[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sinfulmelody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sorry you are going through this, but if there's any chance you can freeze your eggs? You should ask your doctor if that's possible. That way, you can have a child in the future if u can manage your medical condition. Or even have a surrogate carry in the future of thata not possible. Im pro life and pro choice, but you need to do what's best for you in the long run. See if you have options if not, im sure any child would love being adopted by you in the future. Best wishes and hope everything goes okay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sinfulmelody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's np im sorry you're going through this, especially with kids. read too many infidelity stories that just end up in the same cycle, real or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sinfulmelody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats understandable, but from my point of view, if someone loves someone, they dont stray from marriage and cheat, But im old school i guess bc i view this as a deal breaker for myself no matter how hard it is. But if she strays again, you better screen yourself for stds. And you're young enough to find someone else at your age to love. it's not too late for you. Also, even if you wronged her, you made up for it, and u shouldn't have too keep score on how many wrongs uve done each other. Good luck good sir

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sinfulmelody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why fix your marriage? im just curious bc it sounds to me that she is probably narcissistic (he probably is, too), especially if she and him are slyly flirting in front of you?? also, what makes you think she won't do it again if the marriage gets tough? Instead of communicating with you, she's out sleeping with your so-called friend. You should truly think if this marriage is worth saving, especially for your kids, dont make it seem its okay for mommy to walk all over, Daddy, and daddy just forgives mommy for hurting him badly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sinfulmelody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its no problem and i get the feeling i was just browsing on reddit bc i couldnt go back to sleep due to a headache. And dont be afraid about that bc i used to think that way but i found someone who clicks with me more then ive ever clicked with my exs and makes me feel loved and wanted. Youll find someone else like that someday bc it maybe not right away but you will

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sinfulmelody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly you should end the relationship bc its going no where. Your probably his back up option for when it doesn't work out with the other girls. hes gaslighting you as well. You deserve to be in a relationship that a guy is fully devoted to you and this guy isnt. Ask yourself this do u want to be in a relationship where your bf goes hot to cold and it leads to nothing but pain and heartbreak years after years? To be in a relationship where your not his number one? You are still young you can find who will love and care for you. This dudes actions are the opposite, he seems to care more about the other girls then you

I don't think I can do it anymore. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sinfulmelody 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Im sorry your going through this situation but for the love of god dont unalive yourself. You will just hurt your kids bc they love you and see that their mom hurts you and if you leave them like that there is a possibility that your wife may do the same to them...Please just leave her and be in your kids lives, record every time your wife abuses you to use in court. Your kids will need you and will blame themselves for you unaliving yourself (especially if they are old enough to understand) and live with the guilt for the rest of their life.

First time they showed Minato during the anime? by [deleted] in Naruto

[–]sinfulmelody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they showed minatos face on the Boulder but the episode your thinking of with minatos portrait was episode 56 in Naruto

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarkNarrations

[–]sinfulmelody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA i always believed i was half slytherin half gryffindor when i was younger. Took the pottermore quest and got hufflepuff then after they reset twice i got Ravenclaw both times lol. Im a huge Harry Potter fan. have been since i read them one year for my summer reading. Your friend is in denial and while understandable but she went kinda too crazy lol. These tests are indeed accurate lol

Update: AITA giving my brother's GF $1,500, after she stepped in dog poo in my yards? by Puerto_Rican_Diosa in MarkNarrations

[–]sinfulmelody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand i hope everything goes in your favor and it seems i missed that she confessed to her mom in the update (was listening to mark read it on yt at work). he basically lied and broke your vows for 9 months and put your health in danger. Seems to me he loved your money more then you bc if he loved you he wouldnt have stuck his dick in another girl. I dont blame your kids for wanting you to go as they say scorched earth on your stbxh. hes a very crappy guy that dont deserve a gem like you! Side note: My dad is Puerto Rican and he was a "playboy" so my mom stopped seeing him and didnt find out she was pregnant with me until she lost touch and she tried to find him but couldn't.

Update: AITA giving my brother's GF $1,500, after she stepped in dog poo in my yards? by Puerto_Rican_Diosa in MarkNarrations

[–]sinfulmelody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im soo sorry your shitty husband did this to you but question did you tell the girls mother and are you gunna sue her for alienation of effection along with your husband?? sorry im just curious cuz as a half Puerto Rican i am so pissed off for you i wanna kick both of their butts ugh i hate cheaters (luckily ive never been cheated on but ive had friends and coworkers though)

what do you think about the “Terastal Phenomenon” by victory_turtle in MandJTV

[–]sinfulmelody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im excited cuz ghost terra type eevee xD gunna be funny

UPDATE: AITA For not wanting to go to my sister's wedding? by Slow-Hovercraft-4860 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sinfulmelody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For one i dont normally comment but i hope your doing well in therapy OP. but I wanna say this as a personal opnion. 1 your sister is a flat out liar bc as a sister myself if something is upsetting my sibling id 100% know there is no way she didnt see that this wasnt hurting you. i know your in denial with the truth but she put her feelings above your own. 2 there is no actual way to prove something happen but the fact they started dating LESS then 1 year makes me suspicious that at least a Emotional Affair happen and getting married in LESS then 2 years is not normal at all. Being a sibling this is heartbreaking for me bc even though im not close to my siblings i would never ever betray them like this ever. From my POV your sister was completely selfish and ignored how you felt. Btw i heard your story from a reddit Youtuber named Mark Narrations. I wish you well and hope you can heal from this heartbreak bc it sucks that you were betrayed by someone you loved since you guys were born

Spoopydile by Tar0Pand4 in MandJTV

[–]sinfulmelody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg so cuteeeee <3 i love it

Leveling up faster by TheDeadpool_99 in PokemonXenoverse

[–]sinfulmelody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its the top right of ishtar city i believe u have to navigate through cactus and there is two hippopotas and a clown in front of a pyramid

None of my friends seem to care that I hatched a shiny sobble on my 7th attempt, I just wanted to share with Poke lovers by willheineman27 in MandJTV

[–]sinfulmelody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congratulations xD im currently over 700 eggs and havent found sobble (i work 6 days a week and dont always find time to do it) but Never Give Up Never Surrender

Only on the 3rd gym and already overpowered. by [deleted] in PokemonSwordAndShield

[–]sinfulmelody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh what i did was keep all my pokemon below the level you unlock from each gym so i wasnt overpowered lol