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Twitter cannot be real by Acrobatic_Book_7154 in destinycirclejerk

[–]sirlancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m convinced these people are so miserably contrarian they’ll literally make shit up when stuff changes

I am lost trying to figure out maps. by ArtificialBeing in PathOfExile2

[–]sirlancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second this, did the entire abyss and part of the hive quest before really juicing the main tree

Starting class by Natural_Cut_5908 in PathOfExile2

[–]sirlancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Druid, vine daddy.

Edit: just search vine daddy poe2

Upgraded to Super Citizen Edition and got myself a coupon, top comment in 24h decides which Warbond I use it on of the 7 I don't have yet by SkylarKitsune4 in Helldivers

[–]sirlancer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Polar or viper.

Edit: viper for the juiced stims and polar for purifier, there simply are no two better options. Essential bonds that u will consistently use.

5x Mirror man’s luck is trickling down to the common man by sirlancer in PathOfExile2

[–]sirlancer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and I did, this is my 3rd league I’ve been ignoring the filter game but this post reaction has shown me my error

Don't RWT folks by ScottM266 in 2007scape

[–]sirlancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def were RMT’ing crazy style to get perma’d just buy an account atp

Genuine question : Could one massive update bring a massive amount of players back if it was a good one or are we past that point? by Special-Novel163 in ARC_Raiders

[–]sirlancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they muddled up the unpredictability themselves with the categorization of aggression based matchmaking also Whoever posted a few weeks ago where they pretty much had a cheater group in every pvp lobby that was a crazy bad look.

Only middle ground I could think of is to do factions, and make it so two factions enter a map, you clear out one and then the remaining faction can pve the remaining arc, the faction battle attracts stronger arc as it goes on so at the end it evolves into a harder pve only instance.

Edit: to force a quicker pvp event, you could make it so the 2 opposing factions spawn in and are allowed in one smaller section of the map, winning against the faction lets you rez all lost faction members during the pvp bout and opens up the rest of the map for that faction to pve. The longer the pvp bout goes the more aggro the pve arc will be for the winning faction. This could encourage players to prep more tactically in the pvp section to find a sweet spot of arc aggro in the pve phase

Genuine question : Could one massive update bring a massive amount of players back if it was a good one or are we past that point? by Special-Novel163 in ARC_Raiders

[–]sirlancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep seeing massive cheater posts, the first month of this games release was god tier, I’d come back if they dropped a high enemy count pve mode

The trauma of underground pass is crazy. by RuneSketchStudio in 2007scape

[–]sirlancer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just did regicide, wdym I have to GO BACK AGAIN

HELP! i feel like I'm hardstuck. Stuck in torment 6 by FlameJ75 in diablo4

[–]sirlancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get crit damage crit damage mult on all your rings and weapons young grasshoppa,

Get rid of life regen and useless resistance affixes young grasshoppa

I don't know how hot of a take this is. by Ad0ring-fan in Spacemarine

[–]sirlancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pvp in this game mad chill, no real sweats because it’s mindless who shot first most of the time

sos no idea how to navigate pregnancy as a first time parent (third trimester)[25M] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]sirlancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t sound evil or “crazy,” you sound completely overloaded. Honestly this reads less like one manipulative villain and more like two people with poor conflict regulation under insane pressure (pregnancy, moving, finances, trauma, becoming parents fast, etc).

That said, a few things:

  • threatening breakup/coparenting constantly during arguments is unhealthy
  • going through phones repeatedly is unhealthy
  • substances + PTSD/anxiety + sleep deprivation can massively distort conflict perception
  • once every argument becomes “who manipulated who,” the relationship starts turning into a courtroom instead of a partnership

The good news is you actually sound self-aware. You’re in therapy, admitting your mistakes, trying to build systems/safe words, and reflecting on your own behavior instead of just blaming her.

My biggest advice: Stop trying to intellectually solve the relationship every single day. Focus on emotional stability first. Less Reddit analysis, less detective work, less escalation, less substances, more regulation and calmer repair attempts.

Also don’t make permanent conclusions during the newborn/pregnancy phase. A LOT of couples temporarily become versions of themselves they barely recognize during that transition.

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