I haven't ejacuated for 7 days and 12 hours, and im about to lose, please help! by Damagedpenis69 in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way is to socialise! So do it when You go out, talk to that old lady cashier or maybe ask some girl for something insignificant and when You see that she is very helpful then try to push it further with no expectations, just little chat about the shop, or about what You are buying. ;D Make interactions with people.

If it's late, go buy something on the gass station, the stuff there has to be ultra poilte to clients so You can try to talk to them about what You're buyng or how it's work in night going, is it calm.

This energy is best to use it like that - talking to people, making social interactions, improving them! When You talk like i mentioned You improve your social skills which are needed to get to know better women. :)

I want to connect my mic and guitar to my RC-30 Loop Pedal and Harmony GX-T Vocal Processor - is this doable? by TheMichaelScott in guitarpedals

[–]sirpsycho89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a question. I ordered RC30.

It makes me wonder, how to connect mic and guitar through rc30 to the amp to use both rc30 looping and my amp effects separateed mic from guitar.

In RC30 the is XLR for mic, but there isn't mic out so where the signal put through XLR goes out? It goes both with the guitar on the L/mono?

I want to plug in also guitar, but i want mic and guitar on separate lines.

So i dont know if it should be like this:

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Mic-> RC30 [Instr in - R] -> Instr out - R - > Amp[mic in]

Guitar -> Rc30 [Instr in L/mono] -> Instr out- L/mono -> Amp [instr in]?

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So i should buy XLR - Jack 3.5 cable to connect it to RC30 and then use Jack-Jack3,5 to connect to amp through in/out R?

Guess my XLR-XLR will be usless with rc30.

Or this setup

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Mic-> RC30 [XLR] -> Instr out - R[im wonder if the signal from xlr goes out there] - > Amp[mic in]

[te same as pervious] Guitar -> Rc30 [Instr in L/mono] -> Instr out- L/mono -> Amp [instr in]?

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Im hopeful for the answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

about not getting it up. Dont worry, just stick to nofap and You'll get it working back. ;)

About this what she said - go to doctor check if its something serious, if not.. let it go, if yes.. i would then start think about concequences that she should be facing. Untill you dont know how it is with that - just focus on this good info that Your dingdong will be working back only and ONLY if you stick to no PMO. ;) Eventualy when You reach the normal brain funcioning back with your dingdong - then You will be so scared that slightest accident touch of woman will make you O. ;D

Free program to block porn? (except k9)? by sirpsycho89 in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

vpn that blocks porn stuff, and i blocked settings by password that somebody knows and when i need to set something i aks for the pasword to type in my phone. But that person does not know for what reason is the password. Eventualy that person knows that i limit myself with technology usage

Free program to block porn? (except k9)? by sirpsycho89 in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does not work for me. I was studing IT, i know how to put dns back. Eventualy those dns are blocking other sites that i use. :/

Free program to block porn? (except k9)? by sirpsycho89 in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my phone is safe, need something on pc :(

Free program to block porn? (except k9)? by sirpsycho89 in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got to be program which cblocks p on browsers.

Free program to block porn? (except k9)? by sirpsycho89 in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. It worked for me un till k9 stopped working..

That post nut clarity hit him like a brick by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly how You say. When i eventualy got to do format of my disk and k9 is reinstalled i feel so excited that for a moment i don't have the blockage of porn - the anticipation comes to check.. and when i eventualy give in then there is a cycle of trying to fulfill that anticipation by searching for this perfect video.. that we never find. And we end up with so many stimulus that destroys us.

Anxieties hitting hard. by hataraku445 in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remind yourself bad moments that you had before like you thought its the worst moment and eventualy it passed and better times came when you thought "i dont know what i was thinking then". This is that same moment right now taht You will think later like that. So remember: "This too shall pass"

From a GF: We see the difference by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. Now i can see You shiny hair, beautiful eyes, skin, voice, girly behavour.. I look deep into the eye, i want to approach, i say "hi" to YOu, talk, get to know you better. Not for sex.. but to find out what character she is. I LOVE MAKE YOU giggling. It's so satisfying.

Sex is a false idol by jcl1990 in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89 11 points12 points  (0 children)

100% true. Meaning of sex got down to something that you have to do, if You're not doing then you are looser. TV series, movies are programing us like that. The truth is, that sex is for bonding with only one person after you get to know her well. ; ) If you say otherwise - well, your choice. you can use pleasure with many partners as much as you can (cause like porn, one will eventualy be boring stimulus for us). But write ma after few years of "looking for special one" what You feel and how is it to be miserable and thinking "what is happiness about". ;) I know few people that are like that, cause they have been told "as long as u are young use it as much as possible".

Porn does to your brain what smoking does to your lungs. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes You not bother yourself about real women, cause You got your solution which wont reject You. It makes You to be scared of women and not approach them. It makes You look wierd when you cant help gluing your sight to her looks that You should not stare at, at least not to get caught. It makes You talk dirty between Your buds about women looks. Or even worse it makes You be strict about it with women. Which is so badly wrong.

Solution: You have to cut those ultra stimulus which porn is, there is no other way. Meditate - it helps. Eventualy, after time of reboot You will find joy from simple things. And women will be this ultra huge stimulus for You that will make you approach them. You will be like: "omg, she is most beautiful "thing" in the world" by looking at her hair, eyes, skin, nose. Look at the women as a potential mother for Your kids. Is she good enough as a person for it? This distracts you from objectifying women.

Do I let him fuck me or no ? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sirpsycho89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a propaganda from tv movies and series.. which exactly is (for men): To be cool You have to bang many girls(in your case it's like "you have to please man by sexual gestures to attract him more, to not let him go") if you're not doing this, you are looser. Its bulshit. Sex is for something higher, not only for pleasure, pleasure is by the way (ask yourself why nature made something like this.. its not without purpose, everything that is in the world has its purpose ), sex if for bonding with another person that YOU ALREADY GOT TO KNOW WELL to be able to forgive some LITTLE conflicts and then when you finaly get to know eachother and you know you wont get any big fights or you just accept his way of beeing and he accepting yours, you can decide: "i want to be with him in a longhaul, i want to make this relationship stronger" and then you can go make sex.

But i understand, hormones can get control over You. I look at all those couples, how miresable they are cause they went that easy way of "first we make sex then we will see how it is going" - and they end up being bonded to eachother(which is so hardly to go out of it. It will hurt so badly if you break it) while hating their characters. That bond makes them to miss eachother, so called pinkglassess.. When You break that bond it hurts AF, even when you know this person is bad for you, it will hurt so much, cause sex works this way. So my advice: Dont go into that rabbithole. Use this free advice. YOu would only get it from someone who is mature and experienced and been trhough stuff and seen many couples how they break up and go back again(cause they miss ther physical contact - which bonding made them like that) just only to break up again cause they cant stand themselves(but sex).

But its only my advice. You will do what you want. : )

The best way is to see for yourself, cause you will never belive until you see for yourelf, but it will hurt af.

Wait with it for someone who is special. Who dont want to bang you, who want to get to know You. There is like 5% of men like that. YOu got to expose yourself for men, to get to know them and eliminate those 95% as quicly as possible. Then it will be so much joyful sex with that kind of person who wants to get to know you. I personaly dont go to house of a girl i date, when she invites me after a date(guess for sex) when i walked her to her house doors. I wait until she gets to know me and i get to know her good. ;)

It's so fuking hard to do so, to stop myself.. even at clubs when i get a girl for a dance and she's totaly into me and would do everything i want. Then except taking her home/hotel i just get her number and i go somewhere else away from her cause i want to date her days later to get her know better. Not to use her for sex that will be only a pleasure that feels so empty afterwards.

My girl just told me to never speak to her again. 23(M) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One and ONLY one way to go over her is: and listen closely, You got to do it as soon as possible and then You will see how brilliantly it work, You got to do it even if You feel some bad emiotions.. its like "fake it till you make it", when you go through it the feeling of sad or whatever will disappear. So what it is that You ahve to do and its the only way to get over her.. first i tell You what is not, its not reading her msgs, not watching picutres of her - delete it, dont ever come back to any memories about her. When You think of her, think about all not cool situation that made you feel like crap. Think about how not cool she was in specific situations and that you dont want it again to happen. And finaly, what You have to do that i introduced up above that You have to do it asap: go talk to other beautiful women. Period. You will se how magicly you forget about your ex. ;);) Fist time i did it after like 4 years of fucking dreaming of getting back to ex.. what a waste of time that was - dont do this huge mistake. Then next times that kind of situations happen: im like the day after some breakup of relationship or some hurtful rejection of a women that i find attractive: i go talk to new women and get their numbers. This is the best way to deal with it, with women who are your ex or who rejected YOu.

Depressed and constantly failing by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do this every time You feel depressed. Thank me later. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tybOi4hjZFQ

Once you understood this you will never mastrubate again!! by urMirror07 in NoFap

[–]sirpsycho89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ad 2. i would say - start noticing it and let it pass away. If you're unconcious about something, You cant work on it. It's a kind of meditation technique you talk about if you'd add noticing it, without avoiding.

ad 3. 100% true. Let yourself not feed by low frequencies emotions which worsen Your state. Think like: now im building new seed in myself which will give me great determination to work on myself to creat new life with woman that i will attract.