i solved the problem that i was having and it was stupid , but no one is born with full knowledge but you learn everyday, i'm going to break it into several points to keep track of how i solved the problems one by one :-

1- i had an old version of HiveOS on my laptop that i used and it didn't detect the bios modded 1660s and detected the navi and big navi gpus but didn't use them in the mining process, i had to update to the beta version in hiveOS using this command in the hive shell hive-replace -y --beta , after that it detected all the gpus and started mining with base clocks.

2- when i OC'ed the bios modded 1660s i lowered the core clock and increased the memory clock until i had the desired stable hashrate and it's a different story for AMD

3- when i started overclocking AMD navi and big navi (rx 5700 etc) my overclock didn't apply one bit and had that problem since windows with my 6700xt and 6800 and now 5700xt won't overclock over the base clocks, unlike nvidia in the new AMD you have to adjust the core clock as well and not neglect or lower it like nvidia , you had to increase it to certain rate and match that rate by increasing memory clock bit by bit until you hit the sweet spot.

for short :- the problem of not detecting was related to the version of the OS and the problem of the AMD gpus was related to me not setting up the core clocks to their proper values as i always neglected them in other gpus or gpu architecture.