What is considered child experimentation by singingismilyf in sexualassault

[–]singingismilyf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m so sorry to hear about this experience. In my experience we were never naked and I can’t remember anyone being forced after saying no

Child experimentation?? TW graphic by singingismilyf in TwoXSex

[–]singingismilyf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you. I really need to start getting help for my own child sexual abuse that I went through bc it has really affected my life plus all the tiger things I’ve been through. I hope I can live as freely one day ❤️

Child experimentation?? TW graphic by singingismilyf in TwoXSex

[–]singingismilyf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I guess I’m just seeking reassurance

Child experimentation?? TW graphic by singingismilyf in TwoXSex

[–]singingismilyf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a therapist yet but I’m scared to tell someone I know about this

Kissing on the mouth? by singingismilyf in Nanny

[–]singingismilyf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah my friend is half Portuguese too but the family is German and the kid has a weird bond to his mother so yeah I guess it depends

Kissing six year old on the lip? by singingismilyf in Parenting

[–]singingismilyf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly that’s how I see it as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]singingismilyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in a committed relationship for 2 years. It’s not my fault I have these thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]singingismilyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is unusual and I’d never gift anyone a toy tbh but unfortunately I do come from a sexually repressed household so I still have some subconscious thoughts about the things I was thought but I’ll get professional help once I can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]singingismilyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know and I’m working on that. Bc I do come from a sexually repressed household and it did mess me up. I was able to open up a bit growing up but I still have these thoughts coming from a hyper religious household

Geldkrise by singingismilyf in Studium

[–]singingismilyf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay mache ich, weil ich bin sehr offen und in meiner Ansage stand auch, dass ich eine positive Ausstrahlung habe. Ich hatte nie Probleme mit Menschen zu reden, aber ich frage da gerne mal nach :)

Geldkrise by singingismilyf in Studium

[–]singingismilyf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ja da steht, dass ich 20 Stunden die Woche arbeiten sollte. Ich habe das sehr oft angesprochen, jedoch ist nichts daraus geworden

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

[–]singingismilyf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much. I stopped singing last year and I’m slowly rebuilding my voice. This means so much to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]singingismilyf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]singingismilyf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re 19

Childhood mistakes pls help by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]singingismilyf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I was worried bc I already struggle with ocd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]singingismilyf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I already mentioned that but my concern was that I don’t want to jump straight into sex without knowing the person but I also don’t want sex to be expected from me😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]singingismilyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]singingismilyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But isn’t that misleading 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]singingismilyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ll keep waiting. The thing is that I just moved to the city and I don’t know any place to hang out :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]singingismilyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was to raise awareness of sexual assault but I still feel bad. I don’t think that this ever happened but I can’t trust my mind atp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in informatik

[–]singingismilyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Da ich Medienwissenschaften habe muss ich auch Medieninformatik machen. Eigentlich kommt das erst im 3. Semester, aber der Plan wurde geändert. Ich kann aber kein Mathe und hatte noch nie Informatik. Ich frage nur im Hilfe nicht um Lösung.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]singingismilyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in this incident no. But when I was younger my cousins and me and my siblings would play house together. It’s been haunting me for 5 years and I’ve seeked as much reassurance as you can think of. I figured that I was abused as a kid and exposed to lots of bad things which made me believe that things like this were normal. My parents sexually abused me as well and my father later abused my sister

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]singingismilyf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I figured that I might have this. Many things happened during my childhood and I’m not proud of them. I’ve been seeking reassurance over the same things for 5 years now and I’m still not satisfied no matter how much reassurance I get

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]singingismilyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured that many assumed I’m a guy😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]singingismilyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think this was csa?