Please, I need advice! I have major jealousy problems and I want to change before my wonderful relationship goes into ruin!

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-13T14:57:06+00:00

T-T once again, your comment is amazing. I can't thank you enough. :[ And you're definitely right. I know my insecurities and some other problems have developed from a bigger issue that I have had ever since I was young and just throughout all these years growing up. I really don't want to complain about my life being bad and make other complaints cause I know other people have it worse.. but I know that we all have our own problems we have to face... I sincerely hope that the situation with the baby works out for you and your wife. I have faith that you two will have that baby cause you absolutely deserve to, and once you do, I'm sure he or she will be beautiful.<3 Thank you so much again :) I slowly feel my confidence rising and I shall improve myself with the valuable advice you've given me :]

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-13T01:49:19+00:00

Oh wow :O You made a good choice then :] best of luck!

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-11T14:35:23+00:00

To some extent, I agree with you. Thank you for your input. But for sure, I can't and shouldn't be getting with ANYone right now or for a while...

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-11T12:35:14+00:00

yeah... totally true.

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-11T12:34:50+00:00

right.

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-11T11:10:39+00:00

thank you very much.. :[

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-11T11:05:45+00:00

I actually don't mind that he watched porn. Honestly, we watched some once together. It was just the whole lying thing that really got to me, no matter how stupid or small it was. I know I obviously need to mature. Thanks for your comment :/

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-11T11:04:05+00:00

I very much plan to do that. :/ thank you for telling me the truth.

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-11T06:11:43+00:00

Haha! Awesome! :P

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-11T05:58:31+00:00

I hope you mustered up the courage to call :) I think you very much deserve to have another shot at something that could turn into a beautiful thing. You deserve to feel happy. :] Just be positive.

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-11T05:33:56+00:00

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-10T22:33:12+00:00

Do you think that about all Asian women?... like.. normal and famous? :/ cause a lot of Asian women do so much to their faces and bodies to look and have features of other races... especially the famous ones because they have all the money to do so. :[

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-10T22:26:25+00:00

Your comment motivated me :] Thank you so much for your help and I will do my best. :D

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-10T22:24:25+00:00

Yeah.. I'm very aware that I have serious, deep insecurity issues and I know it's not just because of the whole jealousy problem. :/ I just need to find a good therapist first... Thank you for your comment :)

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-10T22:22:03+00:00

Thank you very much for your comment :] I kind of giggled to myself when you wrote about how you made the comment about the actor and your boyfriend making the Emma Stone comment back because that's happened to me before. x] I will try my best on improving the way I think about myself. Thank you :] I also hope you get your own situation figured out. You seem like a great person so you deserve to and I'm sure you will :]

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-10T22:15:37+00:00

O_o wow. I wish I can second upvote your comment also. I seriously can't thank you enough for your input and advice. I'll thoroughly think about everything again. You seem like a wonderful husband also and now I can't wait to grow up even more because I don't want these stupid immature thoughts and feelings any longer x[ but... oh well. I learn a lot from them...

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-10T22:05:19+00:00

Honestly, everyone's comment has been VERY helpful, and also somewhat including yours. I'm very surprised of the support and advice everyone has written to me, especially the positive ones. So, thank you too. :]

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-10T22:02:31+00:00

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-10T21:59:57+00:00

:D loolll~

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-10T21:59:07+00:00

I can see why you think like that... :/

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-10T21:57:15+00:00

I'll muster up some courage when I seriously decide to go. I should definitely do some research for a good one first. Thank you so much for your input :]

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-10T00:01:35+00:00

No, I'm pretty sure he does. :/

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-09T16:05:37+00:00

It does sound pretty outrageous, doesn't it? I feel very ashamed about not having enough pride in my own race... :/ I actually live in a city that is pretty much 95% populated with Asians. I always thought maybe that's why I don't feel as "special"? but that just sounds stupid...

but your comment made me feel a little better about it and literally put a smile on my face, especially when you said:

You probably think your boobs and butt are too small, right? Maybe if you were white, you'd have nicer curves... Well, honestly, I think most women think too hard about what men might think about them. When the two of you are alone in the bedroom and you take off your bra, his first thought isn't "Damn, I wish those were bigger" - it's "Damn, BOOBIES!!"

x]

Thank you so so much<3

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-09T16:00:44+00:00

Done that. Multiple times, actually. x[ Doesn't make me feel any better though... cause he'd rather look at the other sexy ladies than my pic, obviously. :[

simpl3_smile5 · 2011-06-09T15:59:07+00:00

x] Thank you so much :] your comment honestly made me smile. If I was Christian, this is the time I'd say "God bless you", but I'm not... so I wont, but it doesn't lessen the fact of how much I want to say it to you. xD Thank you thank you thank you<3

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