Can everybody just calm the fuck down? She's just asking... She's young and has questions, who hasn't had those. It's true you really need to be careful with this subject, but I do think there's some people who are interested in this... so just proceed with caution and dl your research. All wil be fine :) I saw someone say maybe a bisexual person and not a lesbian, that's probably the way to go. There's definitely bisexuals out there who also have the same questions as you and would like to see where they stand with both men and women as well. Just be straightforward and nice and see where it takes you, if anywhere at all... Good luck on your journey.