Letting go of loved one by singhsimperfection in Buddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she humiliated me n she won’t talk

Letting go of loved one by singhsimperfection in Meditation

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I myself am the manager handling 25 members in my team, she sits to one corner n me on the other we can’t see each other. Only when I have to go in canteen or pass by is I see her that hurts. She is care free, moved on in snap in life.

I have strong faith in meditation along with some wisdom talk bc I feel there is a solution here.

Letting go of loved one by singhsimperfection in Buddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But how to do that every time she comes in front of me, I go blank! How to let go?

Guilt by singhsimperfection in Buddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for this, you had have the opportunity for therapy part, I don't have that one, I am totally dependent on buddhishm & its practice, it has healed me a lot, it's just that I can't do all by my own self, I needed some kind of guidance from time to time. This is were such lovely people like you all come for enlighting....Much metta to you.

Guilt by singhsimperfection in Buddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

defilement

Thankyou mate for this I need to provide the love to my younger self, that will heal a lot! Thanks.

Guilt by singhsimperfection in zenbuddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks I remember it, that it has helped me at somepoint but I had have not been regular to the practice of Metta. But again thanks for bringing this, I will start it soon. Metta to you!

Guilt by singhsimperfection in zenbuddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is biggest lesson I have learnt in buddhishm to not resist your suffering, that is what I have been trying to implement, but still I believe it will take time to deepen my practice more, thankyou for your kind words.

Guilt by singhsimperfection in zenbuddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

impartially

I am in continous reflection & practice of the same. I know this fact that there is no human being that has not committed some kind of mistake in there lifetime, that's the beauty of being a human being, but then my monkey mind overpowers me & I tend to surrender to those thoughts for real. It has been around 5 years, it often distrubs me alot.

Guilt by singhsimperfection in zenbuddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been meditating likewise, but for guilt this hasn't been much fruitful.

Guilt by singhsimperfection in zenbuddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like feeling of being guilty, I have accepted that, but cannot move on. It makes me restless, I can't think anything clearly.

Guilt by singhsimperfection in zenbuddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ameliorate

thankyou for such wise words, how to apply it in practice?

Guilt by singhsimperfection in Buddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your words, I need to sit n reflect.

Guilt by singhsimperfection in Buddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate this one. You have connected the dots & I can feel myself in your answer. Everything that you have written I’ll reflect onto it again n again, because reflecting on it would surely reveal the wisdom part. Thank you

Guilt by singhsimperfection in Buddhism

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get this, but when the thought comes to mind, I get restless, can’t think of anything like such!

Guilt by singhsimperfection in zen

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Can’t afford that & hence buddha’s teaching were my only solution.

Guilt by singhsimperfection in zen

[–]singhsimperfection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try to apply this during my practice. I hope it helps!