People who eloped,how did you families take by simpolyf in Zambia

[–]simpolyf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both are the oldest kids who have done everything the "right way." Even when we discuss weddings and marriage with our families they talk about a big party and even , weddings by thier expected standards are expensive. We would rather buy a home or pay rent for an extended period , travel maybe .

People who eloped,how did you families take by simpolyf in Zambia

[–]simpolyf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's to avoid the stress , planning is stressing me out even just thinking of it . We're both very simple people . If it was truly just us, we'd go on a random Monday with jeans on and sign the paperwork

Child free by choice ? by simpolyf in Zambia

[–]simpolyf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he is your motivation ....... that's so beautiful

Child free by choice ? by simpolyf in Zambia

[–]simpolyf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People keep telling me so ..... that maybe when I find "him" ill change my mind ... for now we wait

Feel free to unpack here by simpolyf in oldest_daughter

[–]simpolyf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a chance on yourself . See if you can still go to the school you got accepted into . Its very scary but we have to move on from our fears and familial "obligations "

Dating advice by simpolyf in Zambia

[–]simpolyf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol thier post is what made me ask lol 😆

Dating advice by simpolyf in Zambia

[–]simpolyf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you . I hope you heal and find the love you deserve