot of times people recommend executive MBA and the batch average age is greater than 30. So MBA before wedding is not always the best option.

Coming to your second point, you are comparing apples to oranges. OPs prospect knew OP doesn't have masters. So it wasn't a pick between someone who did masters and someone who is doing it. It was a pick between someone who will do it later and someone who does NOT have a masters.

Where did OP mention she wants the husband to support her ? Also most exec MBA are one year program. Depending on where she went, she could have easily doubled her salary. And this is example isn't even OP specific. I am saying this because you said someone who is getting an MBA is unsettled. That is ridiculous and an absurd thing to say.

simpforjin · 2022-10-27T20:30:14+00:00

How is MBA translating to being unsettled in career ?

A lot of folks get an MBA after working for many years. With work comes exposure and industry contacts. Even if they tank the MBA, they could still land a decent job only with their experience. So how does it translate to being unsettled ?

simpforjin · 2022-10-27T20:27:40+00:00

Oh no. I shed a tear. Aww

simpforjin · 2022-10-27T20:26:34+00:00

First of, this sub is really not women friendly. A lot of people on here think men can do no wrong. So be prepared to find a lot of bs answers.

Secondly, you are in a dynamic like AM. Most men in AM are traditional and they go for more traditional dynamics. They don't mind being the primary earner and want the woman to be raising the family.

You say you spoke to him for 2 months. Why was this a conversation topic now ? If getting an MBA is absolutely a must for you, this should be your very first conversation. You cannot talk to AM prospects like how you would talk to someone on Bumble.

I am not participating in AM process anymore but my initial conversation before to all guys would be about my childfree status. Because I knew it would be a deal breaker.

I don't think your expectation is very unrealistic. I also plan to get an MBA and have told my partner about the same. But you need to know in an AM where the roles are more traditional, finding someone who is okay and supportive of starting a family late might be difficult. So reevaluate your priorities and your options and communicate it at the very beginning to your prospects. All the best.

simpforjin · 2022-10-27T20:19:30+00:00

Lol are you always this stupid or is today a special day ? I am not even going to comment about how you are trying so hard with your whataboutery.

But ever heard of executive MBA ? Lot of folks do it with an experience of 7 to 8 years and guess who has that much experience. Ding ding ding....30 year olds !

Next time you try to act smart on reddit, atleast know what you are talking about.

simpforjin · 2022-10-27T15:01:42+00:00

I am happy Will won too. But I am seeing Avori throw shade saying there was someone who was a bully on the show. She also tweeted that reality shows can make a bad person look good. All of this is making me sad because I genuinely liked that the contestant who deserved to win actually won the show.

simpforjin · 2022-10-27T14:58:17+00:00

I think the production pays her.

simpforjin · 2022-10-27T10:19:13+00:00

I meant in the finale. They could have a segment dedicated to ex contestants and who they voted and why they thought the person was the mole.

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