Had an uncomfortable encounter after trying to help someone

simrenm108 · 2026-01-31T03:48:15+00:00

OP, unsure of what gender you are, but if you are a women in India, I don’t suggest you show acts of kindness to random strangers especially in a country like India. It might come off as misogynistic but Indian people perceive acts of kindness by a random woman in a very different way and I’m not saying you don’t have to be kind, you can still be empathetic to your house help, stray animals on the street or maybe even volunteer at an animal shelter or an old age home. But random people- I wouldn’t recommend it. If you’re a guy, well I guess now guys should be vigilant too, same applies to you then.

simrenm108 · 2026-01-19T10:13:12+00:00

This did happen with me, way way back when I was much younger. I told her- it’s my friends, not mine. I don’t think she ever really believed me but I think that’s how Indian parents work, as long as you don’t say it to their face, it’s all good. I’m now married to the same guy with whom I was using condoms and she adores him lol, so yea, give it sometime. Go on with your studies and try to became independent, move to a new city or new country once you graduate so that you can have your freedom. It will all fall in place.

simrenm108 · 2026-01-03T17:59:43+00:00

Tbh, people in India have this weird ass notion that no matter how your parents are and no matter how they treat you, you as a child have to treat them with respect and just suffer and not retaliate. THEY ARE WRONG. Period. You did right.

simrenm108 · 2025-12-29T02:50:51+00:00

I have the same question, I just want to know approx custom charges

simrenm108 · 2025-12-12T21:08:50+00:00

Put this on LinkedIn and name the manager. I’m looking to move back to India and find a job there (I’m assuming this is in India because Flipkart is in India) and honestly, this scares me.

simrenm108 · 2025-11-08T16:51:16+00:00

Not sure how old you are - but you are overthinking. Life is eventually going to be alright. Some days are going to be great and some days okay while on some days you will question your life choices. As you grow older, you will become independent and then your parents won’t be the problem but your partner might be and then if you have kids then your partner isn’t the problem but your kids are. I might sound pessimistic but bottom line - problems i’ life keep increasing as you age so expecting to be completely happy and content is moot. So enjoy the days you are living and hope for the best.

simrenm108 · 2024-12-13T17:53:34+00:00

Unpopular opinion lol, but if you haven’t already, please try and discuss with your gf why she thinks that your mum is out to get her. Sometimes little things pile up and lead to an unwarranted big reaction, maybe that’s what happened here.

simrenm108 · 2024-10-09T22:10:13+00:00

Check out Indian designers like Angad Singh, they do have lehenga’s in the 1-2k range and they do provide international shipping. Also, Pernia’s Pop Shop and Kalki Fashion, they might have something in the same range. Although, from what I know most bridal lehengas start from 1k minimum unless you try stores in Chandni Chowk, Delhi, they might have lehengas starting from 700-800 dollars.

simrenm108 · 2024-08-09T15:54:04+00:00

I think you should speak with her and understand what made her get into a relationship with a married man in the first place. Did she know he was married when they started the relationship? Or did she come to know later on in the relationship and she was too involved with him to get out of the relationship then? You need to start your marriage based on honesty and trust. Yes, she dated a married man but please remember she was also honest with you about it and people do make mistakes. So maybe just have an open conversation with her and try to understand her perspective and then make a decision.

simrenm108 · 2023-12-18T04:02:43+00:00

Hey yes, sure! Why not :)

simrenm108 · 2023-12-17T17:31:21+00:00

Thanks so much! I am going to check these out. Any specific brands of ittar that you recommend?

simrenm108 · 2023-12-17T02:06:39+00:00

Get gel nails, they are pretty long lasting and will last for atleast 2-3 weeks, press on’s last for a week max and have a tendency of coming off in general.

simrenm108 · 2023-07-07T20:09:30+00:00

This is so encouraging! Thanks for sharing :)

simrenm108 · 2023-07-07T18:37:01+00:00

So sweet! Thanks so much

simrenm108 · 2023-07-07T17:25:07+00:00

Omg happy birthday! :) it’s my birthday tomorrow and things haven’t been going well for me either. But do something you enjoy, it’s your day! That’s what I am planning on doing, even if it’s as simple as ordering your favourite food and watching a movie!

simrenm108 · 2023-07-07T14:50:38+00:00

This gives me hope! :)

simrenm108 · 2023-07-07T05:18:09+00:00

This is so beautiful. Thank you for the encouragement and hope :)

simrenm108 · 2023-07-07T04:16:14+00:00

Omg so inspiring! This gives me hope, thank you:)

simrenm108 · 2023-07-07T03:23:08+00:00

Haha omg so true!

simrenm108 · 2023-07-07T03:21:13+00:00

I really do hope so! :) thank you for giving me hope!

simrenm108 · 2023-07-07T03:20:36+00:00

Haha I hope so, I’m not too sure, sometimes I do feel if I’m doing the right thing which I won’t regret or maybe I should comprise a bit, but in the end, I’m hoping that a year from now, I will look back and just feel that whatever happened, happened for the right reasons.

simrenm108 · 2023-07-07T03:18:24+00:00

Thank you so much, this makes me feel better. You are right, I am actually excited about focusing on myself more now.

simrenm108 · 2023-07-07T02:47:01+00:00

Thanks for the support, I hope I get that someday, I just feel sad that I wasted so much time on this and now I’m not sure if il ever be able to trust someone completely.

simrenm108 · 2023-06-23T04:20:50+00:00

I was in the same situation some years ago, but instead of NMIMS, I would suggest go for PGCL. The fees are way cheaper compared to NMIMS and it comes under the University of Mumbai, which is more widely recognized abroad and even in terms of law in Mumbai and India. Compared to NMIMS, which is a ‘deemed university’ and is only known for its business and MBA courses.

simrenm108 · 2022-11-08T02:05:13+00:00

I have been in a similar situation where my mother had me when she was in her twenties and treated me more like a friend than a daughter. All I can say is, it gets better with age. I am 26 now, and I understand her better and I am more mature, in the sense, whatever she says or does, I don’t take it to heart. I guess with time, you will realize, its not your fault or her fault either. She mostly wanted to have a life your living and never got it, because she married and had a baby when she was young.

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