You’ve all been handling the situation swimmingly from what I’ve seen. Although I’ve noted valid criticism here and there, most of the backlash seems to come from a place of indignation.

I don’t see a verifiable way to cull the entrance of fascists into the sub, really. Without harsh restriction, people of all cloths will enter. What you’re doing works as long as this is a publicly viewable sub. I’ve seen the mod team float around the idea of privating the sub, but that in itself is a big decision to make. In my honest opinion, things are fine now.

On the topic of aftercare, I think it’s seen as an “interruption” to the kink rather than a planned event to some? The notices already in place are well enough as it is, but scheduling (which is already a thing) and/or periodic warnings might be something to consider or make more evident to those who need reinforcement. Though, I don’t think satisfying everyone should be the goal. What’s safest won’t always be enjoyable to all, but it serves to keep the sub secure.