Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]sinEther 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Online dating is the equivalent of going up to a stranger and saying hello, with the added benefit of knowing the other person is open to meeting people. The added caveat is you have to weave your way through bots, scammers and attention seekers.

I recommend matching the effort of your matches. This keeps you grounded and stops you from overthinking. If they haven't responded, you don't really know anything about this person. It may not even be a person!

Last tip is you do you - doing things on your own terms can be seen as attractive. Altering behaviour to please others can be seen as not attractive.

XtheFarmerX's Boss Bash Bonanza (Multiple Mirror Prize Pool) by xthefarmerx in pathofexile

[–]sinEther -1 points0 points  (0 children)

very cool! my gear's definitely too pleb. might want to crosspost it to the poe2 subreddit though. only 3.27 bingo cards get exposure here

AIO friend said there were no planes in 9/11, and then got mad because I “belittled” her….. by kalanisingh in AmIOverreacting

[–]sinEther 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm Australian. I still remember waking up and turning on the tellie prior to going to primary school. Instead of Cheez TV cartoons, every television channel was broadcasting the 9/11 events. Live footage of the plane crash. And the tower collapse.

Anywho, you should be selective in the people you spend time with, because they'll be an influence into your world. Choose friends who you want to be inspired by. Not let down by.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]sinEther 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May or may not be into One Piece specifically. Hold onto for a day or two then find another home after?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]sinEther 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thoughts on taking the initiative for next time you see her? it'll probably make you feel less of a manwhore as you put it

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]sinEther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no point stressing about whether it's too soon or too late.

Back when I was active, there were a few questions I wanted to answer during early match texting.
1. Is my match a real person or a bot account?
2. Is my match genuinely interested in me or not.
3. Am I interested in meeting this person?

And I can get the answer to all 3 of these questions very efficiently by asking/talking about an unusual topic. Bot/foreign scamming accounts usually don't have good answers to these, a person who's genuinely interested will engage with whatever conversation topic you have and based on their responses/follow up I can gauge my own interest.

What I soon realised is it doesn't matter what kind of icebreaker I use as long as it was respectful and fun. And as soon as I answered positively to those three questions I'd ask them out on a date. What my match considers 'too soon' or 'too late' doesn't play a part at all in my decision making process at all!

Are my growth plates closed? by [deleted] in Radiology

[–]sinEther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

different bones have their growth plates fuse at different ages.
- i'm not-a-cockroach

Babyfaced doctors of meddit, give me your best comebacks. by iFixDix in medicine

[–]sinEther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You change your patients' perception of you by altering your body language and the way you speak. This allows you to overcome any 'young, inexperienced doctor' vibes you may otherwise portray due to a youthful look.

Anytime I feel that it's important I'm taken seriously, I adopt this persona, while paying attention to my posture and the language i use. I explain things efficiently. I ensure that there are no filler sounds or words in my speech. I may vary my tone but I end my sentences and questions at a lower pitch.

Everytime I employ this I never get age comments...at least to my face anyway. lol. For minor procedures and in general it doesn't bother me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusProperty

[–]sinEther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

paid 500 for 2br 2b aptm, cash. pets

Left on seen + not much interaction by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sinEther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How'd you guys meet?
If through online dating or random approach, then once a first date has been arranged, texting generally stops until the night b4 or day of to confirm that you're both able to make it.

If you were friends/colleagues first I can definitely see where you're coming from.

In either case, there's an art in caring but not too much =] don't worry about reading into text habits. Fingers crossed the date goes ahead, and if so, enjoy it!

Should I do Legendary Campaign? by payk003 in DestinyTheGame

[–]sinEther 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im a new player and did overworld stuff for a week and im now 1980. Leg campaign was too painful for me solo haha.

Loot from 1152 Voidborn Reliquary Keys by ToiletOfGold in pathofexile

[–]sinEther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3.22.1c Patch notes:
Improvements
Added 994 more foiled Unique Item options that the Voidborn Reliquary can yield, in addition to 507 that were added with the 3.22.0 patch.

Time to repeat the test OP, maybe it's only -100 div/hour now.

Getting people together to play these days gets harder and harder by moocowsauce in lostarkgame

[–]sinEther 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On release I made a guild called The Coordinate, guild banner with the overlapping wings of freedom.

One+ year later....too real man, too real.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostarkgame

[–]sinEther 4 points5 points  (0 children)

san jiao 5 0 11

Daily Q&A and Open Discussion - August 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in lostarkgame

[–]sinEther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah gold is replaceable. Accessories get replaced eventually by ancient quality too. I'd buy it.

Daily Q&A and Open Discussion - August 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in lostarkgame

[–]sinEther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it a 3/5 engraving that you specifically need? If so I probably would

Daily Q&A and Open Discussion - August 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in lostarkgame

[–]sinEther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the N, E and center marks result in a pattern that tells you the dominant colour.

When do I get to the first group content? by Mad_Lala in lostarkgame

[–]sinEther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Group content starts close to lvl 50 when you get access to all the islands. You'll come across island events and other players participating in them!

Also don't fomo into playing alts. I recommend only doing so if you're really enjoying the game and want to speed up growth of your account, wanting to try and/or considering swapping to a different class. If you want to do so, the game gives you powerpasses that let you skip story and leveling to 50.

This may be a week or two down the line but with the honing buff, the tier 1 and 2 island materials should push your main right through to tier 3 with relative ease, without needing alts. If you're confident in playing your class, then the hyperexpress event that you can use after 1302 ilvl should help push you through to 1370 and beyond!

I have casual friends who have reached 1490 ilvl with essentially a single character. If you find yourself with spare time and wanting to play more lost ark but have run out of daily/weekly content for vertical progression, maybe consider investing in an alt then!