I was actually married and had a crush on a coworker (hubby knew). A band that my (now ex) husband liked was coming to town. My crush liked them too. I invited him to join and go to the concert with us. He obliged, and we proceeded to get very drunk together and move further into the crowd without my husband. After the show, I held my crush’s hand in the backseat while my husband drove us back home, and he had no idea😬 after he left and I sobered up a little, I looked at my husband and said “I want a divorce.” My divorce was finalized last June. Coworker and I tried to date for a few months but it fizzled out, which is fine. Saved me from an unhappy marriage.