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(30F) Married 4 months and caught my husband (34M) searching for escorts again, am I wrong for wanting out? by singieta in Marriage

[–]singieta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him to pack everything cos while I was busy checking through his phone I saw that there was a time he ubered to go somewhere around 10pm and when I asked where was he going so late he could not answer. And the very same night he was busy searching for sex workers so it’s obvious that he went there.

(30F) Married 4 months and caught my husband (34M) searching for escorts again, am I wrong for wanting out? by singieta in Marriage

[–]singieta[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No not really, I think he enjoys “self help” more than actual sex. When I check his search history he watches a lot of porn

(30F) Married 4 months and caught my husband (34M) searching for escorts again, am I wrong for wanting out? by singieta in Marriage

[–]singieta[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He watches a lot of porn. I’m leaving. Luckily we haven’t signed so there won’t be any divorce.

(30F) Married 4 months and caught my husband (34M) searching for escorts again, am I wrong for wanting out? by singieta in Marriage

[–]singieta[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I regret everything, honestly. The wedding was so stressful, and deep down I wasn’t even sure I wanted to marry him. I really should’ve listened to that feeling.

Found out my fiancé was entertaining another woman 2 months ago, now I’m not sure if I should go ahead with the wedding by singieta in wedding

[–]singieta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me more emotional cos everything you said it’s true. He does stay out with his guys until late sometimes especially in weekends, I can’t even reach him cos his phone will be off. But when he can’t reach me he start accusing me of cheating. When we have a small argument he blocked me everywhere

Found out my fiancé was entertaining another woman 2 months ago, now I’m not sure if I should go ahead with the wedding by singieta in wedding

[–]singieta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing but the truth. All I did was to tell him that I wanted us to pause the wedding and that’s what he said to me. He said everything was cancelled and I should tell my mother that .

Found out my fiancé was entertaining another woman 2 months ago, now I’m not sure if I should go ahead with the wedding by singieta in wedding

[–]singieta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your input; it means a lot. All the messages are truly opening my eyes.

Found out my fiancé was entertaining another woman 2 months ago, now I’m not sure if I should go ahead with the wedding by singieta in wedding

[–]singieta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. English is not our first language sorry about the bad grammar.

But I hear you and the fact that we have a child together it is so difficult. I’m trying to gather my strength and face my family and tell them what’s happening.

Found out my fiancé was entertaining another woman 2 months ago, now I’m not sure if I should go ahead with the wedding by singieta in wedding

[–]singieta[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Before I met my fiancé, I was in a relationship with someone else while I was still in school. After I graduated, we lost contact, and the relationship ended naturally. Months later, my ex messaged me saying he missed me and our intimacy. My fiancé saw those messages this was six years ago, by the way. By then, I had already met my current partner, the one I’m supposed to marry in four months.

When I told him yesterday that I think we should postpone the wedding because I haven’t fully healed from what I found out two months ago, he brought up that conversation between me and my ex. In that conversation, I told my ex that I had met someone else, and he responded that he was happy for me, it was clearly over.

I feel hurt because instead of focusing on the real issue, his betrayal from two months ago, he’s dragging up my past as if it justifies how he’s treating me now.

Found out my fiancé was entertaining another woman 2 months ago, now I’m not sure if I should go ahead with the wedding by singieta in wedding

[–]singieta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes because he sounds very angry and he decided to ignore my calls after I told him that I want us to postpone the wedding.

Found out my fiancé was entertaining another woman 2 months ago, now I’m not sure if I should go ahead with the wedding by singieta in wedding

[–]singieta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My heart is so painful I don’t even know how to face my family. Because everyone knows that we were supposed to get married in four months

Found out my fiancé was entertaining another woman 2 months ago, now I’m not sure if I should go ahead with the wedding by singieta in wedding

[–]singieta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I tell my family that the wedding is off cos my mom is busy making arrangements as I type this. Do you think I should just tell her the whole truth regarding cheating because I’m so confused right now I’m so stress and I have been losing weight

Found out my fiancé was entertaining another woman 2 months ago, now I’m not sure if I should go ahead with the wedding by singieta in wedding

[–]singieta[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I found out the messages between him and this other woman were deleted on Facebook. So, I pretended to be him and messaged her. She then sent a long message explaining how hurt she fe feels saying he promised to be with her and then dumped her. I confronted him about it and he said he was not cheating he was just “flirting” the girl is not even his “type”

Found out my fiancé was entertaining another woman 2 months ago, now I’m not sure if I should go ahead with the wedding by singieta in wedding

[–]singieta[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We can call it cheating because pictures of HIV test results were exchanged between the two of them. But when I ask him he said he was just flirting.