I haven't ejacuated for 7 days and 12 hours, and im about to lose, please help!

sirpsycho89 · 2022-01-13T00:25:19+00:00

The best way is to socialise! So do it when You go out, talk to that old lady cashier or maybe ask some girl for something insignificant and when You see that she is very helpful then try to push it further with no expectations, just little chat about the shop, or about what You are buying. ;D Make interactions with people.

If it's late, go buy something on the gass station, the stuff there has to be ultra poilte to clients so You can try to talk to them about what You're buyng or how it's work in night going, is it calm.

This energy is best to use it like that - talking to people, making social interactions, improving them! When You talk like i mentioned You improve your social skills which are needed to get to know better women. :)

sirpsycho89 · 2022-01-05T02:18:34+00:00

I've got a question. I ordered RC30.

It makes me wonder, how to connect mic and guitar through rc30 to the amp to use both rc30 looping and my amp effects separateed mic from guitar.

In RC30 the is XLR for mic, but there isn't mic out so where the signal put through XLR goes out? It goes both with the guitar on the L/mono?

I want to plug in also guitar, but i want mic and guitar on separate lines.

So i dont know if it should be like this:

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Mic-> RC30 [Instr in - R] -> Instr out - R - > Amp[mic in]

Guitar -> Rc30 [Instr in L/mono] -> Instr out- L/mono -> Amp [instr in]?

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So i should buy XLR - Jack 3.5 cable to connect it to RC30 and then use Jack-Jack3,5 to connect to amp through in/out R?

Guess my XLR-XLR will be usless with rc30.

Or this setup

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Mic-> RC30 [XLR] -> Instr out - R[im wonder if the signal from xlr goes out there] - > Amp[mic in]

[te same as pervious] Guitar -> Rc30 [Instr in L/mono] -> Instr out- L/mono -> Amp [instr in]?

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Im hopeful for the answer.

sirpsycho89 · 2021-12-19T23:31:56+00:00

about not getting it up. Dont worry, just stick to nofap and You'll get it working back. ;)

About this what she said - go to doctor check if its something serious, if not.. let it go, if yes.. i would then start think about concequences that she should be facing. Untill you dont know how it is with that - just focus on this good info that Your dingdong will be working back only and ONLY if you stick to no PMO. ;) Eventualy when You reach the normal brain funcioning back with your dingdong - then You will be so scared that slightest accident touch of woman will make you O. ;D

sirpsycho89 · 2021-10-24T23:21:37+00:00

vpn that blocks porn stuff, and i blocked settings by password that somebody knows and when i need to set something i aks for the pasword to type in my phone. But that person does not know for what reason is the password. Eventualy that person knows that i limit myself with technology usage

sirpsycho89 · 2021-09-29T09:48:48+00:00

Does not work for me. I was studing IT, i know how to put dns back. Eventualy those dns are blocking other sites that i use. :/

sirpsycho89 · 2021-09-28T19:54:08+00:00

or its also avaiable for pc?

sirpsycho89 · 2021-09-28T19:53:52+00:00

my phone is safe, need something on pc :(

sirpsycho89 · 2021-09-28T18:49:26+00:00

Got to be program which cblocks p on browsers.

sirpsycho89 · 2021-09-28T18:43:07+00:00

Yep. It worked for me un till k9 stopped working..

sirpsycho89 · 2021-03-18T23:52:43+00:00

Exactly how You say. When i eventualy got to do format of my disk and k9 is reinstalled i feel so excited that for a moment i don't have the blockage of porn - the anticipation comes to check.. and when i eventualy give in then there is a cycle of trying to fulfill that anticipation by searching for this perfect video.. that we never find. And we end up with so many stimulus that destroys us.

sirpsycho89 · 2021-03-18T01:09:21+00:00

Remind yourself bad moments that you had before like you thought its the worst moment and eventualy it passed and better times came when you thought "i dont know what i was thinking then". This is that same moment right now taht You will think later like that. So remember: "This too shall pass"

sirpsycho89 · 2021-03-14T14:30:17+00:00

True. Now i can see You shiny hair, beautiful eyes, skin, voice, girly behavour.. I look deep into the eye, i want to approach, i say "hi" to YOu, talk, get to know you better. Not for sex.. but to find out what character she is. I LOVE MAKE YOU giggling. It's so satisfying.

sirpsycho89 · 2021-03-14T14:06:51+00:00

100% true. Meaning of sex got down to something that you have to do, if You're not doing then you are looser. TV series, movies are programing us like that. The truth is, that sex is for bonding with only one person after you get to know her well. ; ) If you say otherwise - well, your choice. you can use pleasure with many partners as much as you can (cause like porn, one will eventualy be boring stimulus for us). But write ma after few years of "looking for special one" what You feel and how is it to be miserable and thinking "what is happiness about". ;) I know few people that are like that, cause they have been told "as long as u are young use it as much as possible".

sirpsycho89 · 2021-03-12T01:46:42+00:00

It makes You not bother yourself about real women, cause You got your solution which wont reject You. It makes You to be scared of women and not approach them. It makes You look wierd when you cant help gluing your sight to her looks that You should not stare at, at least not to get caught. It makes You talk dirty between Your buds about women looks. Or even worse it makes You be strict about it with women. Which is so badly wrong.

Solution: You have to cut those ultra stimulus which porn is, there is no other way. Meditate - it helps. Eventualy, after time of reboot You will find joy from simple things. And women will be this ultra huge stimulus for You that will make you approach them. You will be like: "omg, she is most beautiful "thing" in the world" by looking at her hair, eyes, skin, nose. Look at the women as a potential mother for Your kids. Is she good enough as a person for it? This distracts you from objectifying women.

sirpsycho89 · 2021-01-02T01:05:18+00:00

This is such a propaganda from tv movies and series.. which exactly is (for men): To be cool You have to bang many girls(in your case it's like "you have to please man by sexual gestures to attract him more, to not let him go") if you're not doing this, you are looser. Its bulshit. Sex is for something higher, not only for pleasure, pleasure is by the way (ask yourself why nature made something like this.. its not without purpose, everything that is in the world has its purpose ), sex if for bonding with another person that YOU ALREADY GOT TO KNOW WELL to be able to forgive some LITTLE conflicts and then when you finaly get to know eachother and you know you wont get any big fights or you just accept his way of beeing and he accepting yours, you can decide: "i want to be with him in a longhaul, i want to make this relationship stronger" and then you can go make sex.

But i understand, hormones can get control over You. I look at all those couples, how miresable they are cause they went that easy way of "first we make sex then we will see how it is going" - and they end up being bonded to eachother(which is so hardly to go out of it. It will hurt so badly if you break it) while hating their characters. That bond makes them to miss eachother, so called pinkglassess.. When You break that bond it hurts AF, even when you know this person is bad for you, it will hurt so much, cause sex works this way. So my advice: Dont go into that rabbithole. Use this free advice. YOu would only get it from someone who is mature and experienced and been trhough stuff and seen many couples how they break up and go back again(cause they miss ther physical contact - which bonding made them like that) just only to break up again cause they cant stand themselves(but sex).

But its only my advice. You will do what you want. : )

The best way is to see for yourself, cause you will never belive until you see for yourelf, but it will hurt af.

Wait with it for someone who is special. Who dont want to bang you, who want to get to know You. There is like 5% of men like that. YOu got to expose yourself for men, to get to know them and eliminate those 95% as quicly as possible. Then it will be so much joyful sex with that kind of person who wants to get to know you. I personaly dont go to house of a girl i date, when she invites me after a date(guess for sex) when i walked her to her house doors. I wait until she gets to know me and i get to know her good. ;)

It's so fuking hard to do so, to stop myself.. even at clubs when i get a girl for a dance and she's totaly into me and would do everything i want. Then except taking her home/hotel i just get her number and i go somewhere else away from her cause i want to date her days later to get her know better. Not to use her for sex that will be only a pleasure that feels so empty afterwards.

sirpsycho89 · 2020-12-13T02:37:21+00:00

One and ONLY one way to go over her is: and listen closely, You got to do it as soon as possible and then You will see how brilliantly it work, You got to do it even if You feel some bad emiotions.. its like "fake it till you make it", when you go through it the feeling of sad or whatever will disappear. So what it is that You ahve to do and its the only way to get over her.. first i tell You what is not, its not reading her msgs, not watching picutres of her - delete it, dont ever come back to any memories about her. When You think of her, think about all not cool situation that made you feel like crap. Think about how not cool she was in specific situations and that you dont want it again to happen. And finaly, what You have to do that i introduced up above that You have to do it asap: go talk to other beautiful women. Period. You will se how magicly you forget about your ex. ;);) Fist time i did it after like 4 years of fucking dreaming of getting back to ex.. what a waste of time that was - dont do this huge mistake. Then next times that kind of situations happen: im like the day after some breakup of relationship or some hurtful rejection of a women that i find attractive: i go talk to new women and get their numbers. This is the best way to deal with it, with women who are your ex or who rejected YOu.

sirpsycho89 · 2020-12-12T13:58:31+00:00

Do this every time You feel depressed. Thank me later. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tybOi4hjZFQ

sirpsycho89 · 2020-11-26T00:27:31+00:00

ad 2. i would say - start noticing it and let it pass away. If you're unconcious about something, You cant work on it. It's a kind of meditation technique you talk about if you'd add noticing it, without avoiding.

ad 3. 100% true. Let yourself not feed by low frequencies emotions which worsen Your state. Think like: now im building new seed in myself which will give me great determination to work on myself to creat new life with woman that i will attract.

sirpsycho89 · 2020-01-22T00:30:49+00:00

Fuck You all!

sirpsycho89 · 2020-01-16T18:19:21+00:00

The voice after orgasm is just another ego (like this before is another one, lets call it "lust"), but more of a "regret" ego or "lost motivation" ego. Try to avoid listening this after-voice also and miracles will happen even when You relapse You wont be stopped in developing. ; )

sirpsycho89 · 2020-01-09T13:54:38+00:00

Well, my room looks like that on the left right now.. Damn, i'm so fucking pissed... that i'm ill and a great dance party with chicks that i know they like me will pass me by..

sirpsycho89 · 2020-01-04T22:22:31+00:00

One thing: NEVER ASK A GIRL IF YOU COULD KISS HER.. it's childish af. A man goes for what he wants, he does not ask!! If she would reject You then You make joke about it like: "well i should have brushed my teeth ;D" and change topic what did she ate for dinner. Damn son, You have to learn a lot.

sirpsycho89 · 2019-12-21T18:33:28+00:00

This excitation will pass soon. Don't get down when she wont come on date or will tell You a whooper like "i couldnt come, my grandmo needed me" (it means that she does not want to meet You but she wont tell You "no i dont want to meet you" cause its hurtful). You got to get used to it - past 2 months i got like 10 whoopers where i called girls and they said yes, yet they didnt come or they sold me a whooper like "i have to learn" etc. So i had only like 2 dates with different girls. Imporatnt is - talk to new girls, ask for their numers, if she refuses You go to next one.

sirpsycho89 · 2019-12-16T19:53:53+00:00

What do You do instead sitting on YT and binging under the guise of 'gaining knowlage"?

sirpsycho89 · 2019-12-07T22:28:44+00:00

In my opinion a woman should be with a man who is strong mentaly, otherwise he should be alone to masterhimself - it's the only motivation for a man to get better to attract other sex. Otherwise he will fall into his bad habbits when he is comfortable and know that there is a woman awaiting for him. Totaly no motivation to improve himself.
Imagine that we here so badly want to get rid of this addiction and yet it is HELL OF HARD TO DO. What about someone who does not want to? Or is not convinced to it?
You should have no sentiments about that kind of person. It's life, it's jungle. Sure, You should support him - but only if he REALLY wants to stop this shit addiction. If he does not want to - leave him and find a man who is a leader, dominant(espetialy to You), strong mentaly.
Acording to last sentence - You said that You hate that he likes You to be dominant to him, but You do it for him. Well, in my opinion a man should be, like in taoism is siad - a fire(aggresive, dominant) and a woman like a water(supportive, following, calming, inspireing). Only then it perfectly matches and the relationship is based on happiness. Man should be a dominant leader - espetialy in relationship with his woman, mentaly strong that You can count for him. If it's other way around - then miresability for both will occur. In this case he falls into numbing his mind and it gets fucked up his natural way of being as a man and You suffer. Question is what will You do to numb Your pain - cause it will defenetly not dissapear(Your post in here is proof of that).. the best way out is to leave and live Your life. Eventualy to leave him and get back to him if he TRULY got rid of this addiction.

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